Homosexual civil unions

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How to answer the claim that homosexuals having civil unions, but not marriages in separate, but equal and therefore not equal?

I’m wondering how to respond to that charge.
 
i think that DOMA is probably on it’s way out. here’s the reasoning:

the 14th amendment guarantees equal protection. various court cases (loving v virginia, turner v safley) have ruled that marriage is a fundamental human right. so while the idea of gay marriage might be unpopular now (just as interracial marriage was once unpopular), in thirty years people will look back at this debate and wonder what all the noise was about.

the other big legal problem for people advocating against gay marriage is that it’s impossible to prove standing. it’s impossible to say that gay marriage is going to damage anybody else.
 
i think that DOMA is probably on it’s way out. here’s the reasoning:

the 14th amendment guarantees equal protection. various court cases (loving v virginia, turner v safley) have ruled that marriage is a fundamental human right. so while the idea of gay marriage might be unpopular now (just as interracial marriage was once unpopular), in thirty years people will look back at this debate and wonder what all the noise was about.

the other big legal problem for people advocating against gay marriage is that it’s impossible to prove standing. it’s impossible to say that gay marriage is going to damage anybody else.
Indeed, now that parts of both Europe and America have either full gay marriage or gay civil unions if there were real damage to other people then there should be evidence of that damage available to hand. For instance, has the Massachusetts divorce rate changed appreciably since gay marriage was legalised there about seven years ago?

rossum
 
i think that DOMA is probably on it’s way out. here’s the reasoning:

the 14th amendment guarantees equal protection. various court cases (loving v virginia, turner v safley) have ruled that marriage is a fundamental human right. so while the idea of gay marriage might be unpopular now (just as interracial marriage was once unpopular), in thirty years people will look back at this debate and wonder what all the noise was about.

the other big legal problem for people advocating against gay marriage is that it’s impossible to prove standing. it’s impossible to say that gay marriage is going to damage anybody else.
What does DOMA stand for?

While the current trends seem to indicate that homosexual marriage will eventually become the law of the land, I do not think that in 30 years people will look back on it as they do the hubbub surrounding interracial marriages. The Catholic Church at least will still be teaching that homosexual unions are immoral while the Church never spoke of interacial marriages as being immoral.

It’s like with Roe v Wade. Abortion on demand was enshrined as the law of the land nearly 40 years ago. But all people certainly are not looking back wondering what the noise was about. The fight is still going on. It will be the same with homosexual unions. It may become the law of the land, but for those who take the Christian faith seriously, it will never be acceptable.
 
i think that DOMA is probably on it’s way out. here’s the reasoning:

the 14th amendment guarantees equal protection. various court cases (loving v virginia, turner v safley) have ruled that marriage is a fundamental human right. so while the idea of gay marriage might be unpopular now (just as interracial marriage was once unpopular), in thirty years people will look back at this debate and wonder what all the noise was about.

the other big legal problem for people advocating against gay marriage is that it’s impossible to prove standing. it’s impossible to say that gay marriage is going to damage anybody else.
The problem is defining marriage as one man and one woman doesnt violate any equal protection clsue. Also marriage is a priviledge ont a right no matter what the court says. Rights are based on natural law and theres no natural that indicates marriage should be a right
 
What does DOMA stand for?

While the current trends seem to indicate that homosexual marriage will eventually become the law of the land, I do not think that in 30 years people will look back on it as they do the hubbub surrounding interracial marriages. The Catholic Church at least will still be teaching that homosexual unions are immoral while the Church never spoke of interacial marriages as being immoral.

It’s like with Roe v Wade. Abortion on demand was enshrined as the law of the land nearly 40 years ago. But all people certainly are not looking back wondering what the noise was about. The fight is still going on. It will be the same with homosexual unions. It may become the law of the land, but for those who take the Christian faith seriously, it will never be acceptable.
The courts improperly rule with no logical basis for their conclusions. One man one woman marriage doesnt violate anyones “rights” and marriage should be as much a “right” as having a drivers license is a “right” which it isnt although I bet there anr many who would argue it should be.
 
