how Catholic women feel about no ordination of women

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As a female myself, I personally have no qualms of Catholic priests being male only.

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I don’t understand why I would be expected to have “feelings” about this. I don’t have “feelings” about facts. I don’t have “feelings” about the existence of Mars, gravity, the doctrine of the Trinity, or any other facts of faith or the larger world.

Those who have “feelings” on this topic are somehow under the misconception this is something other than a fact, somehow a matter on which there can be opinions.
It is a fact that female human beings are invalid matter for the sacrament of holy orders.
Amen.
 
I am a female who converted from atheism to Catholicism at age 32. In college, I thought the Catholic Church was one of the most oppressive organizations around, especially where women were concerned.

How do I feel about about no ordination of women?..

What’s to feel? It can’t be done. Case closed. How do men feel that God doesn’t let them bear children? Do they wail and try to change His law? (Lol, probably that’s next in the works - foreshadowed in Monty Python’s Life of Brian).

I am a woman who loves every one of God’s laws and who finds the process of understanding them to be fascinating - that’s how I feel about no ordination of women.

Thank you for asking.

God bless you this Easter and always!
 
I have no problem at all with women not being able to be priests. I think those who are offended by it don’t understand how valued women really are in the Catholic faith.
 
I don’t understand why I would be expected to have “feelings” about this. I don’t have “feelings” about facts. I don’t have “feelings” about the existence of Mars, gravity, the doctrine of the Trinity, or any other facts of faith or the larger world.

Those who have “feelings” on this topic are somehow under the misconception this is something other than a fact, somehow a matter on which there can be opinions.
It is a fact that female human beings are invalid matter for the sacrament of holy orders.
I have a visual image in my mind of 1ke being this 6 foot ex-KGB female Russian bodybuilder that can pick a grown man up with one hand.
 
But anyone with an ounce of honest perspective should be able to see what I’m talking about just from their own experience. Parents vs. children, sibling dynamics (especially older brother vs. younger brother often), teacher vs. student, boss vs. employee, senior co-worker vs. junior co-worker, DMV clerk vs. shmuck stuck waiting in line … I could go on and on.
I relate to this. I have never studied any aspect of a power relationship regarding the Eucharist and have nothing useful to contribute in this area, but I very much relate to what you wrote here.

But, at least for me, it seems to be off-topic for your difficulties with the all-male priesthood. All the little details of why the Church makes her decisions are the fun stuff we get to ponder and argue about* after* we’ve already accepted the infallible teaching.

I think that the core of your difficulty, represented in your username, is that you still haven’t made that leap of faith regarding the authority of the Church. Does she have the right to decide these things or not?

I relate to that position, too, lol. I remember the struggle before my leap of faith so well that the moment I took it will be forever etched in my memory.

I do not believe that the core of your difficulty is who is or is not ordained; it is whether or not Christ founded a Church which the Holy Spirit protects from false teaching.

Also, please re-ponder the comments that pointed out what a rule-breaker Jesus was in his time (he chose death over selling himself) and what a powerful statement it is that he did not break this rule even though there was more precedent for breaking it than there was for the rules he did defy.

God bless you on your search for the truth in this and all matters.

Happy Easter!
 
The protests over the fact that the Church has said no to ordaining women is the modern version of the forbidden fruit. Equality doesn’t mean sameness. Women can’t be priests, but they have the privilege of being able to give life through childbearing. Men can’t bear children, but they can choose to become a priest. And, by the power of the Holy Spirit working through the consecrated hands of the priest, the bread and wine become the living Body and Blood of Christ. Both men and women have the opportunity to be a bearer of life but in different ways. This is how it is equal.
 
I kind of feel sorry for those women who are constantly obsessing over the fact that they’re not able to be priests. They seem to hold onto a real resentment for the hierarchy to the point that they let it foster in them genuine contempt for the RCC. Maybe they would do well to take a long hard look at the many holy, cloistered nuns living the life of contemplative prayer in monasteries throughout the world. Here In the States, the Poor Clares of Perpetual Adoration come to mind, or the Benedictines of Mary, Queen of Apostles, whose sacred music is off the charts…literally! These women are truly living inspired and holy lives.

