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Although me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years, the topic of beliefs has rarely come up…and with good reason.
I am Baptist and she is Catholic. I have earnestly learned about Catholicism, and even attended many Masses both with her and her family. The issue is that I know what she (as a Catholic) should believe, but she does not know why she believes what she believes. She follows some Catholic teachings yet ignores others, with little to no explanation; many of her beliefs are only held by her because it is what her parents taught her. Anytime I try to ask her, she gets defensive and says, “I don’t want to argue about it.” I would like for her to know why she believes what the Church teaches, so that when she is not living with her parents (wedding bells can be heard faintly off in the future) she will have a solid foundation of faith.
How can I get her to open up, or should I just let sleeping dogs lie?
-Mark
I am Baptist and she is Catholic. I have earnestly learned about Catholicism, and even attended many Masses both with her and her family. The issue is that I know what she (as a Catholic) should believe, but she does not know why she believes what she believes. She follows some Catholic teachings yet ignores others, with little to no explanation; many of her beliefs are only held by her because it is what her parents taught her. Anytime I try to ask her, she gets defensive and says, “I don’t want to argue about it.” I would like for her to know why she believes what the Church teaches, so that when she is not living with her parents (wedding bells can be heard faintly off in the future) she will have a solid foundation of faith.
How can I get her to open up, or should I just let sleeping dogs lie?
-Mark