All this “civil union” stuff is just a way for the camel to get his nose under the tent. The homosexuals want to be looked at, considered legally, and treated in every way as those who are NOT homosexuals. (can you say “alternative lifestyle”?)They will do that by the fake “adoption” mantra, the “civil union” charade, and simply putting homosexuals on tv who are not threatening, honorable and just like everyone else. It’s a successful effort, mainly because the religious in this nation, including priests and Bishops, strain and push and whine to be sure that they are not treated differently. Forget “fire and brimstone.” Those dats are gone. Remember I’m ok…you’re ok??..When have you heard any priest give a sermon about why…why in the bible and in Church tradition…homosexuality is a sin…OH I SAID IT…“SIN.”… Sorry to bring that up on a Catholic site
 
What does DOMA stand for?

While the current trends seem to indicate that homosexual marriage will eventually become the law of the land, I do not think that in 30 years people will look back on it as they do the hubbub surrounding interracial marriages. The Catholic Church at least will still be teaching that homosexual unions are immoral while the Church never spoke of interacial marriages as being immoral.

It’s like with Roe v Wade. Abortion on demand was enshrined as the law of the land nearly 40 years ago. But all people certainly are not looking back wondering what the noise was about. The fight is still going on. It will be the same with homosexual unions. It may become the law of the land, but for those who take the Christian faith seriously, it will never be acceptable.
DoMA is the defense of marriage act. i was passed in the 90s under clinton. recently, the obama justice department said they would no longer try to enforce it, because they thought it was unconstitutional. you can see the letter here.

wrt interracial marriages, the catholic church actually did side with the plaintiffs in loving v virginia (according to an unsourced assertion in wikipedia), while many other religious groups opposed it.
ignatius777: The problem is defining marriage as one man and one woman doesnt violate any equal protection clsue. Also marriage is a priviledge ont a right no matter what the court says. Rights are based on natural law and theres no natural that indicates marriage should be a right
well, i don’t want to get into some semantic argument about the difference between a privilege and a right. but the fact is that the supreme court has decided that marriage is a legal right. they have deemed it so fundamental that even people in prison are allowed to get married.

and the definition of marriage that you made up definitely does harm to gay and lesbian couples and their children. it’s demonstrable, there is evidence to support these assertions. so, the equal protection clause does apply here.
d91c: The homosexuals want to be … treated in every way as those who are NOT homosexuals.
isn’t that self evident? i mean, i guess that i couldn’t agree with this statement more, but just this one;p

the reality of the situation is that homosexuality isn’t going away. so their struggle for equal rights isn’t going anywhere either, unless every gay person is forced back into the closet. this doesn’t seem likely, but i may have to concede to Joe that the controversy may far outlive the legal decisions.
 
This is not a civil rights issue. Our Jewish brothers have also spoken about this:

jewishworldreview.com/cols/sowell110508.php3
Our Jewish brothers and sisters have indeed spoken about this:RESOLUTION

WHEREAS, justice and human dignity are cherished Jewish values, and

WHEREAS, in March of 1999 the Women’s Rabbinic Network passed a resolution urging the Central Conference of American Rabbis to bring the issue of honoring ceremonies between two Jews of the same gender to the floor of the convention plenum, and

WHEREAS, the institutions of Reform Judaism have a long history of support for civil and equal rights for gays and lesbians, and

WHEREAS, North American organizations of the Reform Movement have passed resolutions in support of civil marriage for gays and lesbians, therefore

WE DO HEREBY RESOLVE, that the relationship of a Jewish, same gender couple is worthy of affirmation through appropriate Jewish ritual, and

FURTHER RESOLVED, that we recognize the diversity of opinions within our ranks on this issue. We support the decision of those who choose to officiate at rituals of union for same-gender couples, and we support the decision of those who do not, and

FURTHER RESOLVED, that we call upon the CCAR to support all colleagues in their choices in this matter, and

FURTHER RESOLVED, that we also call upon the CCAR to develop both educational and liturgical resources in this area.

Source: Text of the Reform Judaism Gay Marriage Resolution.

rossum
 
Marriage is a natural right. But current marriage laws do not violate equal protection. Anyone may get married to someone of the oppose sex regardless of their sexual preferences.

Simply changing the definition of marriage does not make it an equal protection issue.

Marriage is essential to the survival of a society. There is no society in the history of mankind that has defined marriage as other than between opposite sex persons. Some societies have freely tolerated homosexual behavior, none have called it marriage.

Marriage requires the marital act. Same sex couples are inherently incapable of the marital act. Hence, same sex marriage is a contradiction in terms. It’s like saying triangles and squares have an equal right to be circles due to the equal protection clause. It is an impossibility.
 
