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Sure its possible…but it doesn’t make it right.
Actually that depends on how we define “sex”." If we define sex as the the meeting of complimentary sexual organs in such that the male ejaculates, then no, homosexual sex is not possible. 🤷
 
Have you not noted that a same sexed “couple” need not consist of two persons with homosexual orientation? Or that a normal couple need not consist of two persons with heterosexual orientation?

So how would the Christian ban on the one discriminate against persons with a certain orientation?

Because Christian marriage - i e with someone of opposite sex - would feel like a second best for a homosexual? But lots of heterosexuals make marriages with second bests, like because they lost their first love or because of other practical circumstances!
 
I am certainly not asking Christians to conform to the rest of society. I am asking them to stop the use of law to force others to conform to their views
Even if “our” views are those of humanity, historically?

Sparta encouraged gay pairs in the military, but each Spartan by law was married to a wife and begat children with her. The forenoted encouragement became a strain on Spartan marriages, which tended to become more and more barren. But never ever did they consider redefining marriage.

The other Doric state, Crete, punished sodomy with death, just as Israel did.
That sounds easy. What exactly were Jesus’ words about homosexual marriage?
Through his disciple St Paul:
[5] For know you this and understand, that no fornicator, or unclean, or covetous person (which is a serving of idols), hath inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. [6] Let no man deceive you with vain words. For because of these things cometh the anger of God upon the children of unbelief. [7] Be ye not therefore partakers with them.
drbo.org/chapter/56005.htm

“Unclean” seems to mean given up to unnatural vice. It certainly does not mean merely leper in the medical sense. So, practising unnatural vice is evil.

Through his prophet Isaiah:
[20] Woe to you that call evil good, and good evil: that put darkness for light, and light for darkness: that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter.
drbo.org/chapter/27005.htm

So, calling an evil thing - like “uncleanness” - a good thing is clearly illicit.

And from his own mouth, about marriage:
[3] And there came to him the Pharisees tempting him, and saying: Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? [4] Who answering, said to them: Have ye not read, that he who made man from the beginning, Made them male and female? And he said: [5] For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife, and they two shall be in one flesh. [6] Therefore now they are not two, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.
drbo.org/chapter/47019.htm

Which is why marriage is undissoluble and good. And therefore it is illicit to call uncleanness indissoluble, illicit to call uncleanness good and illicit to call uncleanness marriage.
I did not think Christians invented marriage, or owned it in any way. I for one do not want to live in a society ruled by scripture. I’m against genocide for one thing.
So is Scripture, if you think the New Testament belongs to it.
[16] And the eleven disciples went into Galilee, unto the mountain where Jesus had appointed them. [17] And seeing him they adored: but some doubted. [18] And Jesus coming, spoke to them, saying: All power is given to me in heaven and in earth. [19] Going therefore, teach ye all nations; baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. [20] Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and behold I am with you all days, even to the consummation of the world.
drbo.org/chapter/47028.htm

All nation=disciples? THEN, no nation Amalekites any more.
Well if there is a God, and he intends to kill and inflict pain and misery on the innocent, even those innocent of the things to which he objects then God is certainly not right, and is certainly expressing no truth worthy of the name.
Misses the point that man belongs to God. Misses the point that as even for sparrows, no man ever dies without it being God’s will. Misses the point that God therefore can kill the innocent to punish the guilty, which we cannot: to us death penalty is ultimate judgement, and therefore we would be judging the innocent with the guilty. To God it is the eternity of the souls that is ultimate judgement and death as life something he does all the time.
 
I did not think Christians invented marriage, or owned it in any way. I for one do not want to live in a society ruled by scripture. I’m against genocide for one thing.
So is Scripture, if you think the New Testament belongs to it.
[16] And the eleven disciples went into Galilee, unto the mountain where Jesus had appointed them. [17] And seeing him they adored: but some doubted. [18] And Jesus coming, spoke to them, saying: All power is given to me in heaven and in earth. [19] Going therefore, teach ye all nations; baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. [20] Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and behold I am with you all days, even to the consummation of the world.
drbo.org/chapter/47028.htm

All nation=disciples? THEN, no nation Amalekites any more.
 
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I am certainly not asking Christians to conform to the rest of society. I am asking them to stop the use of law to force others to conform to their views

Even if “our” views are those of humanity, historically?

