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How kind of you! Thank you very much. (And, yes, I understand your meaning.)Belated happy atheist day…4/1/08.
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How kind of you! Thank you very much. (And, yes, I understand your meaning.)Belated happy atheist day…4/1/08.
How’s that for equal rights? Your own holiday.![]()
Which is quite interesting, but it has no bearing on the subject at hand. Most people are attracted to the other gender, and that is called “natural” or “inborn” attraction. The opposite is also natural and inborn.The idea that there exists an “inborn” attraction is dubious at best. A University of Berkeley researcher Wendy Saltzman has uncovered profound changes in marmoset monkey sexual function as a result of social interaction.
No. Not anymore than the pedophile who wants to practice his acts.would not one’s human rights be violated and his freedom trounced if he were not able to practice his homosexual acts?
It comes as no surprise that gays are atheist. It is exactly this fork in the road they come to. The cannot be Catholic and gay, so out goes their faith and God. They will ramble on how the Church drove them to it and in a way it did, the truth of the Church, but they make it sound like it’s not inclusive. The Church does not exclude any sinner.
Not to mention that it’s not exactly a “desire” in animals, but rather an instict.Yes it does, but typically as a result of environmental or social stresses like overpopulation, crowding, scarcity of possible mates, etc. – in other words “atypical” social or environmental circumstances.
Researchers at Cambridge University make the following comments:
The opposite is also natural and inborn.
Some people are attracted to blondes, some are attracted to brunettes. Big deal? At the onset of puberty people feel the attraction to others. Those, who are attracted to the same gender are just as naturally attracted as are the others. They do not “decide” something like: “I will choose to be attracted to my own gender”. It just simply happens. And due to the social pressure, they are quite miserable, and the incidence of suicide is observably higher among them.
Some people are attracted to children…what’s the big deal? “It just simply happens”.
If there would be real Christian “love” toward these people, they would be embraced for who and what they are, not shunned and criticized for something they have absolutely no control over. This kind of “love” they could certainly do without. As the old saying goes: “with love like this, who needs hate”?
What is your point here?
“Minor” difference: children cannot consent. They are unable to consent.No. Not anymore than the pedophile who wants to practice his acts.
If you don’t understand it, that is pretty sad. (Hint: hypocrisy!)What is your point here?
To be Catholic in good standing they would have to be chaste, and not obstinate in promoting the act.So a person cannot, by your definition, cannot have faith and God and have homosexual inclinations? There wouldn’t be any Catholics if we who sinned were excluded.
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What do you mean children are unable to consent? You have asserted above that sexual preference is a matter of taste. Children are sensual; they have sexual feelings; so how is it they cannot choose what is pleasant here, just as they can choose ice cream (as opposed to spinich)?“Minor” difference: children cannot consent. They are unable to consent.
Do you assert that people “choose” their sexual orientation?
If you don’t understand it, that is pretty sad. (Hint: hypocrisy!)
I beg to differ. This is the official and traditional teaching of the Catholic Church on the Sacrament of Marriage. The words are even included in the ritual: mutual love and procreation.No problem. However, procreation is not “mandatory”, it is optional.
Most, but not all. There is nothing “unnatural” or “exceptional” about having two people to marry, who are way beyond their reproductive age. And - as usual - majority does not count as an argument.
I wonder, if the Church would conduct a thorough examination of tubal ligation, or hysterectomy. I rather doubt it, and also doubt if the Church would require a semen-sample to be examined to show that the sperm-count is over zero. Though I would love to see such requirements as a prerequisite for church-weddings. Can you imagine the uproar?
However, marriage is a secular institution, and there is absolutely no requirement that the couple is a) able, and b) willing to procreate. Many people simply do not want to have children, and that is their own business.
Which, even if were a correct argument, would include a homosexual couple, who are incapable of having children through no fault of their own. Mind you, they still can adopt children.
Since your definition of a “valid” marriage is incorrect, this conclusion is also incorrect.
Your premise 1) includes the concept “impaired by nature”, which applies for people of the same gender. As such you undercut your own premise 2).To tie in my prevous post No. 49 to the original thread I pose this simple syllogism.
Presmise 1: A valid marriage has two goals the communion of love between the spouses and procreation that results from that communion, unless it is accidently impaired by health or nature.
