Hearing God

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I am struggling a little bit. I’ve been praying for a particular prayer request…it’s kind of major. I just really wish I had some sort of an answer. What do I do when God seems so far away? I’m not losing faith…Where else would I turn? I know I’m not the only person who gets discouraged. What do you do when it seems like you’re all on your own?
 
I’ve come to not expect God to answer any of my prayers or really “feel” close, ever. It just doesn’t happen. That’s not to say I’ve lost faith. I haven’t. I have just learned from experience. I can’t expect God’s intervention in my life. So I just obey Him and try to do things on my own. It’s hard, but it’s all I can do.
 
I’m sorry Oxygen Man. I will pray for you and offer up my sufferings for you tomorrow. Will you please do the same for me?
 
I am struggling a little bit. I’ve been praying for a particular prayer request…it’s kind of major. I just really wish I had some sort of an answer. What do I do when God seems so far away? I’m not losing faith…Where else would I turn? I know I’m not the only person who gets discouraged. What do you do when it seems like you’re all on your own?
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Maybe you should ask the Holy Spirit how to go about it? Maybe God wants you to pray through a Saint?

One thing that makes a Saint is they ask God what to pray about.

One time I did that and God an answer and was super happy. A week later I was depressed and going through a mental struggle. I came out of it way better. WAY better. I think it was a cross given by God.
 
Evania said:
I am struggling a little bit. I’ve been praying for a particular prayer request…it’s kind of major. I just really wish I had some sort of an answer. What do I do when God seems so far away? I’m not losing faith…Where else would I turn? I know I’m not the only person who gets discouraged. What do you do when it seems like you’re all on your own?
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Really it depends upon the situation. Is this more on the intellectual, emotional, or spiritual level? PRAY, OBSERVE, THINK, REFLECT and do research if it helps. Perhaps read about Church approved miracles such as the ones at Guadalupe, Fatima and Lourdes.
 
Hello Evania

Interesting for me to reply too.

I used to fast a lot, avoid the television and to some extents people. Holding your speech to others unless you can not hold your tongue was quite a difficult one ( psalm 39 ) .

and most of all holding strong to the Gospel writing`s .

Take care thought`s are with you
 
Hello!
I know that feeling you are having very well. I am praying for you. God sometimes chooses to allow this spiritual darkness in our lives. The time period can vary for different people, the reason for this suffering is so that we can continue to spiritually grow more. The burden of this suffering is very great and its one of the ultimate tests that God can put on us as Christians. The difficulty of maintaining a life that is pleasing to him and blessing others is a great challenge during this period of time. But Christ sees our suffering and will reward you, this spiritual darkness/dryness is a form of earthly purification .
I have experienced it multiple times, as have other saints and holy people. St. John of the Cross famously wrote a poem about it called the “Dark night of the Soul”, Mother Teresa experienced spiritual dryness for over 50 years (how great her suffering must have been!) and as did Fr Augustine Baker. This suffering is never too great for us (1 Corinthians 10:13), we must take up our cross daily as Christ commanded (Luke 9:23) lest we become wayward. I know Christ loves you greatly, as this is one of the most painful forms of purification, he sees that you are capable of great things. But fear not! Christ is always with you (Matthew 28:20) and St.Peter said “*Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you *” (1 Peter 5:7).
Do not worry, just continue to live a life that is pleasing to Christ despite your suffering. I recommend reading the book of Job and reflect upon the great suffering that God allowed Job to endure. Praying for you always.
-dan.
 
keep reading the epistles untill you get an answer. just keep doing it.
 
Really I always feel close to God. I guess God might want you to pray though The little flower of France. I think that will help you
 
Jesus once said to Saint Faustina Kowalska: “I am united more intimately to you during those times when you don’t feel my presence.” Perhaps he wanted you to know this.
 
Evania said:
I’m sorry Oxygen Man. I will pray for you and offer up my sufferings for you tomorrow. Will you please do the same for me?
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Thank you, I appreciate that. I’ll pray for you to come closer to God, too.
 
Josiah_k said:
Hello Evania

Interesting for me to reply too.

I used to fast a lot, avoid the television and to some extents people. Holding your speech to others unless you can not hold your tongue was quite a difficult one ( psalm 39 ) .

and most of all holding strong to the Gospel writing`s .

