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I am not sure if home altar is the correct term, if not please correct me. I have seen some picture online of home altars and they are stunning. If someone has one, is that where prayer should take place? What basic elements are used on an altar? I would guess things would be different for everyone depending on how they pray. When it comes to lightening a candle for when praying, does it have to a specific kind of candle? I have seen some beautiful tall candles in the stores with what I am guessing at this point are imagines of Saints on them. Is there a difference for when those are used or votives? Sorry for the silly questions.
 
Hi there - yeah some folks say altar isn’t the right term, but use “shrine” instead, but most of us just call them altars or family altar.

Our is is in the dining room, on top of a cabinet full of home school stuff. We do our eating and schooling in the dining room, and its the one place we all pass a zillion times a day. The main purpose is not to stand and pray in front of it, though I’ve done that, especially when lighting candles. But it is to remind me and our family to pray.

We have a variety of statues, some old, some beautifully hand-carved and painted from Mexico from a certain artist we followed, and some wooden crucifixes carved by a monk in the New Mexico desert… this and that. Above the altar/shrine on the wall is a colonial retablo from Mexico (St. Francis as an old man, unusual), a hand-carved crucifix from an artist in New Mexico, holy cards of our last two popes, an old brass crucifix and a primitive sacred heart in tin from Mexico.

I don’t use blessed candles as we go through too many. Mostly I use votive palm wax candles we can buy from a local outlet at discount. They burn cleaner right down to the bottom of the wick and are non-polluting, unlike paraffin.

We rotate our statues and cloth with the seasons going more dark and sad during Lent for example, removing most everything and putting in our Nativity with a tiny icon of St. Nicholas during Advent, and every start of school year, my son and I wash and replace a bright variety of items as part of our tradition.

When folks ask for special prayer, I like to write the intention on a small slip of paper and slip it under a statue of Mary or under a candle to remind me to pray on that each time I pass. When a really important intention is in my heart, I light a second candle just for that - and that’s a memory tool for me to return to that intention often.

Women have been building shrine/altars since ancient times. I read a book about this phenomena, and if you keep a sharp eye, you will see women of all faiths and even atheists with altar-like collections on their dressers or end tables. We seem called to it.

Here’s one fun thing we do in our family. Our son has special needs and participates in Special Olympics and karate. When he receives a medal or ribbon or any such achievement, he wears it at the event and then when we get home, he places it on the family altar for, “Mary to enjoy and to thank God for the grace” for a few days before it gets hung on the wall of the playroom or bedroom." We also place funeral holy cards and friend’s very special photos commemorating events on the shrine/altar for a few days to remember to thank God for that person in our life.
 
What a lovely idea!
I don’t have a family alter yet - but I have a small section in my family room where I’ve set up my lenten centerpiece and have a tall votive with the holy family image on it.
So, it seems I’ve unknowingly built my alter. 🙂
🍿
I’d love to hear what other people’s look like!!

Peace,
~ PetiteFoi
 
I am not sure if home altar is the correct term, if not please correct me. I have seen some picture online of home altars and they are stunning. If someone has one, is that where prayer should take place? What basic elements are used on an altar?
We call ours a prayer table. We keep statues, holy cards, religious pictures, rosaries, etc. on the top of our prayer table. These can change with the seasons.

For special prayer intentions we may put a picture of someone, a letter, or even write something special to place on the prayer table.

We use the prayer table as a focus point in the living room but do not gather there to pray.

We have a picture of the Sacred Heart of Jesus and Immaculate Heart of Mary hanging above it. (You may be interested in having a Sacred Heart Enthronement with your family.)

On the lower shelves of our prayer table, we have our Bibles, Catechism, books on the saints, prayer books, a bowl of rosaries, special containters for holy cards, etc.

Although we keep a pretty red-glass bowl-style candle holder on the prayer table, we normally don’t burn a candle there for safety reason. Sometimes we have a little night light on there.

When we use a prayer candle (like those with pictures of Saints on them), we put it on the kitchen table and light it during meals. We sometimes include religous items in the center of the kitchen table.
 
I used to have a nice set up in a little nook in my bedroom back home that contained a Holy Family figure, a small statue of Mary and St. Therese, various holy cards, my Bible, and some mementos from my First Communion and Confirmation. Now that I’m in college I don’t have room in my dorm for a fully dedicated prayer space, but on one corner of my dresser I do have the Mary and St. Therese statues along with a Miraculous Medal I bought in France and a small Eastern icon of Mary I found at a holiday craft market. It’s not much, but it does make me feel more at home and remind me to pray. Over Christmas break I rearanged what I had left in my room back home on a small antique sewing table and hung a Rosary on the wall behind. There’s many ways you can set up the home altar/shrine. There’s an older thread where people have posted pictures of theirs. You should be able to find it by typing “home altars” in the search box.
 
