How do you pray?

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How do you pray? I want to make my daily life a prayer, but end up saying a prayer in the morning and night. I find that there is no depth.

Don’t get me wrong, I am not new to the Faith. I went to a Catholic School for 9 years. I just want to have a deep prayer life. How do I go about this?
 
I pray the Liturgy of the Hours, Morning and Evening Prayer, and often Daytime Prayer.

I follow each with 10-20 minutes of Centering Prayer.

Jim
 
Note: see sticky at top of this section from the staff - centering prayer is not a permitted topic. So please lets not go down that road. Or any other not permitted topics.
 
Note: see sticky at top of this section from the staff - centering prayer is not a permitted topic. So please lets not go down that road. Or any other not permitted topics.
Not discussing Centering Prayer, just answering the OP’s question.

Please stop trying to turn every post I make on prayer into a debate.

Jim
 
I think it’s important to note that a deep prayer life needs a context. That context being that you must live your Catholic faith authentically and generously. Use the Sacraments regularly and do your very best to refuse to sin no matter how small the sin or how strong the temptation. Really strive to love God and your neighbour. Other than that, a daily Rosary is a great option. You could meditate on the Gospel reading of the day for 15 minutes or so every afternoon and try to apply what you learn in your meditation to your life for the rest of the day. Daily Mass is wonderful too.

Here is a link to a youtube video of the first of two parts on contemplative prayer by Fr Thomas Dubay. Both parts one and two are very good for anyone interested in deepening their prayer lives.
youtube.com/watch?v=gAqIvHb9mm4&list=PLgfY2KuJMwc7GmD6wvGeG7T10nNBr5Ke-
 
Not discussing Centering Prayer, just answering the OP’s question.

Please stop trying to turn every post I make on prayer into a debate.

Jim
I do not. I note the rules when CP is brought up. It is actually something* I do not debate* here for that very reason. Nor did I address the post to anyone personally. If someone mentions it I will note it not to be discussed.

It simply is not a permitted topic.

That is what I noted. It is best to stop a discussion before it begins.
 
I do not. I note the rules when CP is brought up. It is actually something* I do not* debate here for that very reason. Nor did I address the post to anyone personally. If someone mentions it I will note it not to be discussed.

It simply is not a permitted topic.

That is what I noted. It is best to stop a discussion before it begins.
The rules state that CP can not be discussed.

It does not mean a person can say that’s how they pray.

Jim
 
Peace and All Good!
How do you pray? I want to make my daily life a prayer, but end up saying a prayer in the morning and night. I find that there is no depth.

Don’t get me wrong, I am not new to the Faith. I went to a Catholic School for 9 years. I just want to have a deep prayer life. How do I go about this?
I love praying Matins (Office of Readings), Lauds, Vespers & Compline from the Breviary, the daily Rosary, the Rosary of 7 Dolors, and Lectio Divina for 20-30 minutes each day.

If you want to make your daily actions a prayer, I can recommend Practicing the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence of the Resurrection & the writings of Blessed Elizabeth of the Trinity, they have really helped me to begin making my daily actions into a prayer.

:blessyou:
 
How do you pray? I want to make my daily life a prayer, but end up saying a prayer in the morning and night. I find that there is no depth.

Don’t get me wrong, I am not new to the Faith. I went to a Catholic School for 9 years. I just want to have a deep prayer life. How do I go about this?
I pray the Liturgy of the Hours (morning, daytime, evening & night prayers); as well as my daily Rosary. I attend daily Mass, (the greatest prayer). I also practice contemplative prayer.
 
Certainly very important in my spiritual life is lectio divina, prayer in silence, the psalms (one could use the Liturgy of the Hours etc), and “short prayers” during all of life.

Lectio Divina

"…I urge you to become familiar with the Bible, and to have it at hand so that it can be your compass pointing out the road to follow. By reading it, you will learn to know Christ. Note what Saint Jerome said in this regard: “Ignorance of the Scriptures is ignorance of Christ” (PL 24,17; cf Dei Verbum, 25). A time-honoured way to study and savour the word of God is lectio divina which constitutes a real and veritable spiritual journey marked out in stages. After the* lectio*, which consists of reading and rereading a passage from Sacred Scripture and taking in the main elements, we proceed to meditatio. This is a moment of interior reflection in which the soul turns to God and tries to understand what his word is saying to us today. Then comes oratio in which we linger to talk with God directly. Finally we come to contemplatio. This helps us to keep our hearts attentive to the presence of Christ whose word is “a lamp shining in a dark place, until the day dawns and the morning star rises in your hearts” (2 Pet 1:19). Reading, study and meditation of the Word should then flow into a life of consistent fidelity to Christ and his teachings.

Saint James tells us: “Be doers of the word, and not merely hearers who deceive themselves. For if any are hearers of the word and not doers, they are like those who look at themselves in a mirror; for they look at themselves and, on going away, immediately forget what they were like. But those who look into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and persevere, being not hearers who forget but doers who act - they will be blessed in their doing” (1:22-25). Those who listen to the word of God and refer to it always, are constructing their existence on solid foundations. “Everyone then who hears these words of mine and acts on them”, Jesus said, “will be like a wise man who built his house on rock” (Mt 7:24). It will not collapse when bad weather comes.