Yes.

The other Doric state, Crete, punished sodomy with death, just as Israel did.
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			*That sounds easy. What exactly were Jesus' words about homosexual marriage?*
Through his disciple St Paul.

I don’t accept that of Jesus was God, and he knew we would be having this debate int he future, and he agrees with you, that he would have left this important point to someone he never met to mention in passing.

And from his own mouth, about marriage:
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 	 		 			 				[3] And there came to him the Pharisees tempting him, and saying: Is  it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? [4] Who  answering, said to them: Have ye not read, that he who made man from the  beginning, Made them male and female? And he said: [5] For this cause  shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife, and  they two shall be in one flesh. [6] Therefore now they are not two, but  one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put  asunder.
It would be more useful had he actually said something about same-sex marriage under civil law, which is what we are discussing.

Which is why marriage is undissoluble and good. And therefore it is illicit to call uncleanness indissoluble, illicit to call uncleanness good and illicit to call uncleanness marriage.

But you don’t think all sorts of marriages (like those of divorced people) are valid. Why do you accept civil registration of them?
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			*I did not think Christians invented  marriage, or owned it in any way. I for one do not want to live in a  society ruled by scripture. I'm against genocide for one thing.*
So is Scripture, if you think the New Testament belongs to it.

Please point me to the New Testament scripture opposing the genocide,
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			*Well if there is a God, and he  intends to kill and inflict pain and misery on the innocent, even those  innocent of the things to which he objects then God is certainly not  right, and is certainly expressing no truth worthy of the name.*
Misses the point that man belongs to God. Misses the point that as even for sparrows, no man ever dies without it being God’s will. Misses the point that God therefore can kill the innocent to punish the guilty, which we cannot: to us death penalty is ultimate judgement, and therefore we would be judging the innocent with the guilty. To God it is the eternity of the souls that is ultimate judgement and death as life something he does all the time.

I do not disagree that if there is a God, and that he is your God, that what you say may be true. But to my mind a God which actively kills the innocent, in preference to, for example, appearing in an unchallengeable way before us and making his existence and power clear, is not a God one can reasonably feel is good.
 
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I don’t accept that of Jesus was God, and he knew we would be having this debate int he future, and he agrees with you, that he would have left this important point to someone he never met to mention in passing.

Then you are not a Catholic. You have excommunicated yourself from the Church, if you ever were a Catholic.
 
Even if “our” views are those of humanity, historically?

Sparta encouraged gay pairs in the military, but each Spartan by law was married to a wife and begat children with her. The forenoted encouragement became a strain on Spartan marriages, which tended to become more and more barren. But never ever did they consider redefining marriage.

The other Doric state, Crete, punished sodomy with death, just as Israel did.

Through his disciple St Paul:

drbo.org/chapter/56005.htm

“Unclean” seems to mean given up to unnatural vice. It certainly does not mean merely leper in the medical sense. So, practising unnatural vice is evil.

Through his prophet Isaiah:

drbo.org/chapter/27005.htm

So, calling an evil thing - like “uncleanness” - a good thing is clearly illicit.

And from his own mouth, about marriage:

drbo.org/chapter/47019.htm

Which is why marriage is undissoluble and good. And therefore it is illicit to call uncleanness indissoluble, illicit to call uncleanness good and illicit to call uncleanness marriage.

So is Scripture, if you think the New Testament belongs to it.

drbo.org/chapter/47028.htm

All nation=disciples? THEN, no nation Amalekites any more.

Misses the point that man belongs to God. Misses the point that as even for sparrows, no man ever dies without it being God’s will. Misses the point that God therefore can kill the innocent to punish the guilty, which we cannot: to us death penalty is ultimate judgement, and therefore we would be judging the innocent with the guilty. To God it is the eternity of the souls that is ultimate judgement and death as life something he does all the time.
Why would they change their views on marriage, the Spartans that is? Marriage wasn’t about love, for the Spartans or other groups. Sure, sometimes you were lucky and got to marry someone you loved, but that wasn’t the point. Traditional marriage was about a political and financial agreement between families.

Also, the Spartans were huge into infanticide. Only the best and strongest babies got to live. Infanticide in general is a pretty traditional human behavior. Doesn’t mean we should do it today.