Premise 2: A same sex couple can love each other, but there is never has been a natural possibility for procreation resulting from such love.
Conclusion: Therefore, a same sex couple cannot validly enter into a marriage convenant because one of the two goals of marriage has never been possible between persons of the same sex.
Inform of their opinion, yes. Force it to act based upon their opinion, no. Because no matter how strongly you assert, it is merely your opinion.In this case, citizens do have a right to inform the State that it cannot call a relationship a marriage, because it is not a valid marriage. The State is in error. The State can call it anything else it wants that accurately describes the relationship, but it cannot call it using a term that does not accurately describe it. Marriage does not accurately describe such a relationship.
Unclear what you mean by “such as children”. Do you mean adoption?The State can even grant legal rights to people in such relationships, as long as those rights are not rights that properly belong to the marriage covenant, such as children. But other rights, such as common property rights, healthcare rights, protection against abuse or discrimination, protection against hate crimes, even the righ to live under the same roof.
Two people of the same gender are not impaired by nature in their ability to reproduce. They cannot reproduce because nature did not intend for two members of the same gender to reproduce. That is nto an impairment. That is their natural state. Otherwise we would have to say that we are impaired by nature because we can’t fly or walk through solids.Your premise 1) includes the concept “impaired by nature”, which applies for people of the same gender. As such you undercut your own premise 2).
It is not my opinion. It is moral truth revealed to us.Inform of their opinion, yes. Force it to act based upon their opinion, no. Because no matter how strongly you assert, it is merely your opinion.
Yes. Parenting is the proper role of a heterosexual couple or a single parent. It is not the proper role of a same-sex couple. This also enters into the validity of marriage. When a child is conceived he or she is conceived by parents of opposite genders, because nature intends for a child to have a parent of each gender. Obviously, there are cases when one parent is absent. My case is an example, my wife died when my children were 4 and 9.Unclear what you mean by “such as children”. Do you mean adoption?
that is the best comment thus far thank you! I have been busy with other things then to check the posts but this so far is going very well.It is equally important to remember several points here.
All nations have a moral obligations to protect and promote the dignity of their citizens. And the citizens of all nations have the obligation and the right to demand that their government do so.
- The Church makes a clear distinction between homosexuality and homosexual acts. Check the Catechism of the Catholic Church.
- In distinguishing the two, the Church is not anti-gay or anti-lesbian. It opposes a behaviour that violates the sacredness of human sexuality and one of its purposes.
- Human sexuality has to ends: a) the expression of love and b) procreation. While two people of the same gender may truly love each other, for love is not limitted to heterosexuals, the second end of human sexuality cannot be met through homosexual activity.
- The Church’s position of homosexual activity is intimately linked to her position of the sacredness of life. Not only must life be protected from conception, but it must be protected until death. Any behaviour that diminishes the dignity of human beings, is a behaviour that diminishes the dignity of life and all that it includes (i.e. sexuality). Therefore, all sexual behaviour (straight and gay) that fails to dignify the human person fails to promote the dignity of life.
- The bottom line here is not gay or straight people, the bottom line here is sexuality that is in conflict with the dignity of man.
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that is the best comment thus far thank you! I have been busy with other things then to check the posts but this so far is going very well.
We have gotten a bit off topic though, so let’s now discuss the State and it’s role in homosexuality. We know what the Church thinks and what Her stance is, now what is the stance of the Modern State?/QUOTE]
Subscript is mine.
That’s a good question. If you’re asking what does the American State think about it, the answer is not clear. It says one thing and does another.
I remember when Clinton ran for President he was going to change the rules in the military concerning gay people. In the end, we ended up with another version of the same circumstance, “Don’t ask. Don’t tell.” Well, that’s what people had been trying to do for a long time anyway.
I do believe that our governments, not just the USA, are very arrogant in this regard. They believe that they can legislate morality and redefine relationships.
Do they have a right to do so? I agree with some and disagree with others. Sacramental relationships are not for the State to define. Interpersonal relationships: the State has the duty to protect the individual’s rights in his or her relationshiips with others. I certainly would not oppose the state if it said that one gay partner can include another gay partner in his or her will, medical insurance or social security benefits. Those are financial arrangements. As long as the state calls those relationships by any name other than marriage, it’s up to individuals to enter or not into them.
