Maybe he forgot? This happens to us oldies!
Maybe it is a case of “The Rose Joke” where one of “us” forgot his wife’s name and needed a reminder:
The Rose Joke
Two elderly couples were walking down the street one day; the wives were about twenty paces ahead of the gents.
One of the old fellows said to the other:
“Have you been doing anything interesting lately?”
The second old man replied:
“Well, yes, as a matter of fact, my wife and I went to a very good restaurant lately.”
“Oh yes”, said the first man, “what was the name of the restaurant?”
“Gosh”, said the second man, "Ummmmm…
“Ahhhhhh, what’s…what’s the name of that, ahhh, that flower - you know - with, ahhhh, with thorns all around it?”
“Hmmmmm”, said the first old man, “do you mean a rose?”
“Yes, yes, a rose”, replied the second man, “a rose!”
And calling ahead to his wife, he asked:
“Hey, Rose, what was the name of that restaurant that we went to last week?”