In traditional Roman culture, divorce was common,. Because couples would be split up by order of their families due to shifts in fortune or political alliances.

In Roman culture, you could legally force your 14 year old to marry an 80 year old, who could then legally kill her and his children at his whim. Or, conversely, as head of a family, you could force a member of your family to divorce a spouse even if they had grown to love them and did not want to marry another, they way Octavian Caesar did with his step son.

Tthat’s the kind of marriage you claim you support? One where women and children are property and can be killed at the father’s discression, and when couples can be forced into both marriage and divorce?

The fact is, my marriage in current form, one in which I chose my husband of my own free will, because I loved him, and he is not allowed to legally beat and rape me, is an extremely modern concept. Since I no longer have to be subject to “traditional marriage,” I don’t see why gays should be either.

Besides, something being tradition doesn’t make it right. Slavery is a big part of traditional human history, as is the subjugation of women. Not that heterosexual marriag is a bad thing, but keeping something a certain way based on “tradition” is not a convincing justification.

This isn’t a theocracy. If you don’t want to marry someone of the same sex, than just don’t do it. But legislating based on scripture? Yeah, this isn’t feudal Europe. This isn’t the Inquisition anymore guys. You don’t still get to force your religious views on others at the point of the sword.

The majority of young people, even religious ones, support gay marriage. This is a losing battle you’re waging. I honestly see you no different than racists in the 60s fighting against interracial marriage.

How do you feel knowing that a few years from now, you will be regarded as history’s villains?
 
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I don’t accept that of Jesus was God
, and he knew we would be having this debate int he future, and he agrees with you, that he would have left this important point to someone he never met to mention in passing.

Then you are not a Catholic. You have excommunicated yourself from the Church, if you ever were a Catholic.

This point is made in every post I make when I say I am not a believer. Looking at your quote I see I am also not a speller. But I believe in good spelling!
 
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This point is made in every post I make when I say I am not a believer. Looking at your quote I see I am also not a speller. But I believe in good spelling!
You have no future without Jesus. Seek salvation!

There is an epic spiritual battle going on right now between Jesus and Satan. Pride (Satan) has come to rule. We are already far more evil than at the time of Noah.

The coming 10 chastisements will break the back of evil. Time is short. Convert while you still can. Millions of us will lose our lives during the chastisements. It will be too late to convert when the chastisements start.

I will pray for you.
 
Hokomai;9335891:
You have no future without Jesus. Seek salvation!
If I believed the God of the (literal) Bible was the real God, I would not worship Him even if I knew for a fact it was true and I would go to Hell for not worshiping Him, anymore than I would worship any other genocidal violent deity.

Would you worship Hitler if you knew you’d go to Hell if you didn’t? No? That’s the same I feel about any being who commits genocide. (and yes, I’m against abortion if you’re wondering).

Luckily I don’t believe that, so I’m happy to worship God without feeling like I’m compromising my morality just for my own benefit (i.e. eternal life in Heaven).

I couldn’t care less that you think I’m wrong. Just as I’m sure you don’t care I think you’re wrong. But the difference between you and me is I don’t want to force you by law to follow my religious beliefs that you do not share.
 
ACCT;9336134:
If I believed the God of the (literal) Bible was the real God, I would not worship Him even if I knew for a fact it was true and I would go to Hell for not worshiping Him, anymore than I would worship any other genocidal violent deity.

Would you worship Hitler if you knew you’d go to Hell if you didn’t? No? That’s the same I feel about any being who commits genocide. (and yes, I’m against abortion if you’re wondering).

Luckily I don’t believe that, so I’m happy to worship God without feeling like I’m compromising my morality just for my own benefit (i.e. eternal life in Heaven).

I couldn’t care less that you think I’m wrong. Just as I’m sure you don’t care I think you’re wrong. But the difference between you and me is I don’t want to force you by law to follow my religious beliefs that you do not share.
Put down the Skeptics Annotated Bible and open your heart and mind to God. God as creator has the right to deal with His creation any way He sees fit. Concentrating on human life sadly misses the point. The question to be asked is what happened to those souls?
 
