Kirk (pointing to Mudd) “Everything he says is a lie !”
Mudd - “I’m Lying”
Android - “If he says he is lying and he always lies, then he is telling the truth, but he cannot tell the truth because everything he says is a lie, illogical, illogical…”
Ah, if it were only that easy
It’s about inducing what most refer to as a state of “cognitive dissonance.” It’s NOT about providing clever refutes.
Sociologists and scientists have learned that we have an instinct that appears to keep us from doubting ourselves and dismissing our convictions. It’s an important instinct because it helps us to learn basic truths that can save us from infancy onward. We don’t have to learn that fire is hot again and again and again, especially if we burn ourselves attempting to touch it. This is the instinct I am talking about here.
Like other instincts it is important for survival. But the problem is that, like other instincts, if allowed to run amuck it can overtake us and can even take our lives in the end.
Most of us are not even aware that it is an instinct. We go through life trusting our own logic, believing in ourselves and what we have learned. Difficulties arise when we don’t teach ourselves that we can be mistaken and even fool ourselves into believing what we want to be true.
I am sure some of you right now are quite skeptical about what I am saying. Some of you are ready to even debate me on the subject. And do you know why? Because you have that instinct that we all have. If it’s new or especially something that goes against what you accept or believe, you will be skeptical, argumentative, and even be prone to deny it before you accept that you, yes you, are prone to being wrong due to an instinctive impulse you never knew you had!
There is even a new facet of psychology being developed to help people learn how to control this impulse. It is being called “wrongology.”
When it comes to dealing with the Jehovah’s Witnesses, we have to induce a response called “cognitive dissonance.” It’s actually a state of mental stress brought on by being confronted with two conflicting “realities.” It may be what we believe to be true is suddenly confronted with new data that shows what is REALLY true—and the cognitive dissonance occurs because both “realities” conflict.
Cognitive dissonance requires action. Many can go into denial at this point. But many also choose what some call the “Harry Potter” solution. In all the Harry Potter novels and movies, the protagonist Harry always ends up shocked to learn that what he believed to be true was never true in the first place. Instead of going into denial or remaining in a state of shock, what makes Harry a hero is how quickly he is able to respond to his new “reality.”
That, of course, is fiction. Most of us go through a lot of stress, anger, demonizing, and even denial before we come out the other side and admit that our previous “reality” was in fact falsehood. But sometimes it does happen as quickly as it does for Harry Potter.
So what I am trying to explain is that none of the arguments about doctrine will work until you prove to the Witness that they are holding onto a false “reality.” And you do this by pulling the rug out from under them, so to speak, not arguing or discussing the subjects they are ready with.
It’s about inducing cognitive dissonance so that they will be forced to respond.
They have to face the “Star Wars” truth. They are Luke Skywalker and you are Darth Vader. You have to “cut off their hand”(so to speak) with your lightsaber to get their attention, and ONLY THEN can you tell them the truth: You are their father.
They will scream and cry and holler in denial: “No, that’s no true! That’ impossible!” But without a means to fight back and left only with the cold truth they will finally be in a position to accept that they actually are the offspring of the Dark Lord of the Sith.
You have to take away their lightsaber.