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Please prayer for me. I am 51 years old and since the age of 23, I have had failed relationships. I know I may sound selfish in asking for this prayer however the Truth is I am one of the most unselfish people you know. I am a loyal trustworthy and honest woman when it comes to relationships. I have never cheated but every man I’ve dated has cheated on me. I am not an overbearing person. I believe in giving a man freedom without cheating because I want to trust them. I have not dated in17 years because of this and I recently started to date a man I went to high school with. We committed ourselves to one another but I’ve recently found out he never gave up the single man life. One of the woman he is dating is a married woman. We don’t live in the same town we are 40 minutes away. I don’t understand why this keeps happening to me. I feel cursed!!! I would love to take the vow of marriage one day before God. This man however can be a good man. I pray for him daily for God to heal his adulterous heart. I am no longer seeing him. I would love for him to have satan casted out of his soul. That’s why I pray for him. I forgive him because I’m suppose to and not carry a heavy heart of pain. But I do. Please pray for me. I’m not even sure as to what type of prayer I need. But I need prayer. Thank you.
 
It may be a time to stop dating for awhile. Get it out of your head for the moment and focus on what you can do as a single woman. There’s nothing to say that you have to be married in order to be “complete.” Find that completeness, that wholeness, as you are.

Personally, I’ve been “single” for many years. Not that men haven’t asked me out, but I’ve refused so far because I’ve felt that they weren’t right for me. Ask yourself what you want in a man, and then ask if your willing to put as much into a relationship as much as you are expecting out of one. It may be that these men weren’t right for you. Don’t rush the process.

And I will pray for you. May you find your wholeness in God.
 
Christy_Beth said:
It may be a time to stop dating for awhile. Get it out of your head for the moment and focus on what you can do as a single woman. There’s nothing to say that you have to be married in order to be “complete.” Find that completeness, that wholeness, as you are.

Personally, I’ve been “single” for many years. Not that men haven’t asked me out, but I’ve refused so far because I’ve felt that they weren’t right for me. Ask yourself what you want in a man, and then ask if your willing to put as much into a relationship as much as you are expecting out of one. It may be that these men weren’t right for you. Don’t rush the process.

And I will pray for you. May you find your wholeness in God.
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I agree with this very well said post. I add my prayers for you.
Mary.
 
Anita1962 said:
Please prayer for me. I am 51 years old and since the age of 23, I have had failed relationships. I know I may sound selfish in asking for this prayer however the Truth is I am one of the most unselfish people you know. I am a loyal trustworthy and honest woman when it comes to relationships. I have never cheated but every man I’ve dated has cheated on me. I am not an overbearing person. I believe in giving a man freedom without cheating because I want to trust them. I have not dated in17 years because of this and I recently started to date a man I went to high school with. We committed ourselves to one another but I’ve recently found out he never gave up the single man life. One of the woman he is dating is a married woman. We don’t live in the same town we are 40 minutes away. I don’t understand why this keeps happening to me. I feel cursed!!! I would love to take the vow of marriage one day before God. This man however can be a good man. I pray for him daily for God to heal his adulterous heart. I am no longer seeing him. I would love for him to have satan casted out of his soul. That’s why I pray for him. I forgive him because I’m suppose to and not carry a heavy heart of pain. But I do. Please pray for me. I’m not even sure as to what type of prayer I need. But I need prayer. Thank you.
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Praying to the Holy Spirit to give you strength & fortitude.
 
thank you for all your prayers and kind words, however, I have not dated in 17 years, this is the first time in 17 years that I have dated. This I can say is the shortest relationship I’ve ever had (one month)
 
Lord, please quell the pains of and have mercy on Anita1962. The institution of marriage is so damaged in this fallen pilgrimage, even those who are otherwise called to marriage find it difficult to receive the sacrament because of the poison that has entered it through other imprudent relationships. Cultivate in Anita1962’s heart many graces for faith, hope, love, and joy and bless her with the love of Our Lady to meanwhile fill the painful void in her heart. Have mercy, Lord, and grant her the comfort of loving angels. Our Lady, angels, and saints, pray with us. Amen.
 