Hi there - yeah some folks say altar isn’t the right term, but use “shrine” instead, but most of us just call them altars or family altar.

Our is is in the dining room, on top of a cabinet full of home school stuff. We do our eating and schooling in the dining room, and its the one place we all pass a zillion times a day. The main purpose is not to stand and pray in front of it, though I’ve done that, especially when lighting candles. But it is to remind me and our family to pray.

We have a variety of statues, some old, some beautifully hand-carved and painted from Mexico from a certain artist we followed, and some wooden crucifixes carved by a monk in the New Mexico desert… this and that. Above the altar/shrine on the wall is a colonial retablo from Mexico (St. Francis as an old man, unusual), a hand-carved crucifix from an artist in New Mexico, holy cards of our last two popes, an old brass crucifix and a primitive sacred heart in tin from Mexico.

I don’t use blessed candles as we go through too many. Mostly I use votive palm wax candles we can buy from a local outlet at discount. They burn cleaner right down to the bottom of the wick and are non-polluting, unlike paraffin.

We rotate our statues and cloth with the seasons going more dark and sad during Lent for example, removing most everything and putting in our Nativity with a tiny icon of St. Nicholas during Advent, and every start of school year, my son and I wash and replace a bright variety of items as part of our tradition.

When folks ask for special prayer, I like to write the intention on a small slip of paper and slip it under a statue of Mary or under a candle to remind me to pray on that each time I pass. When a really important intention is in my heart, I light a second candle just for that - and that’s a memory tool for me to return to that intention often.

Women have been building shrine/altars since ancient times. I read a book about this phenomena, and if you keep a sharp eye, you will see women of all faiths and even atheists with altar-like collections on their dressers or end tables. We seem called to it.

Here’s one fun thing we do in our family. Our son has special needs and participates in Special Olympics and karate. When he receives a medal or ribbon or any such achievement, he wears it at the event and then when we get home, he places it on the family altar for, “Mary to enjoy and to thank God for the grace” for a few days before it gets hung on the wall of the playroom or bedroom." We also place funeral holy cards and friend’s very special photos commemorating events on the shrine/altar for a few days to remember to thank God for that person in our life.
That sounds so beautiful.
 
We call ours a prayer table. We keep statues, holy cards, religious pictures, rosaries, etc. on the top of our prayer table. These can change with the seasons.

For special prayer intentions we may put a picture of someone, a letter, or even write something special to place on the prayer table.

We use the prayer table as a focus point in the living room but do not gather there to pray.

We have a picture of the Sacred Heart of Jesus and Immaculate Heart of Mary hanging above it. (You may be interested in having a Sacred Heart Enthronement with your family.)

On the lower shelves of our prayer table, we have our Bibles, Catechism, books on the saints, prayer books, a bowl of rosaries, special containters for holy cards, etc.

Although we keep a pretty red-glass bowl-style candle holder on the prayer table, we normally don’t burn a candle there for safety reason. Sometimes we have a little night light on there.

When we use a prayer candle (like those with pictures of Saints on them), we put it on the kitchen table and light it during meals. We sometimes include religous items in the center of the kitchen table.
I will have to look up the Sacred Heart Enthronement. I have a feeling when I am able to do this like this, it will not be anywhere other than my bedroom. My husband isn’t a Christian and I know it would make him feel uncomfortable.
 
I used to have a nice set up in a little nook in my bedroom back home that contained a Holy Family figure, a small statue of Mary and St. Therese, various holy cards, my Bible, and some mementos from my First Communion and Confirmation. Now that I’m in college I don’t have room in my dorm for a fully dedicated prayer space, but on one corner of my dresser I do have the Mary and St. Therese statues along with a Miraculous Medal I bought in France and a small Eastern icon of Mary I found at a holiday craft market. It’s not much, but it does make me feel more at home and remind me to pray. Over Christmas break I rearanged what I had left in my room back home on a small antique sewing table and hung a Rosary on the wall behind. There’s many ways you can set up the home altar/shrine. There’s an older thread where people have posted pictures of theirs. You should be able to find it by typing “home altars” in the search box.
I will have to look for the pictures for sure. I think part of this wonderful journey is going to be finding what is right for, such as statues. I have been looking on them online but those I would have to buy when I can hold them.
 
Interesting I come across this when I just changed up my own shrine. I have one in my bedroom. I used to have it on my wooden chest but a couple hrs. ago I changed it to on top of an old change table with a hutch. (in my room) I have a framed picture of the Divine Mercy right in the centre. To my left I have a statue of Mary (I’m still looking for a Sacred Heart of Jesus statue) I have an incense holder with incense, a couple rosaries, prayer cards, relic cards, rose petals that were touched to St. Therese’s Relics, holy water are among several items I have on it.