Sister Edith Marie of the Poor Clares states in the first video below, that a sister is always adoring Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament 24/7/365. How awesome is that, huh? Maybe it’s just me, but could it be that the prayers of these holy nuns, and the many others like them in Eucharistic Adoration might actually be the glue that’s holding this Church together in these troubled times? Watching these short videos, I was immediately struck by the real beauty and true happiness that radiates from the hearts and faces of these beautiful and holy sisters. Who says that women don’t hold a very special place in the heart of the Roman Catholic Church? For those who might say otherwise, I say…Nonsense! May God continue to Richly Bless these wonderful holy women!

Poor Clares 1
Poor Clares 2
Benedictines of Mary, Queen of Apostles
“Holiness consists simply in doing God’s will, and being just what God wants us to be.”
~St. Thérèse de Lisieux~
Peace, Mark
 
I am quite glad that women cannot be ordained. I have no problem with it whatsoever. The Church is not a democracy. We do not decide these things based on majority. Jesus was clear that only men are ordained priests and we follow the teachings of Christ, not what the majority of people want.
I agree.
 
If this is in the wrong forum, a moderator can feel free to move it. I was watching videos of “women priests” celebrating the “Mass” and most of the negative comments were in fact from men. (I also saw a video where a female “bishop” said that 70% of Catholics support the ordination of women, and that in Persona Christi actually means in the presence of Christ.) I have wondered for a while how Catholic women actually feel about this issue? Is it a hard teaching to accept?
I would say that the female “bishop”, (not a bishop) has her numbers wrong and the 70% is what she would like it to be. Also, as someone else said Persona Christi doesn’t mean in the presence of Christ but in the person of Christ and so it only makes sense that the priest would be male.

What is sad is that because of the actions of these women, who are not priests, but just only believe they are, they are depriving those following them of the true presence of Christ. They are depriving them of God’s very grace found in the true Mass.

I am 100% in agreement with the Catholic church in that women should not be priests.

God bless.

Have a wonderful Easter.

He is risen indeed.
 
Maybe it’s just me, but could it be that the prayers of these holy nuns, and the many others like them in Eucharistic Adoration might actually be the glue that’s holding this Church together in these troubled times?
It ain’t just you, brother. Thank you for saying it and God bless those women, my dearest sisters whom I hope to grow more like!
 
Oh… is that article offensive. So basically if ladies were just off the Pill, then they would want to pop out lots of children and be merry 1950s housewives. I wasn’t interested in being a housewife when I was nine, so I guess that puts that to rest. Or did the Pill somehow infect the drinking water in such a way that it turned tween girls in the 1990s into future feminists?

And for the record, I have no desire to be a priest. But I do have a desire to work and I do have a desire to do more than the traditional roles for women. I didn’t go to college to get a Mrs. Degree.

As for the argument, I think that the argument over ordination of women is twofold. First, I think that it is symbolic of the fact that the Church remains uneasy with women having leadership roles in business, society, etc. They are especially uneasy with women of childbearing years not dedicating themselves to marriage and raising children (or having more children) if they aren’t religious. I think that the popes and many of the bishops think that encouraging women to have careers has led them to delay marriage, limit their families, etc. I think that for instance Pope Francis disapproves of middle class women who work and thinks that we are all doing so out of “greed.”

Second, the Church is clerical and hierarchical in nature and only men who can be priests. Priests have a final say about what goes on in the parish based on the nature of the Church. There are parishes that pop up once in awhile where a priest overrules the desire of a parish regarding altar girls like what happened in San Francisco. Or perhaps a more traditional priest lectures a religious sister old enough to be his mother about the fact that she isn’t wearing a religious habit and she isn’t teaching the children religion the way he wants. Or a group of sisters who have been working to end human trafficking forever have been told by the new hardcore culture war bishop that this is no longer a priority because it might lead to the distribution of condoms.
 
