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Hey how are you all doing tonight I need help I am on a downward spiral that needs to stop I’m 24 years old I was a very active member of the Catholic Church until I was about 16 I met some people I thought were cool and got into some bad things I have stolen from people I love I have gotten into drugs and I have completely lost my way with god I have an amazing girlfriend who i don’t want to lose but she deserves someone so much better she is sweet beautiful and honestly amazing everything A man could every want In someone she knows nothing about how off track I have gotten I need help and I don’t know how to get my life back I have so many demons eating at me I’m so scared to go back to my former church because of being singled out and judged honestly I feel like I don’t even deserve god to give me any more chances I have wronged so many people who love me and want the best for me I’m sorry if isn’t the place to get all this out it just feels I have no where else to turn if there is any advice any of you can give me it would greatly be appreciated I thank you In advance you all have a wonderful night
 
Hey how are you all doing tonight I need help I am on a downward spiral that needs to stop I’m 24 years old I was a very active member of the Catholic Church until I was about 16 I met some people I thought were cool and got into some bad things I have stolen from people I love I have gotten into drugs and I have completely lost my way with god I have an amazing girlfriend who i don’t want to lose but she deserves someone so much better she is sweet beautiful and honestly amazing everything A man could every want In someone she knows nothing about how off track I have gotten I need help and I don’t know how to get my life back I have so many demons eating at me I’m so scared to go back to my former church because of being singled out and judged honestly I feel like I don’t even deserve god to give me any more chances I have wronged so many people who love me and want the best for me I’m sorry if isn’t the place to get all this out it just feels I have no where else to turn if there is any advice any of you can give me it would greatly be appreciated I thank you In advance you all have a wonderful night
Pray! God created you wonderful, beautiful; you’re His handiwork, made in His image, even if you’re far from expressing it at the moment. But He waits with open arms for each of us to turn to Him so He may do His work in us, so His expression may become clearer and clearer in us. Ask Him, and keep asking; He’ll answer. We don’t have to be cleaned up in order to approach God, rather we have to approach God in order to be cleaned up.
 
I have started praying again I just feel I should do more if that makes sense to kind of show that I am trying to become a better person and have a better relationship with The Lord I want to show him that I know what I have done is wrong and I am wanting change and maybe give back to the community or individuals that need help I know it sounds cliche but I just want to be like I was before I lost my way thank you for taking time out to help
 
As others here will, I will pray for you.
I thank God for the grace you have received to seek and desire Him.
That’s a great grace.
May God help you to continue on this path

God is your loving Father. You turned your back on Him, but…
Luke 15:11-32

The Parable of the Lost Son

11 Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons. 12 The younger one said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them.

13 “Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. 14 After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. 16 He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.

17 “When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ 20 So he got up and went to his father.

“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.

21 “The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’

22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. 23 Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. 24 For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.

25 “Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. 27 ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’

28 “The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. 29 But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’

31 “‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. 32 But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”
 
And stop hanging around with people who are having a bad influence on you. Get yourself some friends who will support you and help you stay on God’s path. Friends are there to help you when things get difficult and you’re in doubt, and they’re there to remind you of what’s right and call you back when you stray. So try to get some friends like that.
 
I have started praying again I just feel I should do more if that makes sense to kind of show that I am trying to become a better person and have a better relationship with The Lord I want to show him that I know what I have done is wrong and I am wanting change and maybe give back to the community or individuals that need help I know it sounds cliche but I just want to be like I was before I lost my way thank you for taking time out to help
Then go to confession. Go to mass and get up and get to it! Just don’t talk about it do it. Even if you are scared just do it! Even if you think you will be judged just do it. It’s the devil planting doubt in your mind. When you feel weak picture Michael, Gabriel and Raphael next you majestic, strong, fierce, protecting you from anything that will take you away from God and Just do it!
 
Your sins are not greater than God’s mercy.

I will pray for you.
God bless.
 
Grace is a powerful thing, if it moves you run with it! Don’t be discouraged by the opinions of others church or the opinion of yourself. God was willing to die for you, he wants you that bad. You’ve also already made a huge step already! Make an effort to confession and seek help with your addictions. You have my prayers, God bless you and keep you!
 
