How does this God make you feel?

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You’ve no doubt come by his a number of times. Let’s be earnest about how it makes us feel to be placed into the verse [1 Samuel 15:2-3] - In my inflated opinion, the most unsettling verse in the entire bible (though it’s difficult to choose):

“This is what the LORD Almighty says: ‘I will punish the Amalekites for what they did to Israel when they waylaid them as they came up from Egypt. Now go, attack the Amalekites and totally destroy everything that belongs to them. Do not spare them; put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle and sheep, camels and donkeys.’”

Please comment on:

Whether or not the wrath is excessive
Does it remind us of God’s perfection, or is it a source of intellectual difficulty?
Is it ever right to lay waste to an entire nation?
Is it ever right to murder infants?


More specifically, how do you feel being placed within the verse? Let’s imagine that God still defeated entire clans for the benefit of some and to the detriment of others. If you are an unfortunate member of that wayward clan, but don’t know in what way or to what extent you’ve strayed, do you consider your annihilation (as well as your infant children’s) to be a morally just thing?

Please comment on:

Whether it would be of moral virture to model our behaviour after God’s
Whether we would contend that God’s ways are perfect if our relationship with him was still as it was in the OT
If the bible did not eventually extend beyond barbarism (as perhaps it does in the NT), would you think it a good book, holy and perfect?


(I understand this will be a heated topic for many, but I’m curious as to peoples’ responses, so please be cool, patient, and above all, thorough)

Any additional comments or questions would be greatly appreciated 🙂
A common atheist ploy is this highly selective reading of the OT focussing on the violence of God. Sometimes you just need to remind yourself what the Bible is about:

payingattentiontothesky.com/2010/03/03/the-story-of-the-old-and-new-testaments/

dj
 
A common atheist ploy is this highly selective reading of the OT focussing on the violence of God. Sometimes you just need to remind yourself what the Bible is about:

payingattentiontothesky.com/2010/03/03/the-story-of-the-old-and-new-testaments/

dj
I’m not unfamiliar with the Bible. The violence just seems like the handy-work of men and not God. We have to accept that poor old Yahweh couldn’t come up with a better plan than bloodshed, nepotism, and vicarious redemption. A limitless God could think of no better solution to enact his love for humanity.
 
What complexities? That God will not command one to Sin? It’s not a complexity, more of an axiom. In fact we Christians are not exclusive in this belief. God has written his laws in our hearts, this is called the natural law.
And what of the special knowledge? Seemed to have glossed over that without much comment…
 
Question answerd, already Think about it, I’m not playing this selective hearing game.
 
It’s easy for the activists to quote the calls for violence in the Qu’ran, but less so for this obscure passage from the OT. They want to outlaw religion becasue they think it will stop ambitious men from wanting to dominate others. Oh, the hypocrisy.

Did the OP mean “How does this God make you feel?” about this specific passage, or feel in general?
 
It’s easy for the activists to quote the calls for violence in the Qu’ran, but less so for this obscure passage from the OT. They want to outlaw religion becasue they think it will stop ambitious men from wanting to dominate others. Oh, the hypocrisy.
Not really the angle I’m working on. I’m working on the angle that it doesn’t remind us of God’s perfection or morality or justice or whatever.
Did the OP mean “How does this God make you feel?” about this specific passage, or feel in general?
Both would be great. I have specific questions outlined in the first post - not too many people have ventured an honest stab at them.
 
I’m not unfamiliar with the Bible. The violence just seems like the handy-work of men and not God. We have to accept that poor old Yahweh couldn’t come up with a better plan than bloodshed, nepotism, and vicarious redemption. A limitless God could think of no better solution to enact his love for humanity.
“I’m not unfamiliar with the Bible?”

Yet your interpretation and highly selective readings that enforce a view of God as violent, revelling in “bloodshed, nepotism, and vicarious redemption” etc. etc. display a total unfamiliarity. If you had read the links I provided, you would have found two leading theologians, one an Easter Orthodox scholar the other a deceased RC scholar and former Cardinal who offer a narrative of the OT and NT that conflict completely with your interpretation.

Yet you discard their opinions and conclude with your ho-hum “I have specific questions outlined in the first post - not too many people have ventured an honest stab at them.” I guess we have all failed to live up to your discriminating intellect. Guess its just our inability to be as honest as you are…

Ho-hum. What’s the brilliant atheist to do? Diddley Diddley dew… The flatulence of great minds…

payingattentiontothesky.com/motives-for-atheism-%e2%80%93-david-carlin/

dj
 
I’m not unfamiliar with the Bible. The violence just seems like the handy-work of men and not God. We have to accept that poor old Yahweh couldn’t come up with a better plan than bloodshed, nepotism, and vicarious redemption. A limitless God could think of no better solution to enact his love for humanity.
A limitless God who has to work with limited man. He can’t save us against our will, remember, so we have to co-operate with Him, and to some extent He with us.