Sojo…I love the idea of putting your child’s achievements on the shrine in thanks! Great idea!
 
Interesting I come across this when I just changed up my own shrine. I have one in my bedroom. I used to have it on my wooden chest but a couple hrs. ago I changed it to on top of an old change table with a hutch. (in my room) I have a framed picture of the Divine Mercy right in the centre. To my left I have a statue of Mary (I’m still looking for a Sacred Heart of Jesus statue) I have an incense holder with incense, a couple rosaries, prayer cards, relic cards, rose petals that were touched to St. Therese’s Relics, holy water are among several items I have on it.

Sojo…I love the idea of putting your child’s achievements on the shrine in thanks! Great idea!
I just put a wallpaper up on my desktop of Sacred Heart of Jesus. Beautiful. I think I am going to need to get a job for all the wonderful things there are.
 
Give it time. It took me years to get the bits and pieces that are now on my shrine. Sometimes I find it in a store, sometimes a friend gives something to me. It’s harder for me because I don’t have a store with religious items and such near by and I don’t like to order online because of cost issues. (like S&H charges) Some places with give out free stuff. I was lucky to get 2 relic cards of St. Gemma online for free! God bless the man who is doing this for those who ask. I just keep my eyes open incase God blesses me with the opportunity to get something for my shrine or to get it to give to others.(because they may need it)
 
I am not sure if home altar is the correct term, if not please correct me. I have seen some picture online of home altars and they are stunning. If someone has one, is that where prayer should take place? What basic elements are used on an altar? I would guess things would be different for everyone depending on how they pray. When it comes to lightening a candle for when praying, does it have to a specific kind of candle? I have seen some beautiful tall candles in the stores with what I am guessing at this point are imagines of Saints on them. Is there a difference for when those are used or votives? Sorry for the silly questions.
We don’t have an “altar” per se. In our living room we have a shelf that we have enthroned an image of the Sacred Heart of Jesus and then around it we have candles, a statue of Our Lady of Guadalupe and one of St. Patrick and an image of a dove, representing the Holy Spirit. Below is a basket with some Catholic books and prayer books and Bible and another shelf with some angels. Many times I sit there and do my prayers. Like others have said we don’t really like as a family use it as an altar and pray there but it is a wonderful place.

Just a thought on the Sacred Heart of Jesus since someone else mentioned it also. our priest told us not too long ago, for pressing needs to always take them to the Sacred Heart of Jesus and so I started a novena to the Sacred Heart of Jesus for our particular needs and after that I began to receive things in the mail from different Sacred Heart organizations. Things like more images, prayer cards and different things. I know as a Catholic you can get a lot of that kind of stuff anyhow but I had never received anything from a Sacred Heart organization until starting the novena, so I really encourage having the image in your home and praying to the Sacred Heart daily.
 
Give it time. It took me years to get the bits and pieces that are now on my shrine. Sometimes I find it in a store, sometimes a friend gives something to me. It’s harder for me because I don’t have a store with religious items and such near by and I don’t like to order online because of cost issues. (like S&H charges) Some places with give out free stuff. I was lucky to get 2 relic cards of St. Gemma online for free! God bless the man who is doing this for those who ask. I just keep my eyes open incase God blesses me with the opportunity to get something for my shrine or to get it to give to others.(because they may need it)
That is wonderful that you could get them online for free. What a great blessing!!! Yeah I don’t see myself rushing to get things, I feel it needs to be prayed about.
 
We don’t have an “altar” per se. In our living room we have a shelf that we have enthroned an image of the Sacred Heart of Jesus and then around it we have candles, a statue of Our Lady of Guadalupe and one of St. Patrick and an image of a dove, representing the Holy Spirit. Below is a basket with some Catholic books and prayer books and Bible and another shelf with some angels. Many times I sit there and do my prayers. Like others have said we don’t really like as a family use it as an altar and pray there but it is a wonderful place.

Just a thought on the Sacred Heart of Jesus since someone else mentioned it also. our priest told us not too long ago, for pressing needs to always take them to the Sacred Heart of Jesus and so I started a novena to the Sacred Heart of Jesus for our particular needs and after that I began to receive things in the mail from different Sacred Heart organizations. Things like more images, prayer cards and different things. I know as a Catholic you can get a lot of that kind of stuff anyhow but I had never received anything from a Sacred Heart organization until starting the novena, so I really encourage having the image in your home and praying to the Sacred Heart daily.
That is so great! What great blessing to receive those items. We see the love Jesus in so many ways.
 
I know it’s a bit late to join the conversation, but I just had to weigh in! I’ve set up a home shrine (I prefer not to use the term “altar,” as an altar is used for sacrifice) on top of my dresser and only spend about $20 on the supplies.