That’s interesting that you found the article offensive. I am relatively new to Catholicism and heard many negative opinions from very anti-Catholic members of my family. After everything I heard, Pope Francis’ words were refreshing to me. I also read Theology of the Body and appreciated it. It all depends on prespective, I suppose. 🙂
 
Oh… is that article offensive. So basically if ladies were just off the Pill, then they would want to pop out lots of children and be merry 1950s housewives. I wasn’t interested in being a housewife when I was nine, so I guess that puts that to rest. Or did the Pill somehow infect the drinking water in such a way that it turned tween girls in the 1990s into future feminists?

And for the record, I have no desire to be a priest. But I do have a desire to work and I do have a desire to do more than the traditional roles for women. I didn’t go to college to get a Mrs. Degree.

As for the argument, I think that the argument over ordination of women is twofold. First, I think that it is symbolic of the fact that the Church remains uneasy with women having leadership roles in business, society, etc. They are especially uneasy with women of childbearing years not dedicating themselves to marriage and raising children (or having more children) if they aren’t religious. I think that the popes and many of the bishops think that encouraging women to have careers has led them to delay marriage, limit their families, etc. I think that for instance Pope Francis disapproves of middle class women who work and thinks that we are all doing so out of “greed.”

Second, the Church is clerical and hierarchical in nature and only men who can be priests. Priests have a final say about what goes on in the parish based on the nature of the Church. There are parishes that pop up once in awhile where a priest overrules the desire of a parish regarding altar girls like what happened in San Francisco. Or perhaps a more traditional priest lectures a religious sister old enough to be his mother about the fact that she isn’t wearing a religious habit and she isn’t teaching the children religion the way he wants. Or a group of sisters who have been working to end human trafficking forever have been told by the new hardcore culture war bishop that this is no longer a priority because it might lead to the distribution of condoms.
If one has a problem with priests being in charge within the confines of the Church then their problem is with Jesus (God) since he is the one who established the Church hierarch the way it is. One should consider, however, that the Blessed Virgin Mary is in a higher position in the Church than a priest or bishop. She is in a higher position than the Pope, and God even placed Blessed Mary above all the angels in Heaven. Another thing is that the Church is a she.
 
Doesn’t bother me. Never has.
Being ordained doesnt stop one from being a disciple of Our Lord. Not even close.
 
So far seven pages of responses and only two women seem to feel females can/should be priests. Again. I am reminded of the truth of the Catholic Church.

I’m female and believe men should be priests, not women.
 
Oh… is that article offensive. So basically if ladies were just off the Pill, then they would want to pop out lots of children and be merry 1950s housewives.
I’ve read the article twice and cannot fathom where it implies this at all. :confused:
 
I hope this was just a poor attempt at a lame joke, and not the disrespectful insult toward your wife and other women that it appears to be. 😦
 
I am a female who converted from atheism to Catholicism at age 32. In college, I thought the Catholic Church was one of the most oppressive organizations around, especially where women were concerned.

How do I feel about about no ordination of women?..

What’s to feel? It can’t be done. Case closed. How do men feel that God doesn’t let them bear children? Do they wail and try to change His law? (Lol, probably that’s next in the works - foreshadowed in Monty Python’s Life of Brian).

I am a woman who loves every one of God’s laws and who finds the process of understanding them to be fascinating - that’s how I feel about no ordination of women.

Thank you for asking.

God bless you this Easter and always!
Thank you for sharing that! It shows what the grace of our loving God can do when one is receptive to it.
 
If this is in the wrong forum, a moderator can feel free to move it. I was watching videos of “women priests” celebrating the “Mass” and most of the negative comments were in fact from men. (I also saw a video where a female “bishop” said that 70% of Catholics support the ordination of women, and that in Persona Christi actually means in the presence of Christ.) I have wondered for a while how Catholic women actually feel about this issue? Is it a hard teaching to accept?
To me this is a non-issue. I accept that the Church does not have the authority to ordain women. I have no feelings on this.
 
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