How can I prove that the Virgin Mary has always been a virgin?

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If that were true I would still be Catholic. Mary’s alleged perpetual virginity is an example (just to stay on topic). The angel didn’t tell Mary that she would remain a virgin her entire life, and to “assume” that she had a “vow of virginity” is completely unsupported by scripture. Joseph was told not to be afraid to take Mary as his wife, with no indication that he had to keep her a virgin her entire life. Even the OT prophecy that was fulfilled only stated that “a virgin will conceive and bear a son”, not so much as a hint that she was a perpetual virgin. And to claim that Ezekiel’s “sealed gate” refers to Mary’s virginity is a stretch (especially since that is a real gate, and was sealed centuries ago, and is mentioned in Revelations).
But Mary said to the angel, "How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?
Makes no sense for a woman with a husband to ask unless there is something else going on, a vow of virginity. What she is asking the angel is not how can this happen because I am a virgin but what about my vow of virginity? Is God asking that I renounce the vow?
 
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Makes no sense for a woman with a husband to ask unless there is something else going on, a vow of virginity. What she is asking the angel is not how can this happen because I am a virgin but what about my vow of virginity? Is God asking that I renounce the vow?
She was engaged, not married. People with vows of virginity do not get married (or can you show me where such a thing occurred?). You are reading an awful lot into this, but your assertion is not supported by the text.
 
She was engaged, not married. People with vows of virginity do not get married (or can you show me where such a thing occurred?). You are reading an awful lot into this, but your assertion is not supported by the text.
Who says they don’t get married? You said
Joseph was told not to be afraid to take Mary as his wife,
You can’t have it both ways either they were married or they weren’t. They were married. Marriage at the time was accomplished in two steps. They had a ceremony but did not live together. The wife stayed with her family while she prepared to take over her husbands home. This was the betrothal period. That is why Joseph had to divorce her. You don’t have a divorce unless there is a marriage.
Joseph her husband, since he was a righteous man, yet unwilling to expose her to shame, decided to divorce her quietly.
I am reading nothing into the text that isn’t there and you haven’t given a reasonable explanation of Mary’s question to the angel.
 
lol He spoke directly to human beings just like he did to the ones who wrote His commands in the Bible.

Gen 3:8 And they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of the garden.

And just as He does still today to those who are open to hearing His voice. 👍
So…you’re saying God stopped speaking to people once the Bible was written?
 
my short summary
  1. bretheren/brothers is also used in the bible for nephews/cousins
    (Lot, for example, is called Abraham’s “brother” (Gen. 14:11-16)KJV, even though, being the son of Haran, Abraham’s brother (Gen. 11:26–28)KJV, he was actually Abraham’s nephew.
    there are other examples
  2. the ‘bretheren/brothers’ of jesus are never associated directly with BVM’s motherhood, but rather are listed as bretheren/brothers of jesus. (ie: mark6:3 & mat 13:55)
    John 6:42 does not mention these bretheren/brothers in his version.
some protestants are convinced that the “other Mary” listed as Mother of James and Joses in mat 27:56 & Mark 15:40 & luke 24:10 is the BVM.
hard justify why they would change reference to her like that and not list her ‘firtsborn’ first.
  1. cross reference of above verses suggests that the 'other Mary" is a sister of BVM and/or Mary wife of Cleophas. (Matthew and Luke seem to me to differentiate the two Marys by Mariam and Maria in greek in the above versus, though this could be rubbish as I know nothing about greek)
  2. Matthew 1:25: “[A]nd he did not know her till she brought forth her firstborn son.”
    I hope everyone knows by now that Firstborn is a biblical title and is not in the bible to illustrate a 2nd/3rd etc… an only son is still a ‘firstborn’ that
    Exodus13:2 “Sanctify unto me all the firstborn male for me. Every firstborn male offspring among the Israelites is mine…”KJV
    Num 3:12 God says “… the firstborn that openth the matrix(womb in other translations) …”)KJV)
    Exodus 34:20: “…All the firstborn of thy sons thou shalt redeem. And none shall appear before me empty.”(KJV)
  3. Matthew 1:25: “[A]nd he did not know her till she brought forth her firstborn son.”
    the ‘till’ verse is meant to illustrate that joseph played no part in the conception of Jesus – the verse is not meant to try to show us that they did get to sleep together after the birth. i think everyone would agree that would be ridiculous
  4. (John 19:25 KJV) jesus gives care of his mother to john.
    why not to James and Joses etc… if they are the biological sons of BVM. I know some think he did not because they were not believers.
    others say jesus would of known that theirs hearts would of turned as James became a believers afterwards…yet he still gave care of his mother to John?
  5. The Protoevangelium of James (written around the year 120)
  6. for what its worth… Martin Luther, John Calvin, and Ulrich Zwingli & John Wesley —honored the perpetual virginity of Mary and recognized it as the teaching of the Bible. references available if anyone wants
  7. for what its worth…apparently muslims believe she did not have other children
10 . the James listed in mat 27:56etc is apparently the one who wrote the book of James ( james 1:1) – he calls himself the servant of God and the lord Jesus, but not brother - this is weak i Know…
  1. The Jude (Ioudas Jude 1:1) is apparently the Jude listed as a brethren of the Jesus- this Jude is apparently the author of the book of Jude, he introduces himself as the servant of Jesus and Brother of James only.
  2. “Therefore let those who deny that the Son is from the Father by nature and proper to His Essence, deny also that He took true human flesh of Mary Ever-Virgin; for in neither case had it been of profit to us men, whether the Word were not true and naturally Son of God, or the flesh not true which He assumed.” Athanasius, Orations against the Arians, II:70 (A.D. 362).
I also find the idea that Mary had around 6 other children after jesus difficult to digest, particularly given the angel in Luke 1:28 told her that she would give birth to the son of the highest who’ll be given the throne…
in addition to newadvent.org/fathers/0114.htm re James

