Help me apply for a job please

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Just wanted to offer you my prayers and encouragement. I did recently get hired for a nice full time job at a university after years and years of being a stay at home mom. I know it is a little bit strange to fill out an application with all of those gaps, but if you can just get yourself to the interview stage, I know you’ll do great. So…praying for you.
 
Martha,

With all those roaming kids in your neighborhood, are there any parents who would pay a small fee for you too keep them for a few hours after school?

I know a lot of parents are nervous about their “latchkey” kids, but either their kids are too old for afterschool care, or they can’t afford it. Around here, we have a lot of cases where there is a “big” brother or sister (by “big” I mean 6th or 7th grade) who keeps the other 1 or 2 kids after school. Once and a while like that is fine, but they do it every day. That has GOT to make some parents nervous.
 
With all those roaming kids in your neighborhood, are there any parents who would pay a small fee for you too keep them for a few hours after school?
Yikes. NO WAY. No offense. I don’t mind helping out a friend and I don’t mind having kids over.

**BUT daycare stinks. It’s not the kids. Love those sweet and even the not so sweet kids. It’s the parents! They can drive you to drinking. Straight rye kind of drinking. I did in home childcare years ago, licensed and all, which was a royal pain in the bum, and swore I’d have to be really desperate to do it again. **We are not that desperate.

I would actually like to get this library job. It’s right up my alley and I think I’d enjoy it.
 
****We are not that desperate.
He He! No prob! (I worked at a daycare during my college years, I feel that pain!)

I just didn’t know if the logistics of time would work better for you, and if the “little darlings” are always around anyway…😉
 
I wouldn’t discount your husbands idea totally. What employers are looking for is what kind of skills do you have that will allow you to do the job, or will show that you are trainable for that particular job.

So who really cares that you worked at a gas station more than 10 years ago?

Since the job is for a library, and you homeschooled all your kids, I would focus on what skills of homeschooling are transferrable to a library job.

You are familiar with many genre of literature, you have the ability to discuss books with others. You have the ability to get others excited about books. You have a love of books are are experienced with passing that love on to others. You are an avid reader, and have an excellent vocabulary, so you can communicate well with others. You are able to place books on the shelves in alphabetical order, you can help clients pick books since you have a wide range of familiarity with many subjects.

Since it is illigal for them to ask you how many children you have, they may not be able to interview you directly about how the skills involved in having 8 children can help you on the job. But I would list something on the resume like: I interact well with children and have extensive experience in promoting literacy in children.

Definately list Homeschoolling mother. The skills in that are the ability to be organized, you have the ability to multi task, to meet the needs of many people at different levels. (Usually at the same time!) What that brings to them as an employer is that you can meet the needs of the public, you can help clients no matter what their level of reading ability.

PLEASE dont discount what you bring to the marketplace. And don’t think listing these skills is “fake” They are skills.

And I’m going out on a limb here with the risk of insulting you or getting flamed but…

I think this reluctance of feeling that your skills “count” in the marketplace is part of the feeling of SAHMs feeling undervalued. There have been so many threads on these forums about SAHMs
vs career moms. We are so quick to point out our value and that we DO very much contribute to our families and society. Don’t back down now. You have the opportunity to show the marketplace that you have not been wasting away in the great mommy wastland for the last 10 years. You have gained some incredible skills that will make you an awesome employee.

Good luck in getting your job. Go grab it. It is perfect for you.
 
I manage a shoe store, so I can give you a little insight as to what I would look for when hiring.

Don’t leave anything blank on your application. I see that as, well, if they can’t be bothered to even fill out the application completely, will their work performance be just as lacking?

Do go apply in person. Call ahead and ask to make an appointment. It will really stand out to the hiring manager. I recieve several applications from online sources, but I only remember the applicants who I see in person. You can make a much better presentation of yourself that way.