hi,
YOu said;’ I’m not even sure as to what type of prayer I need…"
well pray for healing-if i might risk, the wrong words, with the right heart though…i speak, and compare romantic love to a ww1 dog fight of propeller planes…

afterwards, if i have sculpted the images well enough, i conclude with a compass as a hint of a healing prayer/
let me break it down, persuasive that love lost is like a WW 1 dog fight/ for instance, a dog fight is when planes begin to circle one taking the best shot…an air battle, there can only be one winner, a chance for an ace…
if that is too masculine…think, hey that is a flying machine-don’t take it out on the enemy pilot/ too personal in the battle…or in practical terms…the male psychic is in a human machine…to risk conflict-is to shift paradigms-the enemy is just a machine…don’t take it personal to the enemy pilot (even if you think he is the devil himself)…to flinch at the wrong time-(Well, there is only one winner)-take the fight to the machine…
the rules of god fighting…condensed from 8:
  1. Keep the sun behind you
    2 Follow line of attack, in an early dog fight; once to start don’t stop, don’t run if to become an easy target…
  2. fire at close range.
  3. Keep your eye on your opponent, watch out for tricks…
…when the God (fight) the good fight is over…"Keep the ‘son’ behind you…’ " in enemy skies, keep a line of sight, a compass heading, for a defensive retreat; hence there must be no practical ‘giving in…’ retreat is just defensive/ to leave and fight another day/ if a constant battle (innward or outward)- needs healing in a paradigm shift, the loopy dog fight…must end to the linear flight…
a reasoning of the mind to the feeling of the heart…is
a not an easy linear path…
American society is difficult /relationships…unrequited love-a terrible feeling-

the rules:
  1. Keep the sun behind you
    2 Follow line of attack, in an early dog fight; once to start don’t stop, don’t run if to become an easy target…
  2. fire at close range.
  3. Keep your eye on your opponent, watch out for tricks…
    skip, as applicable to 7, which is in enemy skies, keep line of sight (means of egress), for defensive retreat.
    The practical similar spiritual rules.
  4. Keep the ‘Son’ behind you.
  5. the rational mind, worries, while the heart must be allowed to be open to the heart of God. Let the heart win.
  6. Take away a bit of heaven when praying,depend on Divine love. then close in on persons in a social situation, up close and personal-love is sometimes unrequited, as back up-Divine love -loves first, and is very dependable.
  7. The Holy Spirit-may or may not have a masculine identity/ but proceeds from the masculine…this need not interupt healing, if in the back on the mind, that one male battle compares to the masculine side of God…being a ‘Holy Spirit’ person is appropriate to healing…anyways…the Holy Spirit is good company and a good counselor…as the approach is linear
    Back to 7.Spiritual healing needs a paradigm shift, from loopy sadness to a linear victory, as if to say the mind is in a fog, cycles of fears and worries, and repeats these confusion upon confusion/yet the healing of a moment is far from what is called to duty-rather …because the dog fight is circular , loopy;so to UN-NECESSARY saddness can occur/ if it can occur-it will occur in a dog fight (metaphor of survival)//
    the impulse of victory-is different from survival-in a spiritual way-to entrust your soul, another’s soul, to the heart that you fought for…to learn of the heart of Christ, to learn a healing prayer-to entrust hearts to the heart of Christ
 
St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle, be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil. May God rebuke him we humbly pray and do thou oh prince of the heavenly host, by the power of God cast into hell Satan and all the evil spirits who wander about the world seeking the ruin of souls. Amen.
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Hello…
I just joined today:)🙂

Dear Heartbroken
You seem so sad and not many words will console a broken heart… So… I refer you to my favorite bible verse and what gets me thru tough times

Proverbs 3:5&6
Trust in The Lord with all thine heart and lean not on your own understanding…
In all ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths…

Hope it helps…
 
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and in the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit. As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou amongst women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.

Amen.
 
Thank you for your prayers, I cried for each one that I’ve read and have been praying for my lost heart and to heal me. I also prayed for my ex-boyfriend to be healed since he is a child of God and Satan has entered his heart. I’m feeling up and down with sadness and happiness right now. I know it will take time for me to heal but please keep me in your prayers.:blessyou:
 
Hail, holy Queen, Mother of Mercy!
Our life, our sweetness, and our hope!
To thee do we cry, poor banished
children of Eve, to thee do we send
up our sighs, mourning and weeping
in this valley, of tears.
Turn, then, most gracious advocate,
thine eyes of mercy toward us; and
after this our exile show unto us the
blessed fruit of thy womb Jesus;
O clement, O loving, O sweet virgin Mary.
Pray for us, O holy Mother of God
That we may be made worthy of the
promises of Christ.

Amen. :crossrc:
 
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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning is now ever shall be world without end
Amen.

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy, hear and answer me. Amen

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Praying that the Lord may strengthen you and grant you all necessary graces.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen
 
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