Please do not quote scripture out of context- that is really embarrassing!

uch: I hope your not a Protestant!
You should study to show yourself approved of God; a work-man not needing to be ashamed- RIGHTLY dividing the word of Truth.
Concerning this passage- there are a few key elements that you have missed. Verse 9 is speaking to the “beloved” or the “Dear friends” in verse 8. Please check this- open you Bible and see.
So who are the “Beloved” or the “Dear friends?”
Look back to 2 Peter chapter 3 and verse 1.
You will see that Peter is now writing his SECOND epistle to these “beloved” or “Dear friends.” And so here we must ask ourselves- “If this epistle is the second epistle that Peter has written to this same group of people- THEN TO WHOM DID HE ADDRESS THESE EPISTLES?”
Go back to 1 Peter and read the salutation- (by the way- this is called searching the scriptures- you must do this diligently if you are going to run around and cite passages)
So tell me then- to whom is Peter writing? Let’s see:
“Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ, To God’s elect,” (1 Peter 1:1, 2)
If this does not satisfy you- let’s look a little deeper. How are these people -to whom Peter is writing- described in this context???
1 Peter -
verse 1- STRANGERS- (not to God but to the world)
verse 2- ELECT- (chosen in Christ unto salvation)
verse 3- BORN AGAIN- (unto the lively hope)
verse 4- HEIRS- (of an incorruptible inheritance)
verse 5- KEPT- (by the power of God) etc . . .
So when reading 2 Peter 3:9- we should also look at the immediate context as well. The issue being spoken of is the Return of Christ and the execution of the severe judgment of God- (and therefore the rescue of His people from this wicked world)-
But notice that the Lord is not slack concerning His promise- and this promise is that He will save His people! The reason the Lord is being “patient” or “longsuffering” is so that He would be sure to save all of His elect from their sins- by bringing them to repentance before He judges this world. God is not willing that a single one of His elect will perish.
The “promise” in verse 9 is literally rendered to “us-ward” and the “us” includes Peter himself- and therefore it is abundantly clear that he is referring to all the elect!
Besides- and this should not be overlooked- he goes on to say that we should consider that the “longsuffering of God is salvation.” What does this mean? It means God is being patient and He is not bringing judgment just yet- for His will is to save ALL OF HIS ELECT- “not willing that any should perish.”
Please look into the Doctrines of Grace- this way you will not continue to cite passage after passage in a loose and irresponsible way- not only is this embarrassing for you- but it is disrespectful to God and His promises.