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matt487
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I hate to revive this topic yet again, but I need to know.
I had been reading reviews for Goodbye, Good Men by Michael Rose, about a supposed underground gay culture present in America’s seminaries today. There seem to be horror stories about young men, well suited for the priesthood, being turned away from seminaries because they do not support homosexuality or are not “gay friendly” enough.
Also, a number of reviews are given by seminarians who seem not only to support this claim, but even also mention that many seminarians are not being chaste - in other words, many seminarians are in open relationships with each other and some even go cruising at gay bars during the evenings.
I initially believe that Rose’s claims may be exaggerated, but I am still a little wary. I have no problem studying alongside holy, celibate men who feel an attraction to the same sex, men who are chaste and commit to a life of service to God (I had a roomate, Catholic too, for my first year of college whom I suspect is attracted to the same gender, and we got along well), but I do not want to be in an atmosphere with “open relationships” and “cruising gay bars.” As someone who is called for the priesthood, I want to live in an environment in which everyone else is committed to serving God and being honorable priests within the Church.
Like I said, I’m a little skeptical and think he may exaggerate, but I would like some other (name removed by moderator)ut. Any (name removed by moderator)ut perhaps from young men studying in seminaries right now would be greatly appreciated.
God bless
~Matt
I had been reading reviews for Goodbye, Good Men by Michael Rose, about a supposed underground gay culture present in America’s seminaries today. There seem to be horror stories about young men, well suited for the priesthood, being turned away from seminaries because they do not support homosexuality or are not “gay friendly” enough.
Also, a number of reviews are given by seminarians who seem not only to support this claim, but even also mention that many seminarians are not being chaste - in other words, many seminarians are in open relationships with each other and some even go cruising at gay bars during the evenings.
I initially believe that Rose’s claims may be exaggerated, but I am still a little wary. I have no problem studying alongside holy, celibate men who feel an attraction to the same sex, men who are chaste and commit to a life of service to God (I had a roomate, Catholic too, for my first year of college whom I suspect is attracted to the same gender, and we got along well), but I do not want to be in an atmosphere with “open relationships” and “cruising gay bars.” As someone who is called for the priesthood, I want to live in an environment in which everyone else is committed to serving God and being honorable priests within the Church.
Like I said, I’m a little skeptical and think he may exaggerate, but I would like some other (name removed by moderator)ut. Any (name removed by moderator)ut perhaps from young men studying in seminaries right now would be greatly appreciated.
God bless
~Matt