The Church will not interfere with the free exercise of the State’s duties and oblgiations to its citizens, nor should those of us who belong to the Church.
We simply can’t allow the State to call itself God and define what God has already defined. Financial relationships between people, protection of their right to live with whomever they choose, that’s fine with me. I don’t believe that any intelligent Christian would want to make it illegal for two people of the same gender to setup household. Because at some point you have to be careful how much you empower the State. Look at the Arab States. We don’t want to go in that direction either.
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The point, in case you missed it is that individuals can be socialized to desire almost anything – sadism, masochism, pedophilia, beastiality could then, according to you be just as natural and “inborn.” Attraction to the opposite gender is inborn, based upon human reproductive capacity, whereas attraction to the same gender is not “natural” in any such way – it is an attraction based upon socialization.Which is quite interesting, but it has no bearing on the subject at hand. Most people are attracted to the other gender, and that is called “natural” or “inborn” attraction. The opposite is also natural and inborn.
Certainly it happens because such an attraction could be based upon pre-existing social conditions, but that should not lead us to conclude that it is right or even good. Teenagers are attracted to cigarettes, drugs, violent video games and bullying, and they don’t necessarily premeditate these either. Socialization is a powerful force, can take many forms, operates largely at a subconscious level and lead to all kinds of unwanted behaviours – witness Nazi Germany. I am sure the people of Germany “made choices” on some level but were drawn toward certain unwanted behaviours by the power of the “society” around them.Some people are attracted to blondes, some are attracted to brunettes. Big deal? At the onset of puberty people feel the attraction to others. Those, who are attracted to the same gender are just as naturally attracted as are the others. They do not “decide” something like: “I will choose to be attracted to my own gender”. It just simply happens.
A kind of love that is concerned more with the “good” and “well-being” of the person being addressed is preferred to one that merely says “do what you feel.” If you have raised any children, you would realize that part of loving them is to “talk some sense into them” every now and then because the choices they “want” to make are not in the final analysis “good” for them. This holds true of adults as well.If there would be real Christian “love” toward these people, they would be embraced for who and what they are, not shunned and criticized for something they have absolutely no control over. This kind of “love” they could certainly do without. As the old saying goes: “with love like this, who needs hate”?
I am quite certain you do not have the data to back the claim that there is no variation - historically. However, in case you missed it, the media and Internet have made the Global Village a very homogenous place lately. Regardless, the larger question should be: What particular social conditions lead individuals towards same sex preferences?Also, there is a rather steady percentage of homosexuals across different cultures. If it were socially dependent, there would be a variation, and there is not.
The research shows there actually is great variation in incidence among cultures that vary greatly in how they are organized and function.Also, there is a rather steady percentage of homosexuals across different cultures. If it were socially dependent, there would be a variation, and there is not.
If all ethnic groups share almost all their genes, we can make two assumptions about any behavior that is claimed to be genetically determined:
• It will be very predictable, specific in nature and similar all over the globe.
• It will be present at roughly the same incidence in all cultures.
Now, let’s recapitulate.
• Many genes, maybe hundreds, are involved in human behaviors.
• Behaviors affected by many genes will change very slowly over very many generations. That is, they will be very stable for centuries, with only minimal changes from generation to generation. This is true not only in families, but also in cultures.
If we look at homosexuality, we find none of these characteristics of genetic properties.
• There is a huge variety of homosexual practices between cultures and even within them.
• The incidence of homosexuality has varied considerably in different cultures. In some cultures, it has been unknown; in others, it has been obligatory for all males.
• There have been, and are, rapid changes in homosexual behavior - even over a lifetime. Not only that, but entire types of homosexuality have disappeared over the course of just a few centuries.
From: My Genes Made Me Do it - a scientific look at sexual orientation by Dr Neil Whitehead and Briar WhiteheadIn fact, anthropologists have found such huge variations in heterosexual and homosexual practice from culture to culture, and such sudden changes in sexual practice and orientation, even over a single generation, that they mostly want to say that all sexual behavior is learned.
You need to make sure that the reader understands that this is your interpretation, not the official teaching of the Catholic Church.There is a genetic component to every sin ever committed since Adam and Eve. Original sin altered the genetic code and introduce death, disease, and disfunction into what had been pure.