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I am trying to persevere and not be angry with God as to why he is letting this broken heart completely rule my life. I can no longer function. I tried to get help today but my counselor couldn’t even suggest any way to deal with my depression, which has progressively gotten worse. I have been trying and I have not been able to stop crying for seven weeks. I have been going through breakup and loss of first love, but don’t know if it’s really over, am afraid to talk to the other person because I will probably be rejected and I don’t know if I can take it. I want to die and the pain just gets worse. I can’t sleep or eat. I feel guilty for being depressed and in despair. I have no one who is always there to talk to and I try to talk to God but the pain just won’t stop. I can’t keep up in school and I am all alone and abandoned by someone who won’t allow himself to love me or maybe no longer does. I want very much to die. Please, please pray for me. There is nothing else I can turn to, nothing else that can help me. Please pray for my “ex” that he will be open to talking to me and overall just for something to happen so I know what to do. If it wasn’t God’s will then why won’t the pain get better and why can’t I get through this? Please help me by your prayers, I don’t know how I will get through this night alone
 
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection,
implored your help or sought your intercession,
was left unaided.
Inspired with this confidence,
I fly to you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother;
to you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful.
O Mother of the Word Incarnate,
despise not my petitions,
but in your mercy hear and answer me.
Amen.
 
lovemybatman said:
I am trying to persevere and not be angry with God as to why he is letting this broken heart completely rule my life. I can no longer function. I tried to get help today but my counselor couldn’t even suggest any way to deal with my depression, which has progressively gotten worse. I have been trying and I have not been able to stop crying for seven weeks. I have been going through breakup and loss of first love, but don’t know if it’s really over, am afraid to talk to the other person because I will probably be rejected and I don’t know if I can take it. I want to die and the pain just gets worse. I can’t sleep or eat. I feel guilty for being depressed and in despair. I have no one who is always there to talk to and I try to talk to God but the pain just won’t stop. I can’t keep up in school and I am all alone and abandoned by someone who won’t allow himself to love me or maybe no longer does. I want very much to die. Please, please pray for me. There is nothing else I can turn to, nothing else that can help me. Please pray for my “ex” that he will be open to talking to me and overall just for something to happen so I know what to do. If it wasn’t God’s will then why won’t the pain get better and why can’t I get through this? Please help me by your prayers, I don’t know how I will get through this night alone
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Father, Swoop up your sad and lonely Child in your big strong loving arms.
Hold her close and protect her in the soft and secure folds of your robe.
Whisper to her that this pain will pass and that you will always love her.
Amen
 
Forgive me but it isn’t God who is letting your broken heart rule your life, but your mind and emotions, dear one.
Jesus your dear one is very depressed or she wouldn’t wish to die. Please help her to find ways of managing this great sorrow. So many times here, heartbroken spouses have to deal with the enormous sorrow of facing life without the person who is their most beloved in life, the one whom they feel is the love of their life, either through death or through abandonment that feels like amputation.

Please help us here to know how to best comfort, to best advise…although words have little power in the face of so much sadness and sense of betrayal. I implore You for their ability, and the ability of this dear person, to deal as practically as possible in the practical realities that face them, and her, in order to bear the pain that has touched so many of us in our lives, and yet move forward.

Jesus please hold her in Your arms and speak wisely and kindly to her heart and mind and soul, with comfort, and with Your dreams of love for her.
 
lovemybatman said:
I am trying to persevere and not be angry with God as to why he is letting this broken heart completely rule my life. I can no longer function. I tried to get help today but my counselor couldn’t even suggest any way to deal with my depression, which has progressively gotten worse. I have been trying and I have not been able to stop crying for seven weeks. I have been going through breakup and loss of first love, but don’t know if it’s really over, am afraid to talk to the other person because I will probably be rejected and I don’t know if I can take it. I want to die and the pain just gets worse. I can’t sleep or eat. I feel guilty for being depressed and in despair. I have no one who is always there to talk to and I try to talk to God but the pain just won’t stop. I can’t keep up in school and I am all alone and abandoned by someone who won’t allow himself to love me or maybe no longer does. I want very much to die. Please, please pray for me. There is nothing else I can turn to, nothing else that can help me. Please pray for my “ex” that he will be open to talking to me and overall just for something to happen so I know what to do. If it wasn’t God’s will then why won’t the pain get better and why can’t I get through this? Please help me by your prayers, I don’t know how I will get through this night alone
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Praying that you are comforted …

Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
I made it through the night, and feel slightly less sick today…please God, clearly show me what I need to do in this situation, or have something happen soon, I can’t handle this limbo…please have my former love be open to talking to me sometime, someday if not now, in a personal way…please help him to remember everything we shared…I want to give up praying and trying, I’m getting so tired of this…please give us some kind of reconciliation, even if it does not lead to being together again, I really feel that I need it to go forward.
 
Lord, I pray that lovemybatman can meet with a good, holy priest and get some spiritual direction and help from him. I pray she knows that she always has us here at the CAF for support and friendhip. May she know that she can spend time with you in front of the Blessed Sacrament to receive the benefits of your healing rays of love and mercy. May she never stop praying and never give up. You have taught us that after the cross comes the resurrection. May lovemybatman suffer patiently and receive the strength from you to hold out with prayer and the Sacraments until things get better for her. Thank you, Lord, for hearing my prayer. Amen.
 
O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

Continued prayers……

For your intentions

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

O my Jesus, forgive us our sins. Save us from the fires of Hell; lead all souls into Heaven, especially those in most need of Thy mercy. Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for help. Amen

“If God brings it to you- God will bring you through it.”
 
I’ve been doing better in the past few days, even though I still feel nauseated when I try to eat breakfast, but probably because of all the prayers, I am feeling a bit better emotionally, have acquired more of what I suppose you could call “detachment” from my situation. But every time I think I’m doing better,something happens, but this time it wasn’t having to do with my ex boyfriend, but with my financial problems–I got turned into collections because of the stupidest reason–very overdue library books, and something like this hasn’t happened in a long time–I’m so stupid, I’ve got $80,000 in student loans, a maxed out credit card and now this, and my mother got the notice in the mail so she is very very mad at me, this is just like old times and she has absolutely no idea what I’ve been going through, my depression, and she would just tell me “life goes on” and “snap out of it”, so I don’t tell her anything, she’s not here to see it…this time a yar ago I was the happiest person in the world, and had my life together, and I was so very much in love and everything was going right for me, but I guess not really. I need to see a counselor but they’re booked for a long time here at my school…I hope I can get through this week, still not sure about whether to contact my ex, the urge is lessening but I would still like to have some better “closure”…because I remain in love…everything went so right for me for once in my life, but I guess it was all superficial because whenever I’m happy I am drawn away from God…guess I’m supposed to be unhappy.

Thank you all for your prayers, despite all of this I do truly feel they have helped me because I have felt better in the past few days.
 
A Priest is a great counselor also lovemybatman…

O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

For your intentions

Continued prayers……

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for help. Amen

“If God brings it to you- God will bring you through it.”
 
I pray for you- and hope you get in to see that counselor soon. If you tell them that you feel it is urgent, they might speed it up. If it really becomes urgent, get to an MD and they will steer you towards the right place. Try not to let the situation get out of hand. May God keep you.
 
Praying you will get help very soon, priest and therapist.

Lord Jesus Christ, You have willed that St. Dymphna should be invoked by thousands of clients as the patroness of nervous and mental disease and have brought it about that her interest in these patients should be an inspiration to and an ideal of charity throughout the world. Grant that, through the prayers of this youthful martyr of purity, those who suffer from nervous and mental illness everywhere on earth may be helped and consoled. I recommend to You in particular lovemybatman.