Extracts from the book 'The Passion':
The Passion - loveandmercy.org/Eng-TP-Reg.pdf

PART 1 – JESUS DICTATES TO CATALINA

1) My little daughter, let yourself be embraced by My most ardent desire that all souls come and purify themselves in the water of penance, and that the feelings of trust, and not fear, may penetrate them, because I am a God of Mercy and I am always ready to receive them in My Heart.

**11) For love of souls, I remain a prisoner in the Holy Eucharist, so that in their sorrow and grief they are being consoled by the most tender of Hearts, by the best of Fathers, by the most loyal friend. But that Love, which is consumed for the good of mankind, is not going to be returned.
  1. I live amongst sinners to be their salvation and their life, their doctor and medicine; yet they, in return, in spite of their sick nature, distance themselves from Me. They offend Me and scorn Me.
  2. My children, poor sinners! Do not distance yourselves from Me. I wait for you night and day at the Tabernacle. I will not reproach you for your crimes; I will not throw your sins in your face. What I will do is to wash you with the Blood of My wounds. Do not be afraid; come to Me. You do not know how much I love you.**
God Bless you Lost Sinner,

He waits for us day and night at the tabernacle, he will not reproach you for your crimes, he will not throw your sins in your face, what he will do is to wash you with the blood of his wounds, do not be afraid, he loves you very much.

Thank you for reading
Josh
 
Hey how are you all doing tonight I need help I am on a downward spiral that needs to stop I’m 24 years old I was a very active member of the Catholic Church until I was about 16 I met some people I thought were cool and got into some bad things I have stolen from people I love I have gotten into drugs and I have completely lost my way with god I have an amazing girlfriend who i don’t want to lose but she deserves someone so much better she is sweet beautiful and honestly amazing everything A man could every want In someone she knows nothing about how off track I have gotten I need help and I don’t know how to get my life back I have so many demons eating at me I’m so scared to go back to my former church because of being singled out and judged honestly I feel like I don’t even deserve god to give me any more chances I have wronged so many people who love me and want the best for me I’m sorry if isn’t the place to get all this out it just feels I have no where else to turn if there is any advice any of you can give me it would greatly be appreciated I thank you In advance you all have a wonderful night
That is exactly how sin/evil takes over…it has you believing that you are not worthy. Evil plays on shame.

Go to confession, knowing that Jesus died on a cross for the forgiveness of your sins (and mine). God wants to forgive you, you must accept his gift.

If someone came up to you and handed you $1 million, and said “this is for you to make a new life for yourself” would you take it?

Jesus has offered you soooo much more than that. All you have to do is accept it, by going to confession and saying to Him “I am Yours”

I will pray for you
 
Jesus came for sinners, to redeem what His Father created, and what He loves. He loved enough to give us His Holy Son. What greater love can a man have, then to give His life for the one He loves. The good thief on the cross next to Jesus acknowledged his sins, and just punishment. He knew Jesus was innocent and didn’t deserve to die. He turned to Jesus and said “Remember me when you come into your kingdom” Jesus responded with love and said “This day you shall be with Me in paradise!” Just humble yourself before Jesus in prayer, repent, and accept Him for who He is, Savior, Lover, and God. Accept His embrace and turn your life over to Him. Though your sins be as scarlet, He will make them as white as snow and give you His Spirit of Faith, Hope, and Love. You are the only obstacle to His forgiveness, not Him.
 
Something a confessor told me a few months ago: “You are perfect. If you weren’t perfect you wouldn’t be here. God made you perfect. It is only in the doing that you are not perfect.”

So take heart and know that God awaits you.
 
you are not alone. most people do not have a place to go to be a real live human being anymore. the society has turned people into “consumers”.

Embrace your pain right now. You are exactly where God wants you. He loves you very, very much. He made you exactly as you are.

Write out your pain and give it all to Him. Write a whole book if you have to.

Don’t worry about your relationship, look to god. Remember he says “I am a jealous
God, you shall have no other God besides me.” Is there things distracting you, in the way of the Lord?

Be beautifully weak, and you will be strong.
 
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