I say ruining in the respect that some women want to focus on careers or some other aspect that is abruptly cut off because of the child. For every case like yours, there is a case like mine…parents whose dreams were ruined by an unexpected child, and they both still resent me to this day.
You are no more responsible for ruining your parent’s lives as a rain cloud is responsible for ruining a wedding. The fact that your parents chose to have sex, and then regret it, ruined their lives apparently. For them to foist it on you in the form of resentment is cruel and irrational, as I’m sure you’re well aware.
Again, just because people view something a certain way does not make it rational, reasonable, or even acceptable. Appreciating and accepting all points of view simply because they are points of view is both absurd AND dangerous. Ironically, it’s also the opposite of freedom of choice: it’s slavery to fads.
MAN!!! Jokes are lost on you Ghosty…I try and I try to make this more lighthearted…
But you do raise a good point. Is not condemning something the same as condoning it? Perhaps that is the case, but it is hard to draw that conclusion.
You’ll have to make it more clear when you’re joking, perhaps with a

face instead of a

. The fact is that people much smarter than myself DO actually make the claims you did, so I wasn’t going to assume you were kidding
I don’t think it’s actually a hard case to make, though, at least not in this case. When the “right to choose” is taken generally, it can be a hard thing to distinguish between lack of condoning and condoning, but in this case there is only one particular choice on the table, and those advocating “choice” are also actively protecting and abetting those commiting abortion. The “pro-choicers” in question are not at all apathetic on the issue.
Ah, good question. Well, I look at it like this: To ban ALL of anything is usually a mistake. By this I mean some circumstances call for an abortion( complications with the mother’s health for example).
People always bring up the notion of “complications with the mother’s health”, but rarely actually demonstrate cases where such is certain. There is a reason for this, and that’s because such cases don’t actually exist as detectable until the time of childbirth is imminent, such as breach births. At that point, all but the Chinese government believe that it’s too far along to abort (they believe it’s ok to abort so long as the child has a foot in the birth canal, and they believe that just about anyone can be killed at any time so long as the government decides to do it). Of course, if one defines raising a child as a “complication with the mother’s health”, then all bets are off. You, being a potential carrier of the cold, are a “complication with my health”. I can only assume you mean life-threatening complications directly caused by bearing a child and giving birth.
A ban on abortions was recently shot down because no such clause was included, but the irony is that all cases in which a mother’s life is definately in jeopardy and abortion is the only option of saving her life, abortions are
already illegal. The reason is that such cases only present themselves at the time of natural birth itself, a little late to be performing an abortion under U.S. law. Abortionists shot down the bill using a cop-out, and a false one at that.
Working in medicine I see a lot of really bad medical advice tossed around regarding abortions, advice that would be considered malpractice if it involved anything else. For example, a woman’s risk of life-threatening pregnancy INCREASES with abortion, not decreases. Tubal pregnancies, which are the only certainly life-threatening conditions that can be known about before imminant birth, are greatly increased in women who have had abortions in the past. In fact, I’ve witnessed a number of tubal pregnancies, which require immediate emergency treatment or the woman
will die, and every single case was a women with a history of abortion. Yet women are rarely, if ever, informed of the exact medical risks associated with abortion. This would be deviant malpractice in any other aspect of medicine, but it is protected under “pro-choice” laws and interpretations of the Constitution. This is to say nothing of imminant birth complications such as the hemorage risks from placenta previa, which some studies have shown is 600% more likely in women who’ve had abortions.
Medically speaking, abortion makes it much, much more likely for a woman to die from pregnancy. Many of the life-threatening risks of pregnancy that abortion supporters bring up are actually directly caused by or linked to having an abortion. Sadly ironic.
Basically, if you don’t want to die from pregnancy, the best thing you can do besides not getting pregnant in the first place is never, ever having an abortion. That’s a medical fact.
God bless!