My diocese, apparently like many others, forbids deacons from wearing the collar, even when they minister at wakes, committals, hospitals, etc. The rationale seems to be rooted in the concern that they not come off as “mini priests.” On the other hand, people seem surprised when we’re told that deacons are clergy but aren’t allowed to dress that way in ministry - they’re perceived all too often as “lay assistants” because they show up at a wake in jacket and tie, maybe with a "deacon pin.
Do people think that deacons should be allowed to wear the collar?