I started by taking a white cloth and draping it over the top of the dresser. Any white cloth will do; the regulations of the cloth draped over the altar at church do not apply to a private home. You may choose to follow these regulations, but that will up the cost. If you do wish to follow the Church’s Mass regulations, you must use either linen or hemp, with no embroidery save for the edges of the cloth. I used a pillow case from a dollar store, which came to $1.50

After draping a cloth, I hung a crucifix above the center of the shrine. Crucifixes range greatly in price, from only about a dollar (I do not recommend these ones as they tend to be ugly) to several thousand. My crucifix is ceramic. I bought it at a thrift store for $5.00. I’d estimate it being about $60 new. If you already have a crucifix, though, there’s no need to buy another one. An alternative to hanging the crucifix on the wall, of course, would be to place a standing crucifix at the back of the shrine. Make sure, however, that it is centered! It may just be my personal preference, but Christ is THE mediator between God and man (even prayers saints offer for us are offered to God through Christ) and he should be the center of our worship.

Following the crucifix, I decorated the shrine with a few objects to add symbolic meaning and to use as aids to meditation: a statue of Our Lady (my favourite depiction of her is the Madonna and Child, so I use that) which I purchased new for $11.00, an “icon” of Jesus that I printed out from the internet, a rosary, and a bottle of holy water (free from my local parish!).

Candles/Incense are a must have. My mother is allergic to incense (unfortunately), so there is none in my shrine. But remember the words of Revelation 5:8, “Bowls of incense…which are the prayers of the saints.” Apparently, God considers lighting incense prayer. I do use candles in abundance. I spent a grand total of $4.69 on votive candle holders from a thrift store. I have three in the back of the shrine, one underneath the crucifix, and one to each side. I have another before the “icon” of Jesus, one before the statue of Mary, and one standing alone. It’s good to have a lot of candles, because then you can pray at night with the lights out and still be able to see. The sight of candles in a dark room is gorgeous, so you get the aesthetic benefit, too. Again, you need not follow Church regulations, as you are in a private home. If you want to follow regulation, however, you need beeswax candles. I just use tea/votive lights from the local supermarket.

In the center of the shrine, to add a little bit of liturgical color, I’ve laid the Liturgy of the Hours for the current season. If you want, you can place a piece of the Blessed Sacrament on your table for private adoration.

Arranging the items on the table can be difficult; on the one hand, you want as much stuff as possible, but on the other, you don’t want the shrine to seem haphazard and overcrowded. I’ve placed my statue of Mary on the left of the shrine with the rosary beside her., the crucifix on the center of the wall, and the “icon” on the right. This way, looking at the shrine from left to right, one will see three major events in Christ’s life: the nativity, the passion, and the resurrection. The candles can symbolically point to Christ as the “light of light” or “light to guide the gentiles.” The LotH serves as a reminder of the Church, which was established by Christ himself.

One final thing: do not forget to have your rosary, any statue, crucifix, or whatever blessed. It’s not necessary, and your prayers will not rise higher, but everything on the shrine will be consecrated, which makes the space feel more consecrated (I speak from experience). Most of my items were blessed by my priest, save for my rosary (given to me by the same priest), which was blessed by Pope Benedict XVI.

I know I’ve given a lot of detail, but this is something I’m passionate about, so I must beg your indulgence.
Pax!
 
Here’s one fun thing we do in our family. Our son has special needs and participates in Special Olympics and karate. When he receives a medal or ribbon or any such achievement, he wears it at the event and then when we get home, he places it on the family altar for, “Mary to enjoy and to thank God for the grace” for a few days before it gets hung on the wall of the playroom or bedroom." We also place funeral holy cards and friend’s very special photos commemorating events on the shrine/altar for a few days to remember to thank God for that person in our life.
Oh Sojo this bought a tear to my eye, very sweet. “for Mary to enjoy”
 
I have a little prayer shrine in my closet. I have it on a table thing with a stand up little image of the Sacred heart of Jesus in like marble/faux marble in the center. To one side I have a statue of Our Lady of Fatima (I’m portuguese) and a Portuguese flag behind her. On the right, I have another image of Our Lady. On the wall behind I have a crucifix and above it an icon of Christ. All around I have prayer cards of Jesus or the Blessed Sacrament. On the altar I have a ton of rosaries and relics of Saints. I also keep a lot of prayer cards on here and candles.

On the wall to the right of the altar, there is a section of my favorite saints and a whole lot of images of the Blessed Virgin Mary with scapulars and rosaries all around.

To the right of the altar, I have three images that are special to me. The three Pope’s during my lifetime: Bl. Pope John Paul the Great, Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI, and Pope Francis.

I also have a little shrine opposite of my bed in my room with a crucifix and an icon of my patron saint, John the Baptist.

On my desk I keep images and prayer cards of the Blessed Virgin and Christ to center me to God daily.

By my bed I have books of Saints and Bibles &c.,

God bless!
 
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