ACCT;9336134:
In fact, you think I do have a future, do you not? I’ll be there with all those married homosexuals.
That’s ok…you can come sit with the Quakers as we enter into Meeting as we raise our hearts in praise to the Eternal…even in the depths of Hell he will be there…“though I make my bed in the lowest hell…Thou art there.”🙂
 
There are always signs before Divine intervention. Find salvation now!
ACCT,

You do realize that Jews look for signs and Gentiles look for miracles. When you read the NT you will see in the writings when there is a suggestion of signs this is to garner the interest of the Jewish audience. Since I am Gentile at heart I am more for miracles.

Salvation comes in stages as you know. It is not a one time process. But on the other hand, If you ask me to, I mean…do I hear an Amen…do I hear a prayer…can the brothers out there jump, can you shout…and you are wondering…and you are asking…do I have it in me…now…now…now is the time…don’t wait…and I say…turn from your sorrowful ways…and I say…amen, amen…brother…do you hear me, brother…ahh

Ok…I will work on it…👍
 
ACCT,

You do realize that Jews look for signs and Gentiles look for miracles. When you read the NT you will see in the writings when there is a suggestion of signs this is to garner the interest of the Jewish audience. Since I am Gentile at heart I am more for miracles.

Salvation comes in stages as you know. It is not a one time process. But on the other hand, If you ask me to, I mean…do I hear an Amen…do I hear a prayer…can the brothers out there jump, can you shout…and you are wondering…and you are asking…do I have it in me…now…now…now is the time…don’t wait…and I say…turn from your sorrowful ways…and I say…amen, amen…brother…do you hear me, brother…ahh

Ok…I will work on it…👍
Congregation:

🍿 :clapping: :extrahappy: 🍿 :amen: :coolinoff:
 
Hokomai;9336148:
That’s ok…you can come sit with the Quakers as we enter into Meeting as we raise our hearts in praise to the Eternal…even in the depths of Hell he will be there…“though I make my bed in the lowest hell…Thou art there.”🙂
It will be nice to see you all. But isn’t one expected to remain silent at a meeting until something truly worthwhile to say occurs to one? For prolix persons such as me, that could be hell! 😃
 
Thank you Ed. You provide an interesting test of Catholic support for the Church teaching, and church leaders’ commitment to it:
In those situations where homosexual unions have been legally recognized or have been given the legal status and rights belonging to marriage, clear and emphatic opposition is a duty. One must refrain from any kind of formal cooperation in the enactment or application of such gravely unjust laws and, as far as possible, from material cooperation on the level of their application. In this area, everyone can exercise the right to conscientious objection.
Have Catholic lawyers; court registrars; people who register civil unions or administer adoptions; or note next of kin in hospitals; or administer wills; or note people to call when a child is sick at school; or provide employment rights to homosexual spouses under law; been following this teaching in all those many countries which legally recognise homosexual unions? if so, how many and what proportion? My guess is almost none and one zillionth of a per cent.
 
Thank you Ed. You provide an interesting test of Catholic support for the Church teaching, and church leaders’ commitment to it:

Have Catholic lawyers; court registrars; people who register civil unions or administer adoptions; or note next of kin in hospitals; or administer wills; or note people to call when a child is sick at school; or provide employment rights to homosexual spouses under law; been following this teaching in all those many countries which legally recognise homosexual unions? if so, how many and what proportion? My guess is almost none and one zillionth of a per cent.
??? What are you talking about? You don’t have to be in a homosexual “marriage” nor a regular marriage to leave your property via a Will to someone, nor give them power of attorney, or direction over your healthcare if you become incapacitated. All this can be done regardless of sex/gender and sexual orientation or relationship status (unless you are married or have kids, because then most states don’t allow you to completely disinherit a spouse or kids). So I do not know how letting people do any of those things have to do with “formal cooperation.” Again, if someone is the legal guardian of a child then they are notified if the child is sick at school, (maybe 2 brothers/sisters gained legal custody of a niece/nephew after the death of their sibling), it again has nothing to do with formal cooperation of a unjust law.

Now for some of the other things, indeed, Catholic adoption agencies have closed down, and businesses and some Catholic entities have stopped provided spousal benefits at all, because of these same sex marriage laws. I know that a few individuals in key government positions (those who issued marriage licenses) quit after the NY state “marriage” law passed. 🤷
 
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