DoMA is the defense of marriage act. i was passed in the 90s under clinton. recently, the obama justice department said they would no longer try to enforce it, because they thought it was unconstitutional. you can see the letter here.
Not strictly correct. There are currently some Constitutional challenges, under the equal protection element of the Fifth Amendment. The DoJ has decided that it will not longer oppose those challenges to the DoMA. It will still enforce the law, but it will not oppose attempts to have it ruled unconstitutional. When and if it is so ruled then they will obviously stop enforcing it.

rossum
 
Marriage is a natural right. But current marriage laws do not violate equal protection. Anyone may get married to someone of the oppose sex regardless of their sexual preferences.
This is a very weak argument. The equivalent before Loving v Virginia was:Marriage is a natural right. But current marriage laws do not violate equal protection. Anyone may get married to someone of the oppose sex and of the same race regardless of their sexual preferences.
That argument was rightly thrown out by the Supreme Court. You would do well to try to find a different argument, one that the Supreme Court has not already rejected.

rossum
 
Jewish World Review Nov. 5, 2008 / 7 Mar-Cheshvan 5769
Affirmative Action and Gay ‘Marriage’
By Thomas Sowell
Marriage has existed for centuries and, until recent times, it has always meant a union between a man and a woman. Over those centuries, a vast array of laws has grown up, all based on circumstances that arise in unions between a man and a woman.
this part i bolded isn’t exactly correct. it would be true if he said “since the victorian era in the west.” but it’s an appeal to tradition. for centuries people thought the sun revolved around the earth, it did not make it so.
The real issue is whether marriage should be redefined— and, if for gays, why not for polygamists? Why not for pedophiles?
this is a slippery slope argument. if marriage is two people becoming one, then polygamy would not fit in here. children cannot make adult decisions, so them getting married necessarily involves coercion. but this is so obviously a logical fallacy i won’t spend any more time on it.
Marriage is not a right but a set of legal obligations imposed because the government has a vested interest in unions that, among other things, have the potential to produce children, which is to say, the future population of the nation.
this is untrue. sterile couples are allowed to get married, old people are allowed to get married, people that don’t want kids are allowed to get married. the potential or intent to produce children is not a qualification for marriage.
Gays were on their strongest ground when they said that what they did was nobody else’s business. Now they are asserting a right to other people’s approval, which is wholly different.
None of us has a right to other people’s approval.
this is an equivocation. the writer is confusing “approval” for “legal rights.” but what is implied is more pernicious. the writer seems to be implying that gays were in a better position when they were in the closet. the statement belies a certain callousness.

whatever. i don’t want to debate this stuff ad nausam with anybody. but the paper edwest linked to is full of logical fallacies. which is fine, if it tells you what you want to hear, but nothing like that has the remotest chance of withstanding logical debate in a courtroom. i mean, it might be able to confuse a jury that has little training in formal logic, but it would be torn to shreds in a supreme court proceeding.
 
This is a very weak argument. The equivalent before Loving v Virginia was:Marriage is a natural right. But current marriage laws do not violate equal protection. Anyone may get married to someone of the oppose sex and of the same race regardless of their sexual preferences.
That argument was rightly thrown out by the Supreme Court. You would do well to try to find a different argument, one that the Supreme Court has not already rejected.

rossum
Persons of complementary sex but different race are not inherently incapable of the marital act.
Persons of the same sex are inherently incapable of the marital act.
A marriage without the possibility of the marital act is a contradiction in terms.

I’m not arguing before the court, but if the court cannot see that, it misunderstands thousands of years of history.

Persons of the same sex living together and engaging in activities which are not the marital act is simply not marriage.
 
I disagree. Here is one more article that I think puts things clearly into perspective:

jewishworldreview.com/jeff/jacoby_gay_marriage.php3

Peace,
Ed
thanks for the link, but i found the article to be even more confusing than the last.
All of us are created equal. The same-sex marriage movement, by contrast, is grounded in the denial of a fundamental truth: The Creator who made us equal made us male and female. That duality has always and everywhere been the starting point for marriage. The newly fashionable claim that marriage can ignore that duality is akin to the claim, back when lunch counters were segregated, that America was a land of liberty and justice for all.
i don’t even know where to start. but the part in bold is just not true. i’m not going to get into it, though, because i’m not going to try to convince people what they feel is wrong. i will point out where arguments are logically indefensible, but this article you linked to is so full of untruths misrepresentations that there is no point in debating it.
 
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