Help need some Christian advice🙏🏽

[Alma26]

About 5 months ago I was kicked out by girlfriend that I love and adore, from our house because I disciplined my step child, her daughter, with too loud of a voice after I was being disrespected by a 17 year old. I but my tounge for too long and I lost it when she made a rude comment towards me about I’m wasting her moms time. Adding to that my girlfriend and I have a beautiful one year old together and I am so in love with her. My ex shut me out and I barely even saw my baby girl. Now during this time I was doing everything I could to make it up and win her heart back but everything was so dry and I felt like a Roomate at the house. Everytime I come around she complains and says I’m not a man. I coach and teach and have been doing it at the high school level for 11 years and I love it. I provide for my girl and even my step children. She still shut me out and I told her I was going to move on and she really didn’t care. My heart was broken.

I than without looking met a woman. I fell short and had sex with her and just recently she told me she is pregnant. I am torn because I my heart is still with my ex who has my 1 year old baby girl, I wanted us to be together so bad. What do I do ? Please any advice would be appreciated and I already know I shouldn’t be having sex. Please don’t judge: I just need some words of wisdom because I don’t want to lose my love who I really love.

 

[CapitalistCatholic]

See a priest. Have him set up counseling between you, your girlfriend, and your step-daughter. Go to confession and receive the Eucharist often. Lastly, pray, pray, pray.

 

[LateranBasilica]

Are you Catholic
That will determine any advice

 

[LateranBasilica]

See I am confused, You posted in October last year about living with a wife. Now you are posting about a gf who kicked you out 5 months ago. going over your posts you also have another ex wife. You also have a gf with how you share a child, and a new woman who is pregnant.

When you feel like your marriage is falling apart Moral Theology

I am a full time high school teacher and coach and a believer in Jesus Christ. I have 3 step children, one child with my ex and one currently with my wife. So I have a 19, 17, 13, 4, and 7 months. lot of people say what did i get myself into but I fell in love. My wife that has a full time job as well so because of football season and work I get home pretty late and we don’t really talk as much because she is taking care of her kids and baby and im washing bottles and cleaning and by the ti…

Split families how to deal with angry ex Moral Theology

My ex wife makes me look so bad … she talks about me to our kids saying I’m not a man of God for me leaving her because if I was a man of God I would have stayed and forgave her for doing me wrong . My boy treats me like dirt just like my ex wife used to do. What can I do to help guide my son to trust in God … that the split up wasn’t because of him …

My advice is to seek counselling.