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Yes i have another question which is based on communion and conffesion before taking it

What i learned when i learned alot on this forum and article how its important to conffes mortal sin before taking commuion which is really good practice to work on yourself to learn from mistakes you did before but now things changed when you understand catholic teaching and read catechism but enough about me now lets talk about my main topic ok?

Well yeah where should i start yes here some example i have

How can we help a person if take communion and dont realise that it isnt in state of grace (Mortal sin)

How do you handle such sitation?

1-Do not judge where i readed that alot

2-Do nothing and show it with your lifestyle how its not good to take by sitting and not going when you should not

3-Mention catechism to person but nobody listen

4-Hardened heart which doesnt listen to enything you say and it ends in argument

What s your example in such situation how whould you explain to someone about this problem

i give another example to understand
what if person doesnt know or understand conffesion and belive

1-We dont need conffesion why should i conffes?
2-I dont need to read enything it isnt my problem
3-why should i conffes seriusly why?
4-This isnt my problem to conffes to priest i keep it for my self that isnt enyone else problem neither priest

So in this case how we deal and what attitude we can do by an example?

again

Telling them gently and showing them an example or by our life style explaining what s your choice of doing have enyone came up to this conclusion where you cant do enything to help someone whu is lost?
 
You don’t know anyone’s state of Grace at any time. Just pray for your parish and make sure you are the best example you can be
 
I for sure wouldn’t skip communion if I were in a state of grace. The answer to your question depends a lot on how well you know the person. Asking a priest is always an option.
 
We cannot accidentally sin or offend God. I someone doesn’t realize there’s a problem, they can’t be held at fault. Likewise, we are not to be the judge. On the other hand, we have a duty to gently and kindly instruct within acceptable bounds those among our friends and family so that they learn and grow in their understanding.
 
sebo3e said:
its important to conffes mortal sin before taking commuion which is really good practice to work on yourself to learn from mistakes
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We must also remember confession is a sacrament, a channel of God’s Grace into your life.

Going to confession we surrender to God’s will & allow Him to transfer us.
 
My dear freind halogirl i feel bothered by that when word you as first setence is used because i find it unconfortable that s why i came to an idea and i will ask what do you think that we start with i feel or i think with humility? what s your opinion on this idea
 
That s good and interesting observation thanks
and did you read what i mentionated in situation

1-Person dont belive it has to conffes
2-Person think we dont need to tell priest enything because its their stuff to know what we do privatly etc but its diffrend in our way of teaching by catholic church
 
Of course that s very true my dear freind we should never judge person by what they do yet about part where you told me (we have a duty to gently and kindly instruct) what did you mean by that?

and was that i just mentionated in my question to i know we cant force someone but as you said gently that s why i asked what you whould do in such situation?
 
That s correct and very well said i am happy to hear that plus that s why i mentionated

what about someone whu dont belive about this scarament and see it as non interesting

thats why i aded why should i conffes?
why should priest know what i do in private etc
and that was my question could you please re read i asked

to understand i mean my question orginally was to tell me what whould you do in such situation?
 
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That s good and interesting observation thanks
and did you read what i mentionated in situation

1-Person dont belive it has to conffes
2-Person think we dont need to tell priest enything because its their stuff to know what we do privatly etc but its diffrend in our way of teaching by catholic church
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I read those parts. How much you are able to intervene will depend on what kind of friendship you have with this person. I have friends who need correction on some important topics, but I can tell we aren’t really close enough to have a heart-to-heart talk. To have a conversation that exposes wrongdoing out of love be successful, that person has to really know you love them to the end first.

Your options are:
  1. heartfelt conversation only if you are good friends(knowing they may still continue in their ways, but atleast you said something)
  2. Discussing it with a priest
  3. Praying and doing pennance for offenses against the Eucharist
 
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Allright thank you for the answer i aprishiate it god bless you my dear freind i finally found the answer

i thank you again my our lord bless your day
 
I would also say that the best way to approach it would be “I’m going to confession, would you like to join me?” rather than “You need to go to confession”.
 
That s good idea but what about this?

Hey i am going to conffesion and then i ask whould you like to go with me or join?

answer is why should i conffes i dont need it
why should i conffes to priest whu?
they dont need to know my stuff

that s why i asked what whould you do in this situation?
 
sebo3e said:
answer is why should i conffes i dont need it
why should i conffes to priest whu?
they dont need to know my stuff
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At that point I’d say that I usually feel better after going to confession.

If they still don’t want to go I’d probably drop it at that point.
 
Elf01 said:
I would also say that the best way to approach it would be “I’m going to confession, would you like to join me?” rather than “You need to go to confession”.
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Yes! This worked on my Dad who had not gone to confession for 30 years. I was stunned. All that time all I had to do was ask?!
 
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Elf01:
I would also say that the best way to approach it would be “I’m going to confession, would you like to join me?” rather than “You need to go to confession”.
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Yes! This worked on my Dad who had not gone to confession for 30 years. I was stunned. All that time all I had to do was ask?!
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That’s amazing.
 
sebo3e said:
hey do you have eny example of heartfelt conversation?
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You will know you are capable of having this kind of conversation if you two are the sort of friends who could talk about anything together. Ask yourself, does my friend know how much I love them? If the answer is yes then you can probably have the talk you are wanting to have about you wanting them to go to confession because you love them.

If no, spend more quality time together just being friends before you try anything.
 
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I understand thanks for explanation

and how should we start talking?

by first asking question or something
using catechism in conversation add some bible parts in there when we talk?
 
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