How can you know if a person is a Christian?

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I have a good friend whose name is Chester. He’s originally from Noo Joisey;) and was a cradle Catholic. He attended Catholic school and from the third grade on wrestled with ideas and asked lots of questions. However, he got very few satisfactory answers. So as soon as he got into high school he dropped out of church. When he left school in 1960 he pursued his interest in music and became heavily involved in the music scene of the American 1960s. He got married in 1974 (to a Catholic) and the following year he and his wife ventured south for a vacation in North Carolina. While they were on vacation they found an old vacant farmhouse and fell in love with it. The thought came to both of them that they might move south permanently. And that’s what they did.

On the material front, they grew their own food and took great care with their diet, replacing sugar with honey, cutting back on salt, and keeping a very low profile where junk foods were concerned (Chester’s always been a bit of a health nut). On the spiritual front, they encountered Southern friendliness and that led them to accept an invitation from some neighbors to attend a Protestant evangelical church.

“I caught the ambience of the place,” is how Chester describes that church.

Every Sunday Chester and his wife went to church following which they were invited to somebody’s house and fed. A very pleasant state of affairs, you might say. And when they were invited to the Wednesday evening Bible study they went to that, too. Chester was quite overwhelmed by the pleasantness of the Southerners he met. He told me the church was “just a nice place to be.” One day, at this friendly church, Chester responded to what is commonly known as an “altar call.” And this, it seems, constituted Chester’s conversion experience. Chester then became a member of the friendly church and he contributed to church life by singing in the choir. The friendly church soon experienced a crisis of some sort, which resulted in the disappearance of friendliness and a subsequent church split. Approximately half the congregation stayed with the church while the other half left to find another church home. Chester was amongst those who left. Eventually the group he was with bought some land and set about building a new church facility. Chester enthusiastically helped with the building (he makes his living as handyman). But he eventually tired of that fellowship and soon found himself drifting from church to church.

I first met Chester about nine years ago in his most recent church setting when I converted to Biblical Christianity. I was on my way in but Chester was on his way out. As far as spiritual matters were concerned he had simply been left to himself and he was fed up. Nobody had taken an interest in his spiritual development. He’d apparently been asking questions about spiritual matters since the mid–1970s but he’d never been able to get satisfactory answers. Indeed, Chester asserts that most of the Christians with whom he’s come into contact considered his questions intrusive and unwelcome. So after years of unsuccessfully searching for somebody who could talk competently about Christianity and who might have been able to help him into the kingdom intellectually and spiritually, as well as musically, Chester became cynical and decided that Protestant Christian churches in the United States are little more than social clubs that offer entertainment on Sunday mornings and mimic a megachurch of their choice during the week. Chester has heard Christians declaring that God always sends somebody to sincere inquirers to let them know about the truth of the Gospel but, ironically, the people he’s heard it from are the same people who make nonsense of the very idea they’re advocating by the ineptness and disinterest they’ve displayed toward Chester and the struggles he’s been going through.

At one stage in his life Chester supposed that he was a Christian. Now he declares that he isn’t. He sometimes asks me: How can you know if a person is a Christian?

So that’s the question.

Grace and peace,
Mick
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At one stage in his life Chester supposed that he was a Christian. Now he declares that he isn’t. He sometimes asks me: How can you know if a person is a Christian?
Faith and deeds is generally a good one. Of course, if you want to discuss what constitutes definitive meanings for those two words you’re going to have a LOT longer discussion on your hands.
 
How can you know if a person is a Christian?

So that’s the question.

Grace and peace,
Mick
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We can’t really “know” what is in someone’s heart. To be a Chrisitian is to not only believe that Jesus is the Messiah (for scripture says even demons believe), but to accept him as Lord and saviour and love him with all your heart, soul and mind and love others as yourselves.

As to how do we know (or perhaps better - by what evidence are we to believe) that someone is a Christian? Scripture tells us by how we love one another. The demonstrable love of others, care for the sick and pour, when coupled with the professing belief in, and acceptance of, Jesus as the Messiah, is the best evidence available to us.

In terms of your friend, his brethern certainly failed in helping to build the body of Christ and support their friend, but his faith will have to come from within, through the Word and the power of the Holy Spirit.

Blessings,

Brian
 
“For no good tree bears bad fruit, nor again does a bad tree bear good fruit; for each tree is known by its own fruit. For figs are not gathered from thorns, nor are grapes picked from a bramble bush. The good man out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil man out of his evil treasure produces evil; for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.” The Gospel of Jesus Christ According to Saint Luke 6:43-45
 
That really has become a sort of a problem because many now claim themselves to be “Christians” and yet many of them have opposing teachings. Basically, the true Christian must be a member of the Church that Christ built. But although it is basic, being known as a member is not enough. He must strive to abide with the teachings of the Church, and show his adherence thereto through his actions and words.
 
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