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Got some documentation on that?But a bishop can.
That a Bishop can change the litugy?
Got some documentation on that?But a bishop can.
I have no problem with discussion. I do have a problem with people using insult, derogation, and division, and what I am addressing is acting like grown-ups in the way we address this. That includes recognizing that at least at this time it legitimately exists and figuring out how to charitably live together in light of that. Whether one personally approves of it or not, or whether one personally wants to participate, getting “superior” or casting aspersions on anyone else’s piety or devotion for their choice in the matter is neither “grown up” nor Christian.Catholics, before the internet, were forced to listen to Liturgical Commitees who brought in innovations. Now we have a voice. It is easy to throw out the insult of being childish when information is being presented against one’s opinion. However, until we are all on the same page, guided by our Bishops who are all on the same page, discussion is not insult, it is providing information and giving opinions.
I don’t mean that they change the text of the liturgy. However, there are a number of adaptations they can make. I don’t have any documentation at the moment, but I will find some. In the meantime, I should point out that the intensified statement from the section in Sacrosanctum Concilium which you quoted is “not even a priest”, yet a priest is certainly not the highest authority. This implies to me that perhaps a bishop can do so at some level, since the bishop of a diocese is over the priest.Got some documentation on that?
That a Bishop can change the litugy?
That wasn’t sarcasm. It was simply a disgusting remark which is on public view for the younger members of the forum who should not be exposed to this kind of talk.Some people use sarcasm to make a point. To use the absolute absurdity takes the abstract and presents it in the context of the discussion.
To some of us, these innovations are beyond our concept of acceptable. They are just that, innovations. To those who accept the innovations, the sarcasm is absurd, to us, it is just as unrealistic as adopting a prayer posture that is not Historically Latin Catholic.
If you walked into a Catholic Church where everyone was kneeling on a prayer rug as the Muslims do or shokeling as the Jewish worshipers do, how comfortable would you feel? To me, holding hands is a gesture of prayer used at my Presbyterian In-law’s house. Orans is how my Jewish friends pray. To me, none of the above belong in the liturgy.
But stating that I am more Christian than you is also insulting. Just as stating that traditional Catholics need help in to be “socially charitable” is insulting.I have no problem with discussion. I do have a problem with people using insult, derogation, and division, and what I am addressing is acting like grown-ups in the way we address this. That includes recognizing that at least at this time it legitimately exists and figuring out how to charitably live together in light of that. Whether one personally approves of it or not, or whether one personally wants to participate, getting “superior” or casting aspersions on anyone else’s piety or devotion for their choice in the matter is neither “grown up” nor Christian.
Maybe you really don’t want unity; I don’t know. Maybe I’m wrong to keep trying to promote charity. Everything I read in the gospels from Jesus himself though says to me that those were high goals for Him. Maybe you see me as “the enemy” for wanting us to be able to get along; if so, I don’t know what else to say. I’ll welcome you at my parish anyway if you show up…and I promise not to take your hand if you don’t want me to, although I will wish you peace and pray for you whether you want me to or not.
And maybe those of us who are “traditional” should take comfort that we have a Pope who has expressed many times that some reforms have gone to far and need to be corrected rather than “coming out” with statements that appear to be gloating and have a tone of “we have put up w/ this **** for years and now you are going to get yours. If you don’t like, it leave.”But stating that I am more Christian than you is also insulting. Just as stating that traditional Catholics need help in to be “socially charitable” is insulting.
Sugar coating an insult does not make it easier to swallow. Insulting with a smile is still an insult.
Neither group of people here are on the moral high ground, but those who are openly sarcastic at least admit to it.
I’ve stated many times here that if we were given a liturgy that meet our expectations of being Historically Catholic, we will be less agressive about stating how much we dislike the innovations and presenting the documentation to prove it.
As I said before, my home parish did just that. The traditional mass at 9, the innovative mass at 10:30. Everyone was happy. We are not offered that, just the innovations in many areas.
You can feel that I am your enemy, that I am divisive and that is your right but until both sides give, we will be divided. Halfway is halfway, not three-quarters. While we have liturgical committees and DREs promoting innovations as correct and frowning on those things historically Catholic, it’s three-quarters.
Maybe I’m just not as Christian as you, or maybe I’m historically Catholic enough to fight for those traditions.
I agree with you.And maybe those of us who are “traditional” should take comfort that we have a Pope who has expressed many times that some reforms have gone to far and need to be corrected rather than “coming out” with statements that appear to be gloating and have a tone of “we have put up w/ this **** for years and now you are going to get yours. If you don’t like, it leave.”
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And I think I have agreed with you pretty much across the board here, which is why I don’t understand why I get treated like I’m the enemy and I’m out to destroy the Church.I agree with you.
I have stated that we have put up with this for years and I will admit that I have also stated that things appear to me to be changing toward the more traditional because of B16, but I think that it is rude to tell someone to leave if they don’t like it, to leave.
THAT is what I lived through at my old “Catholic Community”. The sweet smile from the DRE as she stated that she, “Didn’t understand people like me.” or hurried out in disgust when a friend of mine started doing the Rosary for Vocations after mass. Talk about dividing!
Like I stated, 50/50. Have the innovative mass but make sure that we have an Historically Catholic one two. At least SOMEWHERE in the Vicariate.
John please look at what I wrote…And I think I have agreed with you pretty much across the board here, which is why I don’t understand why I get treated like I’m the enemy and I’m out to destroy the Church.
