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LewisTheotokos
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Hello,
I am an old poster with a new name. Since my searching several years ago, I have entered the Church and I love it!
To preface, my question today is in regards to the natural law and sexual ethics. I am interested in understanding and clarifying this issue on the secular level, i.e. how would I present this to a non-believer? So I know that marriage is in part valuable because it points to the reality of God’s love. But to bring that up in a debate with a non-believer isn’t helpful.
My understanding of the natural law is that some things are according to nature, in the sense that they have an inbuilt purpose. If we work counter to that in-built purpose, the effect is damaging. So sodomy is damaging because the act denies the natural purpose of sexual union and says something contrary to the original purpose.
This seems slightly weak to me, I think because there is more to the story than I can describe. My trouble is also that it seems that working contrary to our in-built nature isn’t necessarily bad, or at least is only venial. So for example, bulimia works contrary to our nature, but isn’t regarded as a mortal sin (as far as I know). Or if we think about some cultural traditions such as lip-disks, foot binding, plastic surgery, tattooing, piercing or the taste in some African cultures to elongate the neck by compressing the rib cage in women. These aren’t treated as serious or grave offenses (as far as I know) even though in some cases, they do significant damage to the body. Comparatively, masturbation seems almost trivial.
Can anyone help clarify this line of thought?
Peace,
LT
I am an old poster with a new name. Since my searching several years ago, I have entered the Church and I love it!
To preface, my question today is in regards to the natural law and sexual ethics. I am interested in understanding and clarifying this issue on the secular level, i.e. how would I present this to a non-believer? So I know that marriage is in part valuable because it points to the reality of God’s love. But to bring that up in a debate with a non-believer isn’t helpful.
My understanding of the natural law is that some things are according to nature, in the sense that they have an inbuilt purpose. If we work counter to that in-built purpose, the effect is damaging. So sodomy is damaging because the act denies the natural purpose of sexual union and says something contrary to the original purpose.
This seems slightly weak to me, I think because there is more to the story than I can describe. My trouble is also that it seems that working contrary to our in-built nature isn’t necessarily bad, or at least is only venial. So for example, bulimia works contrary to our nature, but isn’t regarded as a mortal sin (as far as I know). Or if we think about some cultural traditions such as lip-disks, foot binding, plastic surgery, tattooing, piercing or the taste in some African cultures to elongate the neck by compressing the rib cage in women. These aren’t treated as serious or grave offenses (as far as I know) even though in some cases, they do significant damage to the body. Comparatively, masturbation seems almost trivial.
Can anyone help clarify this line of thought?
Peace,
LT