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revert_jen
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Well, maybe. However, hats aren’t really in accord with American culture, either, these days. I didn’t experience the pre-Vatican-II Church, so of course I missed the influence of Jackie Kennedy as well. I’ve never lived in a culture where hats were common.Today, with the EF; most of the people who attend are not focused on fitting in with American culture. The EF today is very much countercultural. So a Catholic attending the EF mass is most likely to wish to embrace a Catholic Culture vs Secular/ American culture.
In fact, I look quite good in hats, but I almost never wear them (anywhere), because they make more of a counter-cultural statement than I feel like making. The kinds of hats that you’d get at Nordstrom or whatever wouldn’t go with any clothes I could afford or look good in. So, I look good in (for example) a fedora, but I look like a good-looking geek.
In addition, you generally have to worry about whether your hat goes with your outfit, whereas a mantilla is clearly not intended to be outfit-specific, so you can just have one, regardless of what you wear to Mass. Who wants to buy (or store!) hats to go with everything? I’m thinking it made more sense when you were wearing hats in other places as well.
I only wear a mantilla when I attend the EF, which is once every month or two. I’m not looking to stand out. For me personally, that is modesty.
–Jen