Having trouble with examination of conscience

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If nothing comes up when you do an examination of conscience, does it mean you haven’t sinned, or that you’re doing it wrong? :confused: Does anyone else know what I’m talking about?!
Maybe some tips or pointers on examination of conscience would be helpful.
 
Sometimes when I prepare for confession, ‘nothing’ comes to mind. But it doesn’t mean that you haven’t sinned. Just keep praying to the Holy Spirit to surface the sins that you need to confess.

Go to your nearest Catholic bookstore and sometimes they have books that will help you with confession. At my church, when they have a Communal Penance Service, they hand out a sheet with different questions and such to help you reflect. If you PM me your mailing address, I can send you a copy, because I actually saved it.

Take Care,

Barbara
 
The liturgical book Rite of Peance includes an Appendix III with a detailed examination of conscience. It presents them as “1. This suggested form for an examination of conscience should be completed and adapted to meet the needs of different individuals and to follow local usages.”

It begins with questions on the Sacrament of Penance itself:
"2. In an examination of conscience, before the sacrament of penance, each individual should ask himself these questions in particular:
  1. What is my attitude to the sacrament of penance?
    Do I sincerely want to be set free from sin, to turn again to God, to begin a new life, and to enter into a deeper friendship with God?
    Or do I look on it as a burden, to be undertaken as seldom as possible?
  2. Did I forget to mention, or deliberately conceal, any grave sins in past confessions?
  3. Did I perform the penance I was given? Did I make reparation for any injury to others? Have I tried to put into practice my resolution to lead a better life in keeping with the Gospel?"
    (From The Rites Volume One, Liturgical Press, 1990, ISBN: 0-8146-6015-0, page 625).
Then it has three Scripture quotations, followed by a series of questions for the examination of conscience. The first of these is at dioceseoflafayette.org/word/0554.htm and the second two are at dioceseoflafayette.org/word/0555.htm . In the last it omits the last question:
“6. Have I always tried to act in the true freedom of the sons of God according to the law of the Spirit, or am I the slave of forces within me?”

Another examination of conscience, based on these in the Rite of Penance, is at ewtn.com/library/YOUTH/CONFESS.TXT .
 
for most adult Catholics, if they consistently find they have no mortal sins to confess, it either means they are advanced in holiness and living entirely in conformity with Christ which is of course possible, but not likely. Orr it means they have not formed the practice of a daily examen be reviewing the events of the day, recalling and expressing contrition for sins of omission and commission of the day, and resolution for tomorrow. Or it means they are involved in a serious on-going sinful state due to their lifestyle and conveniently “forget” about it since their conscience has dulled: using birth control, habitual self abuse, pornography habit, vicious gossip, abuse of workers, misuse of money or property, racial prejudice etc.
 
If nothing comes up when you do an examination of conscience, does it mean you haven’t sinned, or that you’re doing it wrong? :confused: Does anyone else know what I’m talking about?!
Maybe some tips or pointers on examination of conscience would be helpful.
I recommend that you Google examination of conscience, and browse for one that suits you. there are some that are specifically for teens, and the issues they face, and some that are based around the commandments, some for marrieds, etc. As to your other question, it is the job of the Holy Spirit to convict you of sins. Therefore, if you have asked God to show you any fault in you that keeps you away from Him, you must trust that He will do it. Let God do his part, and then you do yours. When you become aware, it is then your part to take responsibility, confess, and change (with His help).
 
If nothing comes up when you do an examination of conscience, does it mean you haven’t sinned, or that you’re doing it wrong? :confused: Does anyone else know what I’m talking about?!
Maybe some tips or pointers on examination of conscience would be helpful.
Dear Ann:

Some thoughts occure to me:

There are two major divisions of sin: mortal and venial – that is ‘deadly’ and ‘easily forgiven.’ This suggests two parts be included in an examination of conscience.

**The first part **is a consideration of whether one has committed mortal sin. This is crucial. It is the difference between hell and heaven. Because of this decisive nature of mortal sin, this examination must be comprehensive. One has to review all possible mortal sins and discern whether one has committed one or more. Each mortal sin of which one is conscious must be confessed.

