Can you explain my points?
I don’t know why you got this impression. Orthodox on CAF are usually very respectful, even when they disagree.
This also suprised me but-] I realised that they have little choice than to say this as to accept the truth of the Fatima apparitions for example is to accept purgatory and other claimed ‘innovations’ (mentioned by Our Lady)./-]
Even Roman Catholics are not bound to believe in these apparitions. And they are allowed to have any reason whatever for this opinion.
The simple fact is the Latin Catholic church, in ancient agreement with Holy Orthodoxy (and even the non-Chalcedonians and the Nestorians) that the age of revelation is closed since the death of the last Apostle. This is an example of one of the ancient things that would make us close, if anything. That is why Montanism was condemned (which made the great Latin Catholic thinker Tertullian a heretic) and that is why your church cannot make belief in any message an apparation may leave to anyone binding upon the faithful. Different people have different reasons why they dont believe in messages like that. Orthodox are normally taught (legacy of the desert fathers) to not even listen to angels, for the devil is crafty in his disguises Since these apparitions talk, and they are not in the church, Orthodox would usually dismiss such things without a second thought. If pressed for a response by someone like you who doesn’t understand the Orthodox view, the automatic knee-jerk honest answer would be the one we would use if an apparition came talking to me as an Orthodox Christian: it could be the devil.
If Saint Mary appeared to a Lutheran would you feel compelled to believe the message?
friends who likewise denigrate Saint Bernadette who is incorrupt
I know that thread, and there were a whole lot of people posting, including agnostics and Anglicans, and me.
I pointed out that if she has to wear a wax mask she is not in fact incorrupt. Then K G went on about how that doesn’t matter because one can see her holiness despite the wax mask, and the whole thread, which was supposed to be about incorrupt saints went down a rabbit hole over her sanctity, which was just a red herring. No one who is not a devotee of hers really cares about how holy she was, the subject was incorrupt saints and she wears a mask. I lost interest and stopped reading the thread so I don’t know what else might have been said by anyone. I have no horse in that race, but IMO the appropriate thing to do would be rebury her and stop misrepresenting her as incorruptible.
I do believe incorruption could be a sign of holiness, but some Orthodox historically have thought that a rapid corruption was a sign of holiness too. People also see a lot of strange things and smell marvelous odors when someone holy dies. Let’s call them wonders.
There is also their problem of lack of unity (e.g. the ROC bans contraception but the GC permits it where a priest has given permission) and of competition outside their national church areas of influence which is unknown in the Catholic Church.
Here you are showing an anti-Orthodox bias.
I understand that because when I was a Catholic I shared these same feelings for decades. If you want to start a thread on these points we can address your concerns. Or you may go to an Orthodox forum and lay it all out for them.
A lot of the EO hate Catholicism but I have never met a Catholic who hates Orthodoxy - By their fruits?
This is what I answered in my earlier post. The Orthodox here do not hate Latin Catholicism, we are your brothers in Christ.
Your church really has no choice but to acknowledge Holy Orthodoxy as a legitimate Apostolic church with valid bishops and liturgies according to your own understanding. We Orthodox have a slightly different understanding about orders outside of our own church (which is now slowly taking hold in your own church too because of Archbishop Milingo). Because of this and in view of the doctrinal disputes we cannot automatically view your orders and bishops in the same way as ours, but maybe someday we will come to a mutual understanding down the road once the doctrinal issues are resolved.

I and my Orthodox friends pray for Christian unity.
We Orthodox are in your past, and hopefully in your future, as you guys work it out for the present.
Pax et Bonum,