Well to be fair and to use those that church uses as an example for us to follow you could always take the St Rose of Lima approach. She had the same problems and she did stop it.
However I think I agree with most of the other posters. If your intention is not to lead others into lust that is all that matters. People can lead themselves to lust no matter what you do.
Manny, in the situation you described, I can only think of two ways to stop this person from lusting after you.
Inflict a brain injury serious enough to cause a permanent coma or similar state.
Kill her.
However, I would be remiss if I failed to point out that there are certain ethical problems with both of these approaches. Of course debates about the death penalty might come to have a special meaning for you.
(Tongue-in-cheek people! I am not advocating violence! In fact, I am advocating exactly the opposite!)
Seriously, you cannot control another person’s thoughts. In our oversexed world, women have been taught to be sexually aggressive, mostly because that is how they are portrayed in porn. Consider telling her that you do not like the idea of being the object of someone else’s lust. After all, that is not how you want to look at women.
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