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Yeah you are right about it and I agree but he feels like he needs my support during the meeting why? I don’t know because he will have a case manager to help him, I think that I’m just a "security blanket " for him so I don’t think I should go but he will be very upset with me and I understand why but I still feel that I shouldn’t have to go to the meeting to help him get his point across. I told him that I’m in his corner and I think he took it like I said yes to going to the meeting with him which was not good on my part to tell him I admit.
 
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Would it be a good idea to invite him to go to mass with me some time? He understands why he wouldn’t be able to take the Eucharist but he also knows that he can participate in the rest of the mass .
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Wouldn’t be a bad idea now… Yes?

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Catholic361:
Would it be a good idea to invite him to go to mass with me some time? He understands why he wouldn’t be able to take the Eucharist but he also knows that he can participate in the rest of the mass .
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Wouldn’t be a bad idea now… Yes?

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Will you please reword your post? As worded, your meaning is unclear. Thanks in advance. 😀
 
Minks said:
Will you please reword your post? As worded, your meaning is unclear. Thanks in advance. 😀
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You asked if it’s a good idea… and I rhetorically asked you, "It wouldn’t be a bad idea to do so… "

aka. Why Not Invite him?
 
What she really needs to do is to leave him. He has a lot of issues, given that he has a case manager and a guardian, so he needs to focus on himself and not be distracted by a quasi-romantic relationship which offers him an unrealistic view of himself as better-off than he is,

and she needs to not involve herself in a quasi-romantic relationship which does not offer her a full and equal partnership but instead a person who is so needy he makes her feel like she will not be rejected, and she needs to get counseling to see why she ever thought of this as a good idea for herself.
 
You right on letting him go and finding someone who shares my feelings about our faith.
 
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You right on letting him go
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You have said that before and then posted about whether or not to take him to Mass.

Letting him go means leaving, blocking his number, and calling for you to see a therapist.
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someone who shares my feelings about our faith.
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It’s not because he doesn’t share your faith. He could be a cradle Catholic who has a Pope as his uncle and we would still be telling you the same thing.
 
True. I want to feel like I’m not trying to push someone to do something that they are not . I wander if there are catholic singles events in my area. I don’t know how to go about checking this. I guess I’ll just look around my parish.
 
I think before you think about meeting other people, that you need to take care of yourself a bit and see a therapist. A break from dating so you could decompress from this situation would put you in a better position in the future.
 
I found that out . I just need to back up for a while when it comes to guys. 😁😊 I feel good about this.
 
He has stopped. So if it comes up again i’ll tell him to stop talking about it, i have before and it’s worked
 
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