Arwen,
I have no idea how you got from my request for a more charitable attitude towards those who find themselves in difficulties to my being a bleeding-heart, tax-borrow-and-spend liberal. I hope you never find yourself at the other end of comments such as those made by Royal Archer, whose comments I was originally addressing, or yours, which you have included among his.
Because you seem unable to comprehend that one can agree that the current government direction is the wrong one *and *not want to vilify people in trouble, I have taken the time to also answer your questions.
But much is expected from those who are given less. And again, we are talking legally here. You think that people should be allowed to be as irresponsible as they please and that everyone else should just pick up their slack.
I don’t know where you got that idea considering that what I am suggesting is that, especially as Catholics, we should speak respectfully of others rather than in such a denigrating manner. (Also, I was referring to RA’s comments, but if you want to include your own comments in there, that’s fine by me.)
If I buy a house for $300,000 and in 6mo I can’t pay my morgage, so the governmetn steps in to help, are you okay with that? If I quit (or get my job to let me go so I can get unemployment) and just go on government aid, is that okay? Are you okay with giving me food stamps? Are you okay with me being on medicare or medicaid, whichever it is?
Currently, one of the players in our society is the institution which is supposed to be the umpire (the government). I have a problem with that, but I’m not in charge, so I can’t really change things around to be the way I would like them to be.
Given the rules in place, which have been set up by the government, things happen which are beyond people’s control. For example, one of the rules is that businesses can be owned by a multiplicity of people and thus there is no one person who is responsible for the morality of the company. Money rules. This to me really throws society out of balance because too much business is then run only on profit-making lines and the corporate decision-makers do not take into account the fact that actual real people are involved.
Another example would be what happened with the mortgages, which is that some concern arose that African Americans were not getting mortgages at the same rate as Caucasians. The government then imposed certain rules which were to encourage home ownership among African Americans, a higher percentage of whom are poor, so the end result is that people in the real estate and mortgage business were pushing houses. Some of these people were more interested in their own profit than they were in the good of their customers. Result? Lots of people ended up being over-extended while others made vast amounts of money.
So, you are lucky. You have a reasonably good head on your shoulders, you have been taught habits of self-control, etc. Not everyone has had it that good. Some people when shown on paper how they “could afford” this and that went for it, because they saw someone they loved really happy about the idea; because they thought it would be a good investment for the future; whatever. OK, so you wouldn’t make that mistake. That doesn’t mean that those who did make that mistake should be lumped in with those whom you disdain.
If I use my food stamps to eat ice cream, friend chicken, mac 'n cheese, chips, and other unhealthy foods is that okay? When all these leads to type II diabetes, heart disease, disability, acid reflux, respiratory problems, strokes, vascular disorders, and all those other fun results of poor eating, do you have any problems with paying all of my bills?
I do not think that the government should be paying for most of what it pays for. And I do think that if charitable enterprises were in charge of charity, that the roots of the problems would be addressed.
Given the fact that we each live in a place in history, and the fact that we did not really have anything to do with the making of that place, and that this is what that place is: far away from a Catholic society based on Catholic morals and ways of thinking; with an education system and other social and governmental institutions which actively indoctrinate people *away *from Catholic morals and ways of thinking, I do not think that there is a solution to be found on either end of the current political spectrum.
In the 1960s, Senator Patrick Moynihan warned what would happen as the result of our then-current welfare policies. Most of what he predicted has come to pass.
In the 1960s, the Pope warned what would happen as the result of our embracing artificial birth control. Most of what he predicted has come to pass.
Because our nation continued down a certain path, we find ourselves in a certain position. I am not against helping those who find themselves in an even worse situation than I find myself as a result of their not being able to pull themselves up by their own bootstraps, having received inadequate help in the past.
However, I am against the current proposals to “fix” our health insurance “problem.” I am also against putting my children and grandchildren into an incredible amount of debt to “fix” the economic problems brought about by the insanity which has been created in this non-Catholic culture.
I want a real answer, not dodging it. Is all of that okay with you?
I hope that that has qualified as real answers.