To build your life on Christ, to accept the word with joy and put its teachings into practice…"

–Pope Benedict XVI

vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/messages/youth/documents/hf_ben-xvi_mes_20060222_youth_en.html

Latin: lectio divina -divine reading
lectio: reading
meditatio: meditation
oratio: prayer
contemplatio: contempation

also:

"We are grateful to God that in recent times, and thanks to the impact made by the Dogmatic Constitution “Dei Verbum” the fundamental importance of the Word of God has been deeply re-evaluated. From this has derived a renewal of the Church’s life, especially in her preaching, catechesis, theology and spirituality, and even in the ecumenical process. The Church must be constantly renewed and rejuvenated and the Word of God, which never ages and is never depleted, is a privileged means to achieve this goal. Indeed, it is the Word of God, through the Holy Spirit, which always guides us to the whole truth (cf. John 16:13).

In this context, I would like in particular to recall and recommend the ancient tradition of “Lectio divina”: “the diligent reading of Sacred Scripture accompanied by prayer brings about that intimate dialogue in which the person reading hears God who is speaking, and in praying, responds to him with trusting openness of heart” (cf. “Dei Verbum,” n. 25). If it is effectively promoted, this practice will bring to the Church – I am convinced of it – a new spiritual springtime.

As a strong point of biblical ministry, “Lectio divina” should therefore be increasingly encouraged, also through the use of new methods, carefully thought through and in step with the times. It should never be forgotten that the Word of God is a lamp for our feet and a light for our path (cf. Psalm 119[118]:105)" (Sept 16, 2005)

All from Pope Benedict XVI

and short prayers forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?p=12079236&mode=linear#post12079236
 
Isn’t contemplative prayer only for religious?
Catechism: scborromeo.org/ccc/p4s1c3a1.htm#III

(one can note too that there is contemplative prayer that is called acquired and that which is called “infused” - that later only happens when God infuses it…and the term “contemplation” can get used in some different way by different authors or schools of thought …but that is getting a bit more technical …suffice it to say that “no” contemplation -even infused contemplation is not only for those in Religious Life)
 
Even the Rosary can be contemplative prayer:

St. Pope John Paul II:

"The Rosary, a contemplative prayer
  1. The Rosary, precisely because it starts with Mary’s own experience, is an exquisitely contemplative prayer. Without this contemplative dimension, it would lose its meaning, as Pope Paul VI clearly pointed out: “Without contemplation, the Rosary is a body without a soul, and its recitation runs the risk of becoming a mechanical repetition of formulas, in violation of the admonition of Christ: ‘In praying do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do; for they think they will be heard for their many words’ (Mt 6:7). By its nature the recitation of the Rosary calls for a quiet rhythm and a lingering pace, helping the individual to meditate on the mysteries of the Lord’s life as seen through the eyes of her who was closest to the Lord. In this way the unfathomable riches of these mysteries are disclosed”.(14)"
It is worth pausing to consider this profound insight of Paul VI, in order to bring out certain aspects of the Rosary which show that it is really a form of Christocentric contemplation.

vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/apost_letters/documents/hf_jp-ii_apl_20021016_rosarium-virginis-mariae_en.html
 
I have been trying to get more structured in my prayer life.
I pray to Jesus all the time in my head throughout the day and feel comfortable just “talking to Him.” I’ve been blessed to have felt close to Jesus since childhood, but I think I need to add a little more reverence into the mix. It talk to Him, thank Him, but I want to really worship Him in a more dedicated way. So, I try to say the “Our Father” at least three times a day, as commanded in the Didache, (I’ve been trying to remember to say it prior to each meal) and I recently got a medieval Prymer, which is really helpful for praying the hours. I’ve just started that and soon hope to add the “Chaplet of the Devine Mercy” and the “Litany of the Most Precious Blood.” I’ve also started trying to read from the Gospels at least once a day and from the “Imitation of Christ.” It has been slow going, but I am taking baby steps. 🙂

Jesus says to him, I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father unless by me. John 14:6
 
How do you pray? I want to make my daily life a prayer, but end up saying a prayer in the morning and night. I find that there is no depth.

Don’t get me wrong, I am not new to the Faith. I went to a Catholic School for 9 years. I just want to have a deep prayer life. How do I go about this?
Don’t beat yourself up; morning and evening prayer may be more than many Catholics or Christians. Give yourself a little credit. I’m not sure why you feel there is no depth to these prayers; all prayers are certainly meaningful as long as we keep God in mind. Just mouthing the words is not praying and I believe you understand that.

My personal prayer life includes daily prayer including morning and evening prayer, the Divine Mercy, and the Rosary. I try to set aside specific times in the day that I pray and schedule them (because I’m an office worker) so that work tasks can be done around those times. God comes first and foremost in my day! There are times when work just cannot wait and I take that in stride knowing I’ll pray as soon as I am able to.

I spend some time in my car so I download audio podcast to a USB stick that I listen to as I drive around town (Catholic Answers Live radio has a bunch of REALLY great files!) Can’t devote as much attention as I like for driving safety reasons but I’ve also downloaded various audio files of prayers such as the Liturgical Rosary.

I also schedule a weekday Mass that I attend in addition to Sunday Mass. This helps me to keep Christ in mind throughout the week. Sometimes the daily grind can make me forget to treat everyone I meet like Christ.

Finally, I look for opportunities to bring the Word to others. My particular form of evangelization is via the internet news sites. There are some that I frequent and I choose certain stories that pertain to the Catholic Church or the Christian faith. Using my trusty Catechism of the Catholic Church and my NAB, I try to give a Catholic perspective to the comments section as well as defend the Church when I see a seriously wrong post. I’m not an apologetic yet but I’m always working towards that goal!

God Bless you for keeping your faith burning in your heart and yearning for more.
 
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