As to having insulted anyone, when you asked the question about what I meant I explained exactly what I meant and apologized for any misunderstanding. As you have correctly noted several times, my statement was to the effect that in general, from my experience at MY parish and from the Traditionalist literature that I have read, that the V2 Catholics needed to HELP the Traditionalists toward more peace and justice involvement, just as the Traditionalists need to help some V2 Catholics toward a better prayer life. I commend you and your parish on what you’ve done, and acknowledged that there are probably many parishes like that. However, according to what I’m reading from the Traditionalist side, the trend is toward a pre-V2 personal piety that believed that peace and justice work was the job of the religious and the missionary. I also see posted in these forums numerous times how “peace and justice work” is just a code word for liberals to change the Church, which reinforces the idea. I meant no insult, as I clearly stated, and seek only to bring all of the Body of Christ together to bring about the kingdom. For that I will not apologize.
I don’t mind if you want to disapprove of me for what I believe, but please attack me for what I actually believe, not some straw man that is contrary to everything I’ve posted, or the beliefs of some other person or group.
I personally consider no one here “the enemy” which is why I continue to try to bring peace and an ability to love each other for the devotion and gifts we bring to the Body. I too have many other things I could be doing, but in my idealistic way consider Catholic unity worth working for. In spite of all this back and forth, I still think that deep down you look for the same thing. Our worship style preferences don’t need to be identical, but we do need to be able to accomodate the legitimate differences charitably, which is what I read you to say above, and with which I totally agree.
Peace,
You have referenced my statements and my specific post on several occasions in quotes, with direct statements that I was being condescending and insulting, even if not by name. The direct statement may not have been made here, but it is in addition to all the other references. I would join in your dismay if I had actually said what you have been referencing, but like I said, I prefer to be disapproved of for what I actually said. I forgive you though fully understanding that you took my words that way even if I didn’t mean them that way.Note how it says either group, not “you” or “me”.
I fully agree and can’t think of anything I would enjoy more. I’ve told you before how much I admire your persistence. I just want us to work together for the common good instead of sniping at each other. I have too much respect for you to do that, and would hope over time that I can earn that kind of respect from you and those who seek the more Traditional style. I have no axe to grind with Traditionalism as long as we can recognize that there are other ways too. For the last time (at least in this post, hehehe) I’ll say that we just need to charitably learn how to allow each other space and not need to force our preferences on each other.In some ways we are exactly the same and I could see us meeting for coffee and donuts as I left the traditional mass and you came to the innovative one. That is what we should be working for, the idea of educating those in power to the needs of all Catholics. That the Orans and Handholding are innovations. They may be allowed but should not be encouraged at EVERY mass. It’s not hard to accomodate us all.
When we get our needs met, I will champion yours. And you know how militant I can be.
MrS said:**Holding Hands at the Our Father?
**ROME, NOV. 18, 2003 (Zenit.org).- Answered by Father Edward McNamara, professor of liturgy at the Regina Apostolorum Pontifical Athenaeum.
I just realized you’re trying to get me to break my fast on the way to Mass!In some ways we are exactly the same and I could see us meeting for coffee and donuts as I left the traditional mass and you came to the innovative one.
At my church, you can eat almost up to the time of the beginning of mass and still not break the hour-fast rule, due both to our great enjoyment of singing and the pastor’s fondness for extensive sermons.I just realized you’re trying to get me to break my fast on the way to Mass!
You are a sneaky little temptress! http://bestsmileys.com/lol/17.gif
Ooooooo, guess we need 2 hours between those masses!I just realized you’re trying to get me to break my fast on the way to Mass!
You are a sneaky little temptress! http://bestsmileys.com/lol/17.gif
This is where I pipe up:What happened to “love your neighbour”?
Your comment is not very charitable.
Movements and Posture
- The gestures and posture of the priest, the deacon, and the ministers, as well as those of the people, ought to contribute to making the entire celebration resplendent with beauty and noble simplicity, so that the true and full meaning of the different parts of the celebration is evident and that the participation of all is fostered. Therefore, attention should be paid to what is determined by this General Instruction and the traditional practice of the Roman Rite and to what serves the common spiritual good of the People of God, rather than private inclination or arbitrary choice.
Aside from the fact that it is not called for in the rubrics, there are many reasons why people object to holding hands during the Our Father. For many people, hand-holding is a very personal action shared with those who are very close–spouses, lovers, parents and children. To be forced to participate or appear hopelessly churlish is unfair and embarrassing to them. A person who does not wish to hold hands in a congregation of people who have come to fully expect everyone to hold hands, is forced to take a perceptively negative action, i.e. actively declining to hold hands. This marks that person out as an unfriendly boor when, ironically, all they are doing is declining to participate in an act that is not even required! What about the objection “At Mass we are all supposed to be one big family anyway; we should be able to show the love we are supposed to feel.” Well, that is the express purpose of “the kiss of peace” before Holy Communion. In some cultures, a fraternal gesture is literally a kiss. In the Orient, it is a polite bow. In our culture, it is a friendly shaking of hands. To go from a more intimate expression of love (holding hands) to a less intimate (a handshake) does not make any sense. If someone wants to hold hands with their spouse or kids during the Our Father, more power to them. When the entire congregation automatically goes into the stretch across the pews mode at the invitation to pray, it becomes intrusive and presumptive.**A common posture, **to be observed by all participants, is a sign of the unity of the members of the Christian community gathered for the Sacred Liturgy: it both expresses and fosters the intention and spiritual attitude of the participants.
Wow! Well said.Frankly, I am astounded that people go to so much trouble to defend any un-mandated action that, effectively, forces other people, willing or not, to participate. If someone wants to individually whirl like a dervish or bounce on one foot, or pick their I-don’t-know-what and it makes them feel holier to do so during Mass, then go for it. But for goodness sakes, just because it makes you feel good, don’t insist on promoting an un-mandated practice that makes others feel like boors if they don’t feel the same way about it and decline to play along.