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DarkLight
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I do not want to be separated from the rest of my family at their time of mourning because of her bad behavior. For me right now that would be too much as though I were simply running scared from her as I’ve done so many other times. I will do my best within the circumstances to set boundaries and establish consequences, and it will be time soon enough to tell her I will not visit if she doesn’t respect them. She does not act this way in front of our extended family - they do not know about any of this, and I see no reason to let them know. I am aware that the presumption would be against me, and unfortunate as it is given her public behavior I cannot blame them.