there is also this, apparently this symeon is the simon listed in Mat 13:55
Church History (Eusebius) book iii chapter 11 (265-340AD)

Chapter 11. Symeon rules the Church of Jerusalem after James.
  1. After the martyrdom of James and the conquest of Jerusalem which immediately followed, it is said that those of the apostles and disciples of the Lord that were still living came together from all directions with those that were related to the Lord according to the flesh (for the majority of them also were still alive) to take counsel as to who was worthy to succeed James.
  2. They all with one consent pronounced Symeon, the son of Clopas, of whom the Gospel also makes mention; to be worthy of the episcopal throne of that parish. He was a cousin, as they say, of the Saviour. For Hegesippus records that Clopas was a brother of Joseph.
    newadvent.org/fathers/250103.htm
 
one more i stumbled across

The work of Papias was evidently written in his old age, say between the years 115 and 140. called by St. Irenæus “a hearer of John, and companion of Polycarp, a man of old time”.

Fragments of Papias (X)

(1.) Mary the mother of the Lord; (2.) Mary the wife of Cleophas or Alphæus, who was the mother of James the bishop and apostle, and of Simon and Thaddeus, and of one Joseph; (3.) Mary Salome, wife of Zebedee, mother of John the evangelist and James; (4.) Mary Magdalene. These four are found in the Gospel. James and Judas and Joseph were sons of an aunt (2) of the Lord’s. James also and John were sons of another aunt (3) of the Lord’s. Mary (2), mother of James the Less and Joseph, wife of Alphæus was the sister of Mary the mother of the Lord, whom John names of Cleophas, either from her father or from the family of the clan, or for some other reason. Mary Salome (3) is called Salome either from her husband or her village. Some affirm that she is the same as Mary of Cleophas, because she had two husbands.
newadvent.org/fathers/0125.htm
 
How do Catholics explain Luk 1:36 “syggenēs” ? This word distinguishes between blood relatives, such as a cousin.

While “brother” can be a cousin or other relative, or a fellow Christian, it can also mean a birth brother.

Compare these verses:

Gal 1:19 But other of the apostles saw I none, save James the Lord’s brother.

Jud 1:1 Jude, the servant of Jesus Christ, and brother of James, to them that are sanctified by God the Father, and preserved in Jesus Christ, [and] called:

These verses are obviously making an attempt to positively identify the persons of James and Jude.

If Galatians was simply identifying James as another apostle, why point out he is the Lord’s brother? Why not say James the brother of John?

Or as was done with the Judases: Judas the brother of James as opposed to Judas Iscariot

See how they wrote to specifically identify a person?

To add " the Lord’s brother." at the end of a sentence that has already identified the person an Apostle is specifically identifying that person. If he were just a distant relative, the positive identification would be better made by identifying who his father or birth brother is.

James the son of Zebedee
James the son of Alphaeus
James the brother of John
James the brother of Judas
James the brother of Jude

James the Lord’s brother.
 
It might help if you read the entire post.
Thanks. Sorry if I misread that.

Ok, then, you agree that God has and does continue to speak to people apart from the Bible. Then you can agree that there can be truths God has communicated to people apart from the Bible (such truths, of course, cannot contradict the Scriptures).

Thanks again for the clarification.
 
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Who says they don’t get married? You said
Sorry if my response confused you. When the angel came to Mary, they were still in the betrothel period. They didn’t start living together until after the angel advised Joseph what was going on, then Joseph took Mary as his wife (took her into his house).
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I am reading nothing into the text that isn’t there and you haven’t given a reasonable explanation of Mary’s question to the angel.
You want a reasonable explanation for her response? How about this - we don’t know where she was or what she was doing when the angel appeared to her. We also know from Scripture that angels typically appear as human beings, and are not always readily identifiable as angels (see Heb 13:2). Imagine this - you’re a young girl, engaged to be married in a small town where practically everybody knows everybody else. Suddenly, this stranger comes along, greets you by name and tells you you’re going to bear a son. Wouldn’t you start looking around to see if anyone could hear you scream for help as you informed the “stranger” that you’re a virgin (thereby letting him know that if he tries something he will be found out)?

