How do you let your husband know it's ok to have marital relations?

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My DH has the fertility app on his phone, too. Even though I (name removed by moderator)ut all the data, he has it available in real time, so he can check it whenever- so he knows when it’s “open season”. 😉
 
alphawoman said:
Why is subtlty needed? Isn’t he participating with you, presumably with you talking about your fertility daily?

I’d just be on him like white on rice. No need to wait for an invitation.
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No we don’t talk about my fertility daily.

Maybe we just have too many other things to talk about, but it isn’t a daily conversation.
 
maryjk said:
No we don’t talk about my fertility daily.

Maybe we just have too many other things to talk about, but it isn’t a daily conversation.
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If you have time to have sex, you have time to talk about it. It literally takes a minute or less when you discuss fertility daily:
  • Phase
  • Expectations
  • Summary: temp, cervix, mucus, other observations
It’s just that important. Intimacy requires strong communication as well as physical intimacy.
 
A fun way to let him know is just whisper in his ear the Garage Door is open. He will be ready in a matter of minutes, and its your little secret. And this works good for when FP is no longer an issue to let him know that you are ready and willing(LOL)…
 
alphawoman said:
If you have time to have sex, you have time to talk about it. It literally takes a minute or less when you discuss fertility daily:
  • Phase
  • Expectations
  • Summary: temp, cervix, mucus, other observations
It’s just that important. Intimacy requires strong communication as well as physical intimacy.
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In good marriages, couples who use NFP have a mutual understanding and do whatever works for them. It’s not necessary to have a daily conversation about mucus patterns. In some couples, husbands are more involved. In others, the wife does the charting and will let him know if it’s not an ok day.

Having a daily discussion about it is just not necessary for a lot of couples. I’m actually not even sure what you’d talk about.
 
Lorelei12 said:
In good marriages, couples who use NFP have a mutual understanding and do whatever works for them. It’s not necessary to have a daily conversation about mucus patterns. In some couples, husbands are more involved. In others, the wife does the charting and will let him know if it’s not an ok day.

Having a daily discussion about it is just not necessary for a lot of couples. I’m actually not even sure what you’d talk about.
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Exactly. What is there to discuss? To me at least, a discussion includes a back and forth, give and take.

So, if I say, no go tonight, honey. I don’t really expect a discussion. 🤷
 
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