Be pleased to hear the prayers of St. Dymphna and of Your Blessed Mother. Give those whom I recommend the patience to bear with their affliction and resignation to do Your divine will. Give them the consolation they need and especially the cure they so much desire, if it be Your will. Through Christ, Our Lord. Amen.
Copied from:
2heartsnetwork.org/Dymphna.htm

Our Father, Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come, Thy Will be done, on earth as it as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day, our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive
those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation, but
deliver us from evil.
Amen

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee.
Blessed art Thou among women,and
blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us now, and
at the hour of our death.
Amen

Glory be to the Father, to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, as is and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen

O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of Hell,
lead all souls to heaven, especially, those in most need of Your Mercy.
Amen
 
lovemybatman said:
I am trying to persevere and not be angry with God as to why he is letting this broken heart completely rule my life. I can no longer function. I tried to get help today but my counselor couldn’t even suggest any way to deal with my depression, which has progressively gotten worse. I have been trying and I have not been able to stop crying for seven weeks. I have been going through breakup and loss of first love, but don’t know if it’s really over, am afraid to talk to the other person because I will probably be rejected and I don’t know if I can take it. I want to die and the pain just gets worse. I can’t sleep or eat. I feel guilty for being depressed and in despair. I have no one who is always there to talk to and I try to talk to God but the pain just won’t stop. I can’t keep up in school and I am all alone and abandoned by someone who won’t allow himself to love me or maybe no longer does. I want very much to die. Please, please pray for me. There is nothing else I can turn to, nothing else that can help me. Please pray for my “ex” that he will be open to talking to me and overall just for something to happen so I know what to do. If it wasn’t God’s will then why won’t the pain get better and why can’t I get through this? Please help me by your prayers, I don’t know how I will get through this night alone
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O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

For your intentions

Continued prayers……

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for help. Amen

“If God brings it to you- God will bring you through it.”
 
How are you doing? Praying for peace of spirit…
Praying you will get help very soon, priest and therapist/counselor.

Lord Jesus Christ, You have willed that St. Dymphna should be invoked by thousands of clients as the patroness of nervous and mental disease and have brought it about that her interest in these patients should be an inspiration to and an ideal of charity throughout the world. Grant that, through the prayers of this youthful martyr of purity, those who suffer from nervous and mental illness everywhere on earth may be helped and consoled. I recommend to You in particular lovemybatman.

Be pleased to hear the prayers of St. Dymphna and of Your Blessed Mother. Give those whom I recommend the patience to bear with their affliction and resignation to do Your divine will. Give them the consolation they need and especially the cure they so much desire, if it be Your will. Through Christ, Our Lord. Amen.
Copied from:
2heartsnetwork.org/Dymphna.htm

Our Father, Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come, Thy Will be done, on earth as it as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day, our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive
those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation, but
deliver us from evil.
Amen

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee.
Blessed art Thou among women,and
blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us now, and
at the hour of our death.
Amen

Glory be to the Father, to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, as is and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen

O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of Hell,
lead all souls to heaven, especially, those in most need of Your Mercy.
Amen
 
O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

For your intentions

Continued prayers……

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for help. Amen

“If God brings it to you- God will bring you through it.”
 
Praying for peace of spirit…
Praying you will get help very soon, priest and therapist/counselor.

Lord Jesus Christ, You have willed that St. Dymphna should be invoked by thousands of clients as the patroness of nervous and mental disease and have brought it about that her interest in these patients should be an inspiration to and an ideal of charity throughout the world. Grant that, through the prayers of this youthful martyr of purity, those who suffer from nervous and mental illness everywhere on earth may be helped and consoled. I recommend to You in particular lovemybatman.

Be pleased to hear the prayers of St. Dymphna and of Your Blessed Mother. Give those whom I recommend the patience to bear with their affliction and resignation to do Your divine will. Give them the consolation they need and especially the cure they so much desire, if it be Your will. Through Christ, Our Lord. Amen.
Copied from:
2heartsnetwork.org/Dymphna.htm

Our Father, Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come, Thy Will be done, on earth as it as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day, our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive
those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation, but
deliver us from evil.
Amen

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee.
Blessed art Thou among women,and
blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us now, and
at the hour of our death.
Amen

Glory be to the Father, to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, as is and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen

O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of Hell,
lead all souls to heaven, especially, those in most need of Your Mercy.
Amen
 
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