Try reading through posts that others have made, and the responses. Look for responders whose advice seems sound and well thought out, and who post fairly regularly. Then try sending one of these a private message and ask if they would mind sharing their insight. Good luck!
Gwen
Actually, your question didn’t mention sending a private message; however, yes you can send private messages to individuals by clicking on their name and choosing “Send a private message to…”
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