How does my husband's vasectomy affect my conversion?

[mommy2boys]

I am an evangelical who is being drawn to the Cahtolic church. My husband had a vasectomy after doctors told us not to have any more children after I nearly died having my boys and my first son did die 3 days after birth from being born at 23 weeks. If I were to convert what are we to do. Do I confess this sin? Is it sin since I could die giving birth again? Would I be forgiven? Would my husband have to have a vasectomy reversal? He is not willing to! My husband is NOT willing to convert as well. He is a catholic who converted years ago to reformed evangelical christianity. What am I to do?
Janet

 

[Reginald_Plum]

Janet,

Welcome home! These links should be helpful for you in understanding what your responsibilities are concerning your husband’s vasectomy and your future relations. If you have any further questions or concerns that are not answered by these links, please contact Catholic Answers directly.

Recommended Reading:
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