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I do think I understand this perspective. I was, after all, a churchgoing Christian for 30 years. This perspective just no longer sits right with me as the most true.If we see ourselves as children of God, we should also accept the possibility that God knows better than we do. Trust in God means making an effort to conform our will and sense of right and wrong to His.
It may be hard to understand, but God is not just the reporter and educator on what is right, as if right and wrong was something that existed before God did. God is the author of right and wrong. Once you understand that perspective, you can see why we place our own personal feelings about an issue in second place.
I believe morality originated with the gradual formation of societies. It exists in our minds as the result of nature and nurture, but societies have had different standards of morality throughout time. Churches have participated in shaping that morality, because their efforts to reach a more full understanding of God’s morality do contribute to the complicated discussion of ethics that takes place in a society, even if, as I believe, an ultimate standard of morality as dictated by a divinity is not actually there.
I would argue that many of the Church’s problems that people focus on today are because the church tries to maintain a bronze-age system of morality (in some respects) even though most of human society has changed its standards. Churches and religious people, too, have changed in many ways–slavery, stoning, racial discrimination, usury, and so forth. Those ethical standards have changed. With regard to homosexuality, human history has a long and consistent ethical standard that it is wrong, which is changing very rapidly. Time will tell whether most people/societies ultimately accept it or whether this is some passing fad on the moral landscape. My point with regard to the original post is that most people don’t actually rely on scripture or church for their own ethical standards, but judge for themselves based on the whole of their human experience (in which church and scripture often play a large role). Many people now judge homosexuality to be morally acceptable, just like they now judge working on the sabbath to be morally acceptable. And honoring the sabbath is one of the ten commandments for goodness’ sake! Nearly everyone ignores that one! Why? Because we as a society come to standards of morality which are based on more than ancient texts. Even the church does.
And if you insist upon saying that you trust in God for morality and you give him the benefit of the doubt and you aim to reach a full understanding of his morality, I’d respond that you have used your own judgment in choosing to be Catholic, in choosing to accept church teaching. If it struck you as immoral, I suspect you would reject it. For my part, I see no harm in homosexuality, and therefore cannot see it as immoral. Moreover, it is a kind of love, in my judgement, and should be celebrated as such.