I’m not a big fan of those types of bands. I tend towards the power/prog/symphonic metal subgenres.
Joe, you’re like the ‘me’ I never met

Every time I come into a metal thread, you’ve already expressed my feelings!
OP, metal is a huge part of my life. I grew up mostly listening to the “Big 4”-type of thrash metal bands (Metallica, Megadeth, Anthrax, not Slayer), Iron Maiden, and hair metal. For awhile I did the radio rock/metal thing (Linkin Park, Chevelle, Powerman5000), but 7-8 years ago I made the transition to the power/prog/symphonic metal subgenres. Now I spend 85% of my music time on those kinds of bands (which no one in the mainstream has ever heard of aside from maybe Dragonforce and Dream Theater).
I’ve been super fortunate in that I spent some time being a concert promoter a few years back, my best friend is a concert promoter, and power/prog/symphonic are smaller genres (in America anyway, they are huge in Europe) where the bands can actually interact with the fans, so getting to know the bands - and sometimes becoming friends with them - has been a big part of my musical life.
Last month I helped a band shoot a video (see
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=605472). I have had dinner with many of my favorite power/prog/symphonic bands (just last week with Sabaton - Swedish war metal - before their St. Paul show). Next weekend I’ll spend a day hanging out with a member of Anthrax before their Minneapolis show.
So yeah, I “like heavy metal”
P.S. Since there will always be the inevitable post that most heavy metal is opposed to Christianity (which may be true, though I’m not sure if it’s “most” or just “a lot”), I’d be remiss if I didn’t point out that there are incredible Christian bands in every single metal subgenre, including the “darkest” of genres, like black metal. Two of my favorites are Theocracy (try
youtube.com/watch?v=B24j9fnkxo4) and HB (try
youtube.com/watch?v=r1vM-w8z6D0).