Just be honest. When I started at my current job, I had no experience or anything. It was my first real job. I flat out told my hiring manager, “I know I don’t have any sales experience or much time in the work force. But I do have a drive to work hard, learn, and prove myself. I am looking for a career that will foster growth and I am very impressed with what I know about this company. All I am looking for is a chance.” He has told me that that made a huge impression on him. Less than five years later I manage my own (I started as part-time) store and make more than twice what I started at.

I would include your volunteer activities, but I would also make it clear that you understand where the job would rank. I like employees who are well rounded, but who understand that they need to respect the schedule and the needs of their fellow employees as well.

Good luck and please let us know how it turns out.
 
And don’t think listing these skills is “fake” They are skills.
I don’t think my skills are fake, but I’m less than comfortable putting a spin on them. facilitator vs homeschooler for example or home management vs homemaker… I’m a tell it like it is kind of gal.

**But yes, I do feel I’ve always been employed, just not paid in green paper!👍 **

**We’ve had to put off my going in until Thursday. I’m not happy about it either. :cool: If it’s this hard for me to get in, it doesn’t bode well for the keeping of the job, but dh assures me that if I like the job he’ll always be home in time. He really hates the idea of me working outside the home, but is consoling himself with the knowledge that this won’t really be “work” for me, more like a me time that doesn’t cost him anything, which he’s all for.😃 🤷
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**I think I’m going to print the online thing off filled out as best I can and just take it in in person. The only question on the entire thing that is personal is, “What do you think makes you qualified for this position?” To which I answered honestly, “A love of books, people, learning, and organizing!”😃 **
Yes, that does sound great. 😃

By the way, confidence rubs off. They do feel confidence. And confidence is of top importance. By the way, I suppose there’s nothing better than your current life to teach a person responsibility, so use that to your advantage. Confident and responsible… know a better definition of “professional”? 😉

Sell off your best points the best way you can. You could grab a book about that, but don’t take it for granted. Those books give some insights but the best what they give is confidence anyway. 😉 I wouldn’t hesitate to list personality traits in some attractive form. Just remember to show the claw instead of coming up with extremely formal phrases. 🙂

By the way, have you thought about writing books? You have tons of hobbies and of experience, and your use of language is great. I think you have the right personality for that. Well, and there are also some jobs doable from home, which involve the Internet.
 
By the way, have you thought about writing books?

:rotfl: :coffeeread:** Do you have any idea how difficutl that market is? Not to mention how little the profit margin is? Or the basic fact that most of what is written never generates any income.**

You have tons of hobbies

:confused: :confused: **Really? I do? Such as? This is news to me…:confused: **

and of experience, and your use of language is great. I think you have the right personality for that.

😊 Thank you.
 
I have been told by career counselors that it is best to leave out any volunteer activities that directly mention a particular church or religion. Also, leave out anything that directly mentions your marital or family status. It is illegal to ask if one is married, has children, is Catholic, etc. Do not volunteer information that the employer cannot legally ask you.
Even if they can’t ask, her ten year absence from the work place either says “didn’t work for some un-known reason” or “stay home mom.” While a potential employer can not legally ask it, the interview-ee can let them know she’s a wife and mother. A stay-at-home mom re-entering the workplace would be wise to make it clear she’s capable of commitment and hard work.

Martha. I think you should market yourself as you are. You love books, and I suspect you already run a small library in your home. You read to children daily, and you are very familiar with children’s literature for children of a variety of ages… I assume from your posts that you are well organized. While you may not want to sound too “homeschooly”, some public libraries reach out to homeschoolers, as they tend to use the library more than average.
 
Even if they can’t ask, her ten year absence from the work place either says “didn’t work for some un-known reason” or “stay home mom.” While a potential employer can not legally ask it, the interview-ee can let them know she’s a wife and mother. A stay-at-home mom re-entering the workplace would be wise to make it clear she’s capable of commitment and hard work.

I agree. And they can ask, “Can you explain the gap of 10 years?” Which is obviously going to open that door anyways. No point beating around the bush.

I suspect you already run a small library in your home.

What an understatement!😃 It’s reached a point where friends call ME to see materials, like I’m some kind of permanent curriculum/book fair. I love that, btw.
 