Take care thought`s are with you
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Thank you for this advice. I’m going to be following it:)
 
MalaysianDan said:
Hello!
I know that feeling you are having very well. I am praying for you. God sometimes chooses to allow this spiritual darkness in our lives. The time period can vary for different people, the reason for this suffering is so that we can continue to spiritually grow more. The burden of this suffering is very great and its one of the ultimate tests that God can put on us as Christians. The difficulty of maintaining a life that is pleasing to him and blessing others is a great challenge during this period of time. But Christ sees our suffering and will reward you, this spiritual darkness/dryness is a form of earthly purification .
I have experienced it multiple times, as have other saints and holy people. St. John of the Cross famously wrote a poem about it called the “Dark night of the Soul”, Mother Teresa experienced spiritual dryness for over 50 years (how great her suffering must have been!) and as did Fr Augustine Baker. This suffering is never too great for us (1 Corinthians 10:13), we must take up our cross daily as Christ commanded (Luke 9:23) lest we become wayward. I know Christ loves you greatly, as this is one of the most painful forms of purification, he sees that you are capable of great things. But fear not! Christ is always with you (Matthew 28:20) and St.Peter said “*Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you *” (1 Peter 5:7).
Do not worry, just continue to live a life that is pleasing to Christ despite your suffering. I recommend reading the book of Job and reflect upon the great suffering that God allowed Job to endure. Praying for you always.
-dan.
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Thanks Dan:)
 
Loving_disciple said:
Really I always feel close to God. I guess God might want you to pray though The little flower of France. I think that will help you
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I think that’s the problem. I always feel close to Him too. For some reason, He feels like He’s a million miles away. I know that isn’t the case though…Thank you for praying for me through St. Therese. She’s one of my favorites.
 
Our answer doesn’t necessary come the way we expect them. It would be easy if we could hear a clear voice etc… but again, you will have to discern what your heard. Go with the feeling of peace. I don’t know if you are trying to make a decision about something. If so, i can understand all the fear related to make the wrong one.

When i am stress out, i just go do some outdoor activity, take deep breath, and focus on gratitude (God’s creation).

In the mid time, pray for the grace of discernment, courage and peace.

I pray for all the perfect miracle for your highest love and good in accordance to God’s will.

Amen!
 
That would be so neat to hear a voice, but I know God answers other ways too. Thanks for the prayers. They are so appreciated!
 
Evania said:
I am struggling a little bit. I’ve been praying for a particular prayer request…it’s kind of major. I just really wish I had some sort of an answer. What do I do when God seems so far away? I’m not losing faith…Where else would I turn? I know I’m not the only person who gets discouraged. What do you do when it seems like you’re all on your own?
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What I do is make a conscious effort to TRUST IN HIM. I look at Him in His message of Devine Mercy, I see the Red and White coming from his Heart…it encourages me and helps me put all my Trust in Him…Trust and Faith are different. Never doubt that he is listening, never doubt that He knows what is best for you. Keep praying, pray for knowledge, pray for spiritual guidance, pray that He increases your Love for Him…just keep trusting and praying. Be sure you are going to Mass and participating in the Holy Sacraments.
That is what I do.

I hope it all works out for you soon. :hug3:
 
MalaysianDan said:
Hello!
I know that feeling you are having very well. I am praying for you. God sometimes chooses to allow this spiritual darkness in our lives. The time period can vary for different people, the reason for this suffering is so that we can continue to spiritually grow more. The burden of this suffering is very great and its one of the ultimate tests that God can put on us as Christians. The difficulty of maintaining a life that is pleasing to him and blessing others is a great challenge during this period of time. But Christ sees our suffering and will reward you, this spiritual darkness/dryness is a form of earthly purification .
I have experienced it multiple times, as have other saints and holy people. St. John of the Cross famously wrote a poem about it called the “Dark night of the Soul”, Mother Teresa experienced spiritual dryness for over 50 years (how great her suffering must have been!) and as did Fr Augustine Baker. This suffering is never too great for us (1 Corinthians 10:13), we must take up our cross daily as Christ commanded (Luke 9:23) lest we become wayward. I know Christ loves you greatly, as this is one of the most painful forms of purification, he sees that you are capable of great things. But fear not! Christ is always with you (Matthew 28:20) and St.Peter said “*Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you *” (1 Peter 5:7).
Do not worry, just continue to live a life that is pleasing to Christ despite your suffering. I recommend reading the book of Job and reflect upon the great suffering that God allowed Job to endure. Praying for you always.
-dan.
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Golly Dan… this is inspirational for all of us. Thanks so much. :love:
 
“The holy Rosary is a powerful weapon. Use it with confidence and you’ll be amazed at the results.”
–St. Josemaria Escriva
 
Evania said:
I am struggling a little bit. I’ve been praying for a particular prayer request…it’s kind of major. I just really wish I had some sort of an answer. What do I do when God seems so far away? I’m not losing faith…Where else would I turn? I know I’m not the only person who gets discouraged. What do you do when it seems like you’re all on your own?
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*Hi,
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  You may want to fast, I do sometimes. But, when I need to pray upon something in which I am laden with or I feel is of great importance,I will go to the church and pray alone or in front of the Eucharistic during Adoration ~God is only a prayer away~. Also, God has his time for things and what we may feel is the right time may not be . And maybe, what we think is best or what we are may be desiring, he has something better in mind....a different plan. Do not be discouraged, the Lord will see you through Evania...keep trusting and most important continue to keep faith. I am praying for you. ..God bless you, Kelly
 
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