My suggestion was to start with this group (I have a friend who is one at the monestary at Big Sur) - they could guide you and I believe they have some who live in urban settings.
You have to start somewhere - get a bit of chat going with them and maybe you can find some referrals and help to fine tune your inquiry.
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