What we really need is witness as to how the Eucharist changed our life, not an explanation of it. We need less apologetic and more witness.
You can explain something till you are blue in the face but opening up about how your life has changed because you meet Jesus in the Sacraments is going to get more attention than a bullet list of bible verses and technical explanations.
-Tim-
Right on! Bingo! Amen!
Seriously, I would agree. Our tradition is such that questions and intelligent pondering are always welcome (Aquinas anyone?) However, it does come down to faith and witness of lives changed is more powerful than argument alone (Aquinas anyone?)
While he wrote volumes on doctrines, including the understanding of the blessed sacrament, St. Thomas’ witness was amazing. He would spend hours in prayer and meditation near the tabernacle. He would rest his head on the tabernacle when he needed inspiration! He wept with joy when he pondered the Eucharist!
I’ve heard so many stories of converts who wound up learning about the church, because they felt “something” in a catholic church they had not felt anywhere else. St. Elizabeth Ann Seton comes to mind. Many other saints have had deep devotions to Christ in the blessed sacrament- how can we not when we really think about it?
I myself, and many I know personally, have been blessed with a grace to be touched by Jesus in a special way when receiving communion. As an extraordinary minister of holy communion, I have become even more convinced of the reality of what we call the Real Presence.
The info, links, etc. others have provided are excellent, I would certainly check them out. And you could tell your friend, the church fathers in 150 AD were already writing about how the blessed sacrament is “the flesh of our savior.” This belief is nothing new but was around from day one.
But don’t forget to pray- ask the Lord to give you a greater understanding and awareness of his presence and pray for your friend!
God bless you.