Your understanding is wrong,
Wow. Pontifex Maximus Sandusky has spoken ex cathedra!
because you are reading Paul’s words a-contextually; with respect to love not seeking its own, Paul is talking about the type of love the Christian should have toward another (cf Php 2:3-4); the passage has nothing to do with God, or His love.
This is absurd, sandusky! Your example below clearly demonstrates that humans are incapable of loving the way God wants us to love without His grace. This passage has EVERYTHING to do with God’s love!
We can’t be loving without the mind of Christ!
Phil 2:5-8
5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, 6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even death on a cross.
Jesus demonstrated that He seeks not His own, and respects those that wish to walk away from Him, though it grieves HIs heart.
The scriptures are not wrong, and, God not only demands His way, He gets much of His way presently (letting some of His demands be usurped, for a while), and in the end, God will get all of His way—it’s not a question of logic, but a question of revelation.
Of course, in the end, all heaven and earth will be subjected to HIm. However, those who have chosen to spurn His invitation (“who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth” Tim 2:4-5) He will permit to be separated from Himself from eternity out of respect for their free will.
Man is a volition creature; however, he’s also very ”volitionally-challenged” as well.
This is true, but God’s grace is sufficient. He has provided all that is necessary for us to overcome our challenges, and to enter into life.
If your will is so free, and unfettered, then create a chicken for me, right now. Can’t do it? How ‘bout you do something good for God, right now, and do it completely by the freedom of your will, without the grace of His will—can you do it? Better reassess your understanding of your free will, and do it from scripture—compare and contrast your freedom with God’s freedom.
God is able to save, but He will also respect the refusal of man to have fellowship with Him. No one is saying that man’s freedom is on par with God’s However, since we are made in His image and likeness, it is clear that He has expressed a degree of His freedom of will in our creation. However, that was never meant to be used in separation from Himself. However, we do see in scripure that man can do supernatural feats by other powers besides God’s grace. We can see in the book of Revelation that the evil one and his minions produce what appear to be miracles by the power He has allowed them to have.
So you see, you’re wrong, it is possible for God to ”not allow man to exercise freedom of will.” And there are other instances of God doing that—can you think of any?
God did not take away Abimilech’s free will. He could have done as pharoah did, and spurn the warning. His life may have been forfeit. Instead, he CHOSE to return Sarah. God is omnipotent. That does not mean man has not free will.
That’s another strawman, Jerry; no Calvinist believes that God forces the elect to choose to never leave Him; they freely choose to love Him—another of your misunderstandings.
It seems, though, as if the Calvanist position is that God “makes” them choose him. By saying that they cannot apostasize, it seems to negate the free will of man.
IMO,
you’re very mixed-up.
I find Calvanism very confusing. I just cannot make all the the scriptures, such as the one in the title here, fit into it.