Dear brother Louis,
This indicates a big difference with the Holy Orthodox Church which allows ABC in some restricted circumstances. If you are Catholic, the penalty could be eternal damnation in hell if you practice ABC. On the other hand, if you are Orthodox, under some circumstances for married couples with several children, there would not be the penalty of eternal damnation in hell for practicing ABC.
I don’t want to turn this into a discussion on ABC, but I wanted to make an important comment.
The “big difference” of which you speak does not really exist. There are certainly many elements within the Orthodox Church which view the matter in the way you expressed it, but there are also many who understand the matter in the way the Catholic Church does. There is no one voice in Orthodoxy that speaks on the matter - some may see that as a minus, others a plus.
For those who are more aligned with Catholic thought, it is important to understand that ABC is
not thought of as “permitted.” A proper understanding of the matter depends much on how one understands the concept of
oikonomia. There are Orthodox who understand
oikonomia as “changing the rules for the sake of mercy.” But the Traditional understanding of
oikonomia is not “changing the rules” but simply a mitigation or removal of the penalty normally associated with breaking the rules due to the unique circumstances of the perpetrator.
So the rule has not changed, and ABC still falls short of the mark.
To those Orthodox who are more aligned to Catholic thought on the matter, the use (not “permission”) of ABC is a matter of
oikonomia, to be discussed seriously with the priest. It is not a matter of purely personal convenience.
I’ll give you a comparison. As you know, Catholic teaching states that breaking any one of the Ten Commandments is a mortal sin - it could land you in hell. Let’s say someone steals (breaking a Commandment). He is caught, and during his trial, it is discovered that the person stole to feed his starving family. So the judge mitigates the punishment due to his special circumstances and lets the man go.
Did the judge permit the man to steal (thus changing the law)? Or did the judge simply remove the penalty normally associated with breaking the law?
THAT is what
oikonomia is. It is not a permission to sin. Those who think it is a permission to sin simply do not understand what it is. Unfortunately, there are many Orthodox who today conceive of
oikonomia as “changing the rule,” thus perpetrating, I truly believe, a great disservice to Holy Orthodoxy, for it makes those who are not Orthodox think that the Orthodox Church gives people permission to sin.
I hope that helps.
Blessings,
Marduk