How do you ask out a catholic girl that you hardly know and is kind of long distance?

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How do you ask out a catholic girl that you hardly know and is kind of long distance?
  • Do I date her online?
  • Or try to meet her in person?
  • Talk and get to know her more online?
  • Or something else
 
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It depends on what you define “a date” as. To most people, if you ask them on a date, it means actually going somewhere or doing something.

there is nothing wrong with talking to someone or starting a relationship online, but eventually, you need to meet.
 
First, how you met her is important.
  1. We met at school/youth group/a retreat and she lives far away.
  2. We both have been in an on-line Catholic group/reptile keepers group, etc. for a couple of years.
  3. I got a message from a cute girl that said “U R hoT. Wanna d8 me?”
 
So, you met her in person.

Then, ask her out! She was close enough to come to Speed Dating, so, maybe meet halfway.
 
I mean it’s been about 5 months since I messaged her and 7 months since that event.
 
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Um…

Yeah that’s not gonna work out well for you if you haven’t spoken to her in 5 months.

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because I wasn’t ready for a relationship back then but now I think I might be.
 
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I would suggest you check with her in a friendly way and see if she is still “free” and interested in you before making any big plans.

Be honest with her and tell her you were having some issues when you last spoke and just weren’t ready to be dating, but you have been thinking about her a lot since then and would like to get to know her better if she is willing to get to know you. Then see if she seems interested back.

If she is interested, she’ll obviously expect to be hearing from you pretty frequently, not waiting 5 months in between messages.
 
And, there is always the thought that she hasn’t messaged you either…
 
Nah I don’t think I should explain my issues to her. I think I’ll just try to see if she is free and get to know her a bit or message her.
 
OK, but she may wonder why you are only getting back to her months later and ask you why she didn’t hear from you all that time. If a guy did that to me, I’d be suspicious and want to know why it took him months to contact me. You better have some explanation just in case she is suspicious too.
 
Gotta say, five months is a long time. Without explaining to her why it took so long, she might be wondering (as I would) if perhaps you went through all the others and she is your last name on the list…
 
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You better have some explanation just in case she is suspicious too.
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How about this. I’ll give an explanation if she asks for it or if she sounds like she wants one.
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Gotta say, five months is a long time. Without explaining to her why it took so long, she might be wondering (as I would) if perhaps you went through all the others and she is your last name on the list…
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My life is not completely hidden since I have her on facebook.
 
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Go for It!
 
You missed your chance with this girl. 100% she’s not going to respond well.

Bokbok
 
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