And yes a regular confessor and or support group is recommended. And hopping from confessor to confessor and seeking spiritual direction from multiple people doesn’t help either. Find one and stick to it. It will help be more grounded in reality…
I have a touch of scrupulosity as well my friend. However, God knows what is in your heart - scrupulous adherence to minutiae is not the answer. But if you have need of some guidance, read the following: Matthew 22:34-40, Mark 1: 15 - there’s plenty more where that came from. We poor humans cannot be perfect only through God’s grace can we be saved. God bless you, DarkLight (love that name)!
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