That’s the point I wanted to expand on. As I see it the arguments for restricting the priesthood to men are very narrowly focused on the sacraments (and on one particular sacrament at that). Yet the clergy also assumes an exclusive authority to preach, teach and make moral pronouncements.
I do want to focus on this, though. Because I think it gets to the main issue. Many want women priests because priests/bishops are largely the chief decision makers in the Church. This makes men the chief decision makers in the Church.
(Of course, one could legitimately debate this, since at the local parish level, there are many lay levels of leadership — which can and often do include women).
I think that women DO need to have more of a role in the decision making of the Church. I’m not really sure what this means in practice. Do there need to be lay Cardinals, so that women can also be Cardinals and vote for the Pope? Perhaps so! In the early Church, some bishops were voted by a less exclusive group — even with confirmation from the laity. I think this could be an important, concrete (though seemingly radical today) step.
As for the role of preacher and pastor, I think women should be able to be emphasized more and more as legitimate spiritual directors and pastoral workers. They already can be. Maybe the role needs to be expanded. Could a woman be “commissioned” by a priest to represent him in some spiritual/pastoral capacity? IDK. People would still say that, in such cases, approval from a man is still necessary. And so it seems like we aren’t even solving the root of the problem.
Should lay people be allowed to preach at Mass? I think so. I don’t see anything inherently wrong about it. Special training may be necessary. But if this happened, then women, too could be preachers in a liturgical context.
There will be people who argue that the homily, because of the liturgical context, must be associated with an ordained person, like a deacon or priest. But I’m not sure if this is strictly necessary. We have lay lectors, for example.