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Those who I thought I could turn to have left me. I was always lonely and dealt with it, but, after having a brief taste of what it is like to have a friend, I find being alone more painful then ever. I wish that the people that I loved have never hooked me like a drug. I wish that they had never met me and I had lived the rest of my life with a dull ache for an imaginary longing instead of tasting the cure, making the incision for the operation only to have it never gone to completion. And the incision left unstitched and festering.
 
I’m so sorry. I will pray and light a candle for you.

Eternal Father, we call upon You in our time of sorrow, That You give us the strength and will to bear our heavy burdens, until we can again feel the warmth and love of Your divine compassion. Be mindful of us and have mercy on us while we struggle to comprehend life’s hardships.

Keep us ever in Your watch, until we can walk again with light hearts and renewed spirits. In Jesus, Our Lord, we pray. Amen~
 
Praying to the Holy Spirit to give you guidance, direction, strength, fortitude & wisdom in your time of need. Praying for your intentions.
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

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Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Prayer to Our Lady of Mental Peace

O Lady of Mental Peace,
Mother of Tranquility
and Mother of Hope,
look upon redbetta in this time
of weakness and unrest.

Teach her searching heart
to know that God’s Love
for her is unchanging and
unchangeable, and, that
true human love can only
begin and grow by touching
His Love.

Let your gentle Peace -
which this world cannot give
  • be always with her.
    And, help her to bring this
    same Peace into the lives
    of others.
Our Lady of Mental Peace,
  • Pray for us!
    Amen.
Jesus, Help Me!

In every need let me come to You with humble trust,
saying:
Jesus, help me!
In all my doubts, perplexities, and temptations:
Jesus, help me!
In hours of loneliness, weariness and trials:
Jesus, help me!
In the failure of my plans and hopes, in disappointments,
troubles and sorrows:
Jesus, help me!
When others fail me, and Your Grace alone can assist me:
Jesus, help me!
When I throw myself on Your tender Love as Savior:
Jesus, help me!
When my heart is cast down by failure, at seeing no good
come from my efforts:
Jesus, help me!
When I feel impatient, and my cross irritates me:
Jesus, help me!
When I am ill, and my head and hands cannot work and
I am lonely:
Jesus, help me!

Always, always, in spite of weakness, falls and short-
comings of every kind:
Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, help me and never forsake me!

Amen

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For Help in Trials

Most holy apostle St. Jude, faithful servant and friend of Jesus, the name of the traitor who delivered your beloved Master into the hands of His enemies has caused you to be forgotten by many. But the Church honors and invokes you universally as the patron of hopeless cases–of things despaired of. Pray for me who feels so hopeless. Make use, I implore you, of that particular privilege accorded to you of bringing visible and speedy help where help is almost despaired of. Come to my assistance in this great need, that I may receive the consolations and succor of heaven in all my necessities, tribulations and sufferings, in particular redbetta, and that I may bless God with you and all the elect throughout eternity. I promise you, O Blessed St. Jude, to be ever mindful of this great favor, and I will never cease to honor you as my special and powerful patron, and to do all in my power to encourage devotion to you. Amen.
 
redbetta said:
Those who I thought I could turn to have left me. I was always lonely and dealt with it, but, after having a brief taste of what it is like to have a friend, I find being alone more painful then ever. I wish that the people that I loved have never hooked me like a drug. I wish that they had never met me and I had lived the rest of my life with a dull ache for an imaginary longing instead of tasting the cure, making the incision for the operation only to have it never gone to completion. And the incision left unstitched and festering.
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My condolence and empathy OP. I went through a rather similar pattern.

And for whatever it is worth, Our LORD went through a **far worse **one. Remember, He lived His young life alone with the grief of His mother and the knowledge that His “portion” in human life would be a hideous death.

And after pouring Himself out to 12 others over three years; at the moment of His greatest need, so afraid that blood was escaping through His skin, nobody could even be bothered to stay awake!

GOD Bless and ICXC NIKA.
 
I am sorry for what you are experiencing right now and I will pray for you to find peace in your life.

Memorare
REMEMBER, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession was left unaided. Inspired with this confidence, I fly to thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother; to thee do I come; before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.
 
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Praying for your needs. Loneliness often comes and goes throughout life. All human love is imperfect. Christ is eternal, and His love for us is perfect and eternal. I pray He will gently comfort you in your sadness.
 
I hold it true, whate’er befall;
I feel it when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
Alfred Lord Tennyson
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Praying for healing, peace, and love.
 
Remembering you in a novena to the Holy Spirit.

Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful and kindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created. And You shall renew the face of the earth.

O, God, who by the light of the Holy Spirit, did instruct the hearts of the faithful, grant that by the same Holy Spirit we may be truly wise and ever enjoy His consolations, through Christ Our Lord,

Amen.
 
This I have learned… It i always better to be independent… It is good to have friends but do not put al your trust in them because once there is a conflict of interest, most people (not all) will always put their selfish needs above yours…Having said that, I have also encountered very good people who have not taken advantage of any situation and have really been good friends( these good friends are rare to find)

Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen.
 
Gracious and merciful Father, please come to their assistance.

Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen.
 
You had become emotionally attached to these friends. You will find new friends. Better to let go of unhealthy friendships and let God lead you to the right ones for you. Praying for you to get through this tough time.
 
Remember that the greatest commandment is to " Love the Lord Your God with all your heart, with all your soul and your neighbor as yoursel" . Loving in this way is something only the Holy Spirit is able to do through us. We ultimately rely on Him for this love. Being loved in return comes first and foremost from God himself. We must be LOVED by our Lord BEFORE we can ever Truely love others. (Really 1 John regarding this love) When we are loved by HIm we are able to love others with His love and if that love is not returned to us, yes it does hurt, but we will survive and grow stronger in HIS Love as we rely on Him for our very being. He loves you more than you can imagine and desires you to draw nearer to HIM who is the source of ALL TRUE LOVE and healing. I am saying a prayer for you tonight.In His Infinate LOVE,
mlz

PS…Remember Christ who came in love for all suffered and died for love of all…He was rejected by all He loved, yet he forgave and continued loving! Trust in this love!!
 
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