Itwin, thanks for your post! But I really hope you know that nothing you described as outward appearance only, is ANYTHING , the Catholic Church teaches. While there may be many many Catholics who want to try to skate by on these outward manifestations, they are deadly wrong too! The only exception may be infant baptism. You would probably disagree that an infant can be saved by baptism, but the Church does not teach children are saved from their actual sins but rather original sin. There are biblical and Traditional arguments for this, such as when Jesus tells the people to not stop the children from going to Him. The implication is that these small children know God naturally and thus have faith in their heart, but are still stained from natural sin. Also we see in the bible that Jesus tells the faithful to be baptized and their household will be saved, or when they baptized a believes household, the scripture does not specify that only the adults or those of the age of reason were baptized. These households most certainly had young children as well as adults. Lastly, the early Church fathers, talk about infant baptism done in the very earliest times of the Church. Anyway the point was not about infant baptism but simply that there are sound reasons for it and it was not just something made up by a Medieval apostate Church. Lastly, any true Catholic knows and believes that their salvation rests in their faith in Jesus Christ AND their willingness to follow Him to give their lives to Him., in other words in the language of the Evangelical , to make Jesus our Lord and Savior, and in the Most Personal relationship! While the bible says one must believe, it also says that even the demons believe. Christ tells the rich young man that to be saved, he must still follow the commandments (not necessarily perfectly) and the follow Christ! So, we do not go to Mass and receive the Eucharist , follow the commandments, perform good works simply to get heavenly brownie points. Everything we do in the Church , is done to always deepen our relationship with Jesus Christ and thus know our Father through our Savior. All action, all works are necessary but don’t mean anything if they do not flow from grace! So you can ask about this practice or that practice, but the same applies - ALL are done to grow in our relationship with Christ, to make His will ours, to follow him in perfect union, all of which is possible only by grace by our submission of our will to His! That is what we mean to make Jesus our personal Lord and Savior. That list you provided, by itself means nothing to a real Catholic either! Thank you for your (name removed by moderator)ut!