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Rob_s_Wife:
Regarding publishing a book, maybe look into publishing something on-line for free (or in print) through lulu.com. That’s how the Littleton’s (Catholic family with 14 children) got started with their book,“Better by the Dozen Plus Two”. Best wishes and prayers to you, Michelle
 
I have a job interview this afternoon.
So of course, I have the worst cold ever.
Here’s hoping it goes well.
The interview that is.
The cold can just go.
 
I have a job interview this afternoon.
So of course, I have the worst cold ever.
Here’s hoping it goes well.
The interview that is.
The cold can just go.
Good luck on the interview! We’ll keep you in our prayers!
 
Good luck!

Just one thing–I would not say “educator” on a job application. I think that people with a degree in education might be put off. They are proud of their education and qualifications, and want to preserve the professional image of the word “educator.” Even if you disagree, I think it would be wise to respect their wishes. JMO.

If for some reason the library job doesn’t work out, may I suggest that you apply for general clerical work at your local hospital or health system?

Believe me, there is plenty of work and plenty of turnover! For the past two summers, my daughter and her friends have worked in Medical Records in our hospital system. It’s easy, easy work–basically they get files, give them to the nurses’s stations, and then re-file the files.

They were paid around $12.00/hour. The hospital was delighted to hire them, because several women were out on Maternity Leave, and the work was desperately behind. When they first arrived, they were shown a large room that was stacked floor to ceiling with files that needed to be re-filed!

Although they only worked summer jobs, they were put on as “Registry” workers by the hospital, and so they continued to be eligible for any hospital programs. For example, my daughter has received Christmas gift certificates, and also free gas cards on her birthday, just because she is still technically an “employee!” She is also able to attend any hospital “party.”

The kids had a lot of fun working in the clinic; although the work wasn’t particularly challenging, they had a good time learning hospital jargon and meeting various hospital professionals. And they had the satisfaction of knowing that their work is helping patients, even though it’s not “front line” care.

There are other clerical jobs within the hospital systems, too. Again, even though it’s not front-line health care, you have a lot of satisfaction being part of the healing team.

Also, if you like the idea of being a care-giver (many moms are very good at it), consider going back to school for six weeks to be certified as a CNA. This is a good-paying job with a lot of flexible hours, and very satisfying.

And remember, there is a drastic shortage of nurses in the U.S., so if you get your foot in the door as a CNA and enjoy the work, you may eventually be able to go back to school with the hospital paying your bills!

If you apply at a hospital or health care system, stop by in person. Give them a resume along with your application. THEN call back every few weeks and inquire politely! Persistence pays in hospitals.

It is incredibly helpful if you know someone in the hospital or health care system who is willing to speak with Human Resources and recommend you. I did this with my daughter and her friends. There are lots of applications in those files, and having a pal to speak up is going to bump your application to the top of the pile.

Again, good luck. This is a nervous time for you, but it will work out for the good.
 
Good luck!

Just one thing–I would not say “educator” on a job application. I think that people with a degree in education might be put off. They are proud of their education and qualifications, and want to preserve the professional image of the word “educator.” Even if you disagree, I think it would be wise to respect their wishes. JMO.
Just one thing to note though… many “educators” do not have “teaching” degrees.
I’m not a teacher, but I have applied and been offered jobs in teaching position (high school physics and math) and my degree is not in education… it’s in engineering, which would directly apply to teaching at a high school level.

I think “educator” is okay to use…
 
Just one thing to note though… many “educators” do not have “teaching” degrees.
I’m not a teacher, but I have applied and been offered jobs in teaching position (high school physics and math) and my degree is not in education… it’s in engineering, which would directly apply to teaching at a high school level.

I think “educator” is okay to use…
Yes, this is how I was advised to apply.
Of course, I would never lie about my creditials or lack of and that is reflected in my education section of the application.

**If educating others is what a person does, then that is what they should put on the application.🤷 **
 
praying you do well on the interview and get the job… I would hire you!!!
 
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