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Pls bros and sisters let me know if im sinning (Mortal, Venial, or Occasion of Sin)
I became friends with a girl who is married at my job.(we been friends approximately for a year and a half) when she works we almost have lunch all the time in work and have had a couple of times outside of work during lunch, sometimes breaks too. im confused because i go back and forth saying if i do like her or not. right now i think i do have a crush on her but theirs been times where i have been confused. The only time i think i crossed the line was when i told her that i would miss her when i left the job and when she told me that she missed me (when we didn’t see each other for a while) and asked if i missed her and i said yes but i think i kinda of stumbled to reply (I have repented for both of those things). I’ve asked her before if her husband would to come in and saw us having lunch in a restaurant would he get mad and she said no, then i asked her if you walked in a restaurant and saw your husband with a girl would you get mad and i think she hesitated to answer but said no and i asked her are you sure and she said yes. theirs been times when she gives me rides to work and back (but mostly when she starts or ends at the same time as i do for work) and i have asked her many times if her husband will get mad or if he is ok with her giving me rides and she said no he wont be mad and hes ok with it. I get bad sexual thoughts that i do not desire about her but most of them is not about me and her, just her and her husband, I DISLIKE THEM to a point where i yell saying go away and i think hit my head. THESE PAST FEW MONTHS I BEEN MORTIFIED BECAUSE I DON’T WANT TO BE SINNING. I ALREADY ASKED 3 PRIESTS ABOUT THIS SUBJECT 1 TOLD ME IF YOU START HAVING FEELINGS FOR HER TO KEEP YOUR DISTANCE ETC, THE OTHER SAID ITS NOT A SIN TO HAVE A CRUSH ON HER AS LONG AS I DON’T ELL HER THAT I DO BECAUSE THEN THAT WOULD BE A SIN, AND THE OTHER SAID IT WASN’T A SIN TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER ETC
I DONT HAVE HER NUMBER NOR ARE WE FREINDS IN FACEBOOK I JUST SEE HER MOST OF THE TIME DURING WORK. AND WHEN WE TALK ITS MOSTLY ABOUT LIFE. SHES KNOWS THAT IM INTO THE CATHOLIC FAITH AND I EVEN TELL HER TO GO TO CHURCH ETC ( SHES CATHOLIC TOO)
( I DONT KNOW IF THIS MATTERS BUT IM A 21 YEAR OLD MALE SOON TO BE 22 THAT HAS NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND AND SHES 7 YEARS OLDER THAN ME AND PRETTY TOO )
PLS LET ME KNOW BROS AND SISTERS GOD BLESS YOU ALL
I became friends with a girl who is married at my job.(we been friends approximately for a year and a half) when she works we almost have lunch all the time in work and have had a couple of times outside of work during lunch, sometimes breaks too. im confused because i go back and forth saying if i do like her or not. right now i think i do have a crush on her but theirs been times where i have been confused. The only time i think i crossed the line was when i told her that i would miss her when i left the job and when she told me that she missed me (when we didn’t see each other for a while) and asked if i missed her and i said yes but i think i kinda of stumbled to reply (I have repented for both of those things). I’ve asked her before if her husband would to come in and saw us having lunch in a restaurant would he get mad and she said no, then i asked her if you walked in a restaurant and saw your husband with a girl would you get mad and i think she hesitated to answer but said no and i asked her are you sure and she said yes. theirs been times when she gives me rides to work and back (but mostly when she starts or ends at the same time as i do for work) and i have asked her many times if her husband will get mad or if he is ok with her giving me rides and she said no he wont be mad and hes ok with it. I get bad sexual thoughts that i do not desire about her but most of them is not about me and her, just her and her husband, I DISLIKE THEM to a point where i yell saying go away and i think hit my head. THESE PAST FEW MONTHS I BEEN MORTIFIED BECAUSE I DON’T WANT TO BE SINNING. I ALREADY ASKED 3 PRIESTS ABOUT THIS SUBJECT 1 TOLD ME IF YOU START HAVING FEELINGS FOR HER TO KEEP YOUR DISTANCE ETC, THE OTHER SAID ITS NOT A SIN TO HAVE A CRUSH ON HER AS LONG AS I DON’T ELL HER THAT I DO BECAUSE THEN THAT WOULD BE A SIN, AND THE OTHER SAID IT WASN’T A SIN TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER ETC
I DONT HAVE HER NUMBER NOR ARE WE FREINDS IN FACEBOOK I JUST SEE HER MOST OF THE TIME DURING WORK. AND WHEN WE TALK ITS MOSTLY ABOUT LIFE. SHES KNOWS THAT IM INTO THE CATHOLIC FAITH AND I EVEN TELL HER TO GO TO CHURCH ETC ( SHES CATHOLIC TOO)
( I DONT KNOW IF THIS MATTERS BUT IM A 21 YEAR OLD MALE SOON TO BE 22 THAT HAS NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND AND SHES 7 YEARS OLDER THAN ME AND PRETTY TOO )
PLS LET ME KNOW BROS AND SISTERS GOD BLESS YOU ALL