For this first portion of the examination it is often helpful to review the Decalogue and consider each of the Commandments. The Decalogue is complete; if the Commandments are understood in a properly broad way, all possible mortal sins fall under one or more of the Commandments – but, keep in mind the exquisite understanding of murder and adultery which Jesus teaches in the Sermon on the Mount.

If one does not find any mortal sins, this means that one does not have any sin that must be confessed. However, frequent confession is not merely a means of avoiding hell, it is an aid to attaining heaven. After the examination for mortal sin, one turns to the second phase of examination of conscience.

Mortal sin makes the difference between heaven and hell; the second stage of examination addresses the difference between heaven and purgatory. Jesus commands us to be “perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect.” (Matthew 5:48.) St. John tells us that “all iniquity is sin,” but not all sin is deadly. (See, 1 John 5:16-17.)

**The second part **of the examination is the discipline that seeks perfect imitation of and obedience to Christ. This is an effort to purge the imperfections which hamper our holiness, and which will delay our entry into heaven by requiring purgation.

The tenor of this part of the examination is different from the first. When considering mortal sin, we must be complete – any mortal sin is fatal to salvation. However, the effort to attain perfection is an ongoing and life-long activity. It cannot be done all at once.

For this part of the examination one does not need a list of possible sins, rather one considers one or two of the virtues. The question is not so much ‘how have I failed,’ but ‘how could I do better the things that I have already done without mortal sin, but also without perfectly following Christ.’ Because, this examination does not require a comprehensive review – we cannot work on everything at once – one can choose just one or two virtues, and then consider the occasions since last going to Confession that one has acted with this virtue, and consider how that action could have been improved. ‘I was honest, but was my honesty pure? Was I motivated by pure intentions, etc.?’ ‘I helped someone in need, but did I do all that I could? Did I do it from love or from some other motivation? Did I notice the person for himself, or did I treat him as a mere project or object of my virtue?’

It is very unlikely when using this kind of examination that one will not find one or more things that could be improved. These imperfections in charity or holiness are most often venial sins, but the work of purging them from our habits and hearts is also a worthy and important part of the work of the Faith and a worthy use of the Confessional.

A word of caution, however, because one does not want to become overwrought or scrupulous with worry, it is usually good to limit this second examination to at most two virtues. This will usually generate more than enough matter for improvement, and will not usually overburden one with things to improve all at once. After all, we have every Saturday for the rest of our lives to work on these many sins of imperfection – but there is no point in saving them all for purgatory.

Pax Christi tecum.

John Hiner

“The sacrament of penance is the masterpiece of God’s goodness. By it our weakness is fortified.”

“It is true that venial sins may be expiated in many ways which are to be highly commended. But to ensure more rapid progress day by day in the path of virtue, We desire that the pious practice of frequent confession, which was introduced into the Church by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, should be earnestly advocated. By it genuine self- knowledge is increased, Christian humility grows, bad habits are corrected, spiritual neglect and tepidity are resisted, the conscience is purified, the will strengthened, a salutary self-control is attained, and an increase of grace is secured by the very fact that the sacrament is received.”

Pius XII, (quoted by Fr. John A. Hardon, S.J., see, ewtn.com/library/PRIESTS/CONFVOCA.TXT.)
 
Perhaps you have used the same examination of conscience for too long. Try a different one, perhaps with a different focus to it. You can suddenly find things that you’ve been doing all along, but ignored. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you each time.

To give a simple example, if you get a new examination, you might find yourself realizing a simple thing like you don’t make enough effort to be on time. Of course it isn’t mortal, but that isn’t the whole point of an examination.
 
I was looking through some old books today and stumbled on the book, Will You Hear My Confession, by Hector Munoz. The entire little book is devoted to an amazing examination of conscience. I found it on Amazon today in the used books. I think it must be out of print. Boy, was I blessed to find this!

Betsy
 
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