I’m sure you (and others) will think this explanation is absurd, but I suggest it makes at least as much sense as your “vow of virginity” explanation.
 
Sorry if my response confused you. When the angel came to Mary, they were still in the betrothel period. They didn’t start living together until after the angel advised Joseph what was going on, then Joseph took Mary as his wife (took her into his house).

You want a reasonable explanation for her response? How about this - we don’t know where she was or what she was doing when the angel appeared to her. We also know from Scripture that angels typically appear as human beings, and are not always readily identifiable as angels (see Heb 13:2). Imagine this - you’re a young girl, engaged to be married in a small town where practically everybody knows everybody else. Suddenly, this stranger comes along, greets you by name and tells you you’re going to bear a son. Wouldn’t you start looking around to see if anyone could hear you scream for help as you informed the “stranger” that you’re a virgin (thereby letting him know that if he tries something he will be found out)?

I’m sure you (and others) will think this explanation is absurd, but I suggest it makes at least as much sense as your “vow of virginity” explanation.
She was not engaged to Joseph that is a modern term she was betrothed. Mary and Joseph were married at this point but before they came together. You have an explanation but as you already admit it is absurd. If she thought, as you conjecture, than she would have ran away screaming. Even in your scenario the answer makes no sense. Why would you tell a potential rapist you are a virgin.🤷 but at least it is an explanation not a good one though.
 
You want a reasonable explanation for her response? …
Something else that everyone seems to overlook is Luk 1:32 He shall be great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest:…

Joseph, a carpenter is not referred to as “the Highest”. Mary did not consider the angel was speaking of Joseph as able to father the Son of “the Highest”.

think about it…the angel did not simply say Mary would conceive and bear a son. The angel stated she would bear the Son of the Highest, meaning God’s son.

So it is not just a matter of her not yet having sexual relations with her husband.
Mat 1:18 Now the birth of Jesus Christ was on this wise: When as his mother Mary was espoused to Joseph, before they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Ghost.

Ginger
 
She was not engaged to Joseph that is a modern term she was betrothed. Mary and Joseph were married at this point but before they came together…
When a couple was betrothed, it was considered a binding marriage even tho the couple did not begin to live together and did not have marital relations until after they began cohabitation.

This is common knowledge. Joseph and Mary were intending to have a normal man wife marriage - that’s what betrothed means.
 
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adrift:
She was not engaged to Joseph that is a modern term she was betrothed. Mary and Joseph were married at this point but before they came together. You have an explanation but as you already admit it is absurd. If she thought, as you conjecture, than she would have ran away screaming. Even in your scenario the answer makes no sense. Why would you tell a potential rapist you are a virgin. but at least it is an explanation not a good one though.
I did not admit my explanation was absurd, I said you (and others) would think it absurd. I pointed out that my explanation made at least as much sense as your “vow of virginity” explanation. Furthermore, as I mentioned, we don’t know where Mary was or what she was doing when the angel showed up, so maybe there was no place to run. Admittedly, this is mere speculation, but so is the idea that she had a vow of virginity (and nobody with a vow of virginty would get married, or do you have evidence of such a thing happening outside of this alleged instance?).
 
Good point Cachonga,

Is there any supporting historical evidence that temple virgins were regularly given into a “celibate marriage” relationship? Or even that they were customarily put out of the temple and into the care of elderly widowers?

Proof such as that would at least strengthen your argument.

Ginger
 
When a couple was betrothed, it was considered a binding marriage even tho the couple did not begin to live together and did not have marital relations until after they began cohabitation.

This is common knowledge. Joseph and Mary were intending to have a normal man wife marriage - that’s what betrothed means.
The fact that she asked such a strange question shows that they were not planning a “normal” marriage. Betrothed does not mean the same today as it did then. Today it means a promise of marriage then it WAS marriage.
 
Something else that everyone seems to overlook is Luk 1:32 He shall be great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest:…

Joseph, a carpenter is not referred to as “the Highest”. Mary did not consider the angel was speaking of Joseph as able to father the Son of “the Highest”.

think about it…the angel did not simply say Mary would conceive and bear a son. The angel stated she would bear the Son of the Highest, meaning God’s son.

So it is not just a matter of her not yet having sexual relations with her husband.
Mat 1:18 Now the birth of Jesus Christ was on this wise: When as his mother Mary was espoused to Joseph, before they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Ghost.

Ginger
Oh? Why couldn’t Joseph have been the father? God could have done it that way. Mary wouldn’t have known God’s plans. You are seeing this through the lens of what happened not how Mary would have understood it.
 
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