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Joe_Monahan
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I find it frustrating that I originally posted the following in this same forum, not very long ago, and find it necessary to repeat myself. Take heed, ladies and gentlemen:
Paul’s questions were valid points for discussion, dialogue, even debate - but he obscured them in rhetoric and language which suggested that he had a preconcieved idea of the answers which he’d consider appropriate. Those responding who relied on the premise that “you can’t say that, because your people did the same thing” answered nothing. Rather, they reverted to a typical schoolyard scenario in what purports to be an adult forum.
Let’s begin again - these are the rules:
Paul will post his questions in a manner that conforms to the guidelines above and which suggests that he wants to learn what Catholics say about the points at issue. Those who wish to reply will do so in a manner that is factually accurate and in conformance to those same guidelines. Posts that fail to satisfy this standard will be deleted and may have reprecussions for their originators.
Members are not allowed to be disrespectful of anyone’s faith or religion, whether it is Catholicism or not.
Members are free to discuss, dialogue, question, disagree with, and debate the doctrines and dogmas of both Catholicism and non-Catholic religions. However, all discourse must be civil and charitable.
Joe
This tenor of the opening post in this thread left much to be desired vis-a-vis the guidelines above. But, lest any take too much comfort in that observation, allow me to note that responses by Catholics that were framed in a tit-for-tat manner are equally offensive.
- Questions are a better approach than assertions, unless the latter are framed in a non-confrontational and non-accusatory manner.
- Terms of derision, derogatory remarks, baiting, and inflammatory statements are verboten.
- Dredging up embarrassing historical incidents in the history of either Church, unless it is for valid discussion of the effect these have on current Church policy or practice serves no useful purpose.
- Expecting members of a mainstream Church to defend or answer for the excesses or extremism of bodies that have broken with it is a technique that has no merit and can’t be defended.
- Is the post civil and charitable?
- Does the post challenge those to whom it is directed or does it bash them?
Paul’s questions were valid points for discussion, dialogue, even debate - but he obscured them in rhetoric and language which suggested that he had a preconcieved idea of the answers which he’d consider appropriate. Those responding who relied on the premise that “you can’t say that, because your people did the same thing” answered nothing. Rather, they reverted to a typical schoolyard scenario in what purports to be an adult forum.
Let’s begin again - these are the rules:
Paul will post his questions in a manner that conforms to the guidelines above and which suggests that he wants to learn what Catholics say about the points at issue. Those who wish to reply will do so in a manner that is factually accurate and in conformance to those same guidelines. Posts that fail to satisfy this standard will be deleted and may have reprecussions for their originators.
Members are not allowed to be disrespectful of anyone’s faith or religion, whether it is Catholicism or not.
Members are free to discuss, dialogue, question, disagree with, and debate the doctrines and dogmas of both Catholicism and non-Catholic religions. However, all discourse must be civil and charitable.
- It is acceptable to question the doctrine or dogma of another’s faith
- It is never acceptable to question the sincerity of an individual’s beliefs
- Bringing up historical controversies of a particular religion should be done cautiously
- It is acceptable to discuss the effect the incident had on current policy or practice.
- It is acceptable to seek the truth vs. commonly-held beliefs or conventional wisdom about actual events.
- It is fallacious reasoning to use embarrassing incidents to claim that they “prove” a particular religion is false.
- Discussion of past events rarely serves a useful purpose and inevitably opens a thread to posts that violate forum rules and/or the bounds of civil discourse.
- Expecting members of any Church to defend or answer for the excesses or extremism of bodies that have broken with it is a technique that has no merit and can’t be defended.
Joe