I’m not clear if you are replying to my question to you above, but this is an excellent examination of conscience. If I were a priest, I would gladly hand this out to my congregation at Mass one Sunday and say “take a few minutes to go over this — our organist will play some instrumental music while you’re reading — and if you have any of these things on your soul, unconfessed and unrepented, stay away from communion, we’ll be hearing confessions immediately after Mass, the priests will stay until the last confession is heard”. (And then take it back home to your loved ones who didn’t think it was necessary to come to Mass this Sunday.) And as you point out, the Ten Commandments are to be found among them.I earlier gave you the short list of Mortal Sins against God. The following list, you will find, contain Grave Sins that are also considered Mortal Sins. You will of course, find the 10 Commandments among them:
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However, the very verbiage of many of these things indicates that not all such offenses against them are serious (what I assume is another way of saying “mortal” here) — “serious slander”, “firm hatred of God”, “purposeful curse”, and so on. Calling down the damnation of God upon the hammer that just accidentally hit one’s finger (as though hammers could go to hell), snapping at that person who just worked your one last good nerve, stealing a pack of gum from Walmart, passing on a juicy tidbit about a minor failing of your neighbor — all of these things, while far from perfect, are just not “big enough” to rupture your relationship with Almighty God. (Shoplifting the pack of gum could cause a cascade of bad consequences, because our society takes pilfering a trinket from a multi-billion-dollar retail more seriously than it does gossip or crude use of God’s Name. But the mortal sin there, if any, would be in the ruination of your family’s good name in the community, putting your family through the shame of having your mugshot posted online, subjecting your children to the humiliation of being bullied at school over their father’s misdeed, and so on, not in the theft itself.)
Just out of curiosity, why did you specify the use of artificial birth control which causes spontaneous abortion? What about ABC that is not abortifacient?