Every time I go to confession, I have great joy for God. However, over time this feeling goes away and I eventually suffer. My question is, is it about a feeling? Should one simply suffer with Christ? I definitely know prayer is very important and I pray a good bit. What am I missing? How can one live a good Catholic life? Also, resources would be excellent as well.
Feelings, as you’ve learned, are fleeting. We should not be governed by our feelings, especially as we want to lead a prayerful and Catholic life.
As I grow in my life, here is what I try to follow for a good Catholic life (and often, I fail, but I get up, and start again)
God First (in thoughts, prayers, actions, words)
Serving God, then serving others through God (not because I believe that works save me, but because Jesus Christ has saved lowly me, which leads me to serve others; I can’t keep His blessings and gifts to myself)
Worshipping God, whether at Mass, Adoration, driving down the street, gazing upon nature, etc.
Living the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy, and the Beatitudes
Loving others (family, friends, strangers, enemies)
Loving myself
Emptying myself of ‘me’, to fill with Him
I do the above with worship at Mass (occasional weekday), Adoration, prayer (especially the Rosary and Divine Mercy); giving of myself (time and money) to others, seeing God in others, practicing humility,
My favorite resource for growing, or a launch pad for growth, is this website. I also have a number of Catholic FB pages that I follow; I receive emails, read the local bulletins and diocesan newspaper.
Don’t try to do it all. I’m always adding new ways to praise God and share His blessings with others. I have a LONG way to go, but when I look at how far He’s brought me in the past 2 years, I am full of thanks and praise for all the Good He has done for me, to me, and with me.
Alleluia!