It’s like a parent who has a three-year-old child doing something wrong. The parent can try to make themselves understood by peaceable means, by reasoning with the child and whatnot. But the child just won’t understand, sometimes, or won’t obey, and this is due to its own lack of maturity and capacity rather than any failing of the parent. So, sometimes, only a smack or other punishment will do to get the message across sufficiently for the child to understand.
 
A limitless God who has to work with limited man. He can’t save us against our will, remember, so we have to co-operate with Him, and to some extent He with us.

It’s like a parent who has a three-year-old child doing something wrong. The parent can try to make themselves understood by peaceable means, by reasoning with the child and whatnot. But the child just won’t understand, sometimes, or won’t obey, and this is due to its own lack of maturity and capacity rather than any failing of the parent. So, sometimes, only a smack or other punishment will do to get the message across sufficiently for the child to understand.
That’s how it is.

God, nor his Angels were seen as Friendly and all forgiving. All three monotheistic religions (Christianity, Islam, and Judaism) all originally had the same view of God and Angels. They were wrathful and vigilante. But they do love, and forgive at times when it is actually permissible.

In fact, a Muslim friend of mine said this in his beliefs in a perfect way.

“God is the most loving and caring. but is also the most severe in punishment.”

Those who won’t repent, those who won’t seek redemption, those who don’t sincerely ask and pray for forgiveness with fear in their hearts of what their punishment might be, will not be forgiven.

That is how God was first viewed.
 
“I’m not unfamiliar with the Bible?”

Yet your interpretation and highly selective readings that enforce a view of God as violent, revelling in “bloodshed, nepotism, and vicarious redemption” etc. etc. display a total unfamiliarity. If you had read the links I provided, you would have found two leading theologians, one an Easter Orthodox scholar the other a deceased RC scholar and former Cardinal who offer a narrative of the OT and NT that conflict completely with your interpretation.

Yet you discard their opinions and conclude with your ho-hum “I have specific questions outlined in the first post - not too many people have ventured an honest stab at them.” I guess we have all failed to live up to your discriminating intellect. Guess its just our inability to be as honest as you are…

Ho-hum. What’s the brilliant atheist to do? Diddley Diddley dew… The flatulence of great minds…

payingattentiontothesky.com/motives-for-atheism-%e2%80%93-david-carlin/

dj
Words of defeat, all. 🙂
A limitless God who has to work with limited man. He can’t save us against our will, remember, so we have to co-operate with Him, and to some extent He with us.

It’s like a parent who has a three-year-old child doing something wrong. The parent can try to make themselves understood by peaceable means, by reasoning with the child and whatnot. But the child just won’t understand, sometimes, or won’t obey, and this is due to its own lack of maturity and capacity rather than any failing of the parent. So, sometimes, only a smack or other punishment will do to get the message across sufficiently for the child to understand.
This analogy works perfect: parents punish a child who cannot understand that what they’re doing is wrong. God creates us ill and punishes us for not doing what he wants. The only difference is, parents cannot give a child perfect understanding, but God could have given us perfect understanding and didn’t. Perfect understanding + free will = salvation. Imperfect understanding + free will = damnation for most of humanity. You would say that my antagonism towards God is in the fact that I don’t understand the reasons behind his existence, and not that I believe in Him and just want to see what eternity in hell is like. Why the poor understanding then? Who engendered such a thing in me that I may not come to understand the things that would bring me to salvation?
 
Words of defeat, all. 🙂

This analogy works perfect: parents punish a child who cannot understand that what they’re doing is wrong. God creates us ill and punishes us for not doing what he wants. The only difference is, parents cannot give a child perfect understanding, but God could have given us perfect understanding and didn’t. Perfect understanding + free will = salvation. Imperfect understanding + free will = damnation for most of humanity. You would say that my antagonism towards God is in the fact that I don’t understand the reasons behind his existence, and not that I believe in Him and just want to see what eternity in hell is like. Why the poor understanding then? Who engendered such a thing in me that I may not come to understand the things that would bring me to salvation?
First of all, God cannot give humans perfect understanding of Himself, at least on earth, without fundamentally changing their nature such that they cease to be human at all. A circle by definition cannot be a circle if it has four sides, but becomes something else - a square. God obviously wants humans to be human, not robots, angels or anything else.

Nor would such perfect understanding necessarily lead to the salvation of souls if He DID grant it - many people understand all sorts of things perfectly well and yet still reject them out of stubbornness, pride, selfishness, or for a million other reasons.

Thanks be, we don’t NEED perfect understanding in order to be saved, nothing like.

To build on my analogy, no child needs equal wisdom to its parents in order to avoid punishment. A child who loves them, obeys what it is told to do by them, accepts that the parents know better than the child what is best for it, and trusts that they give their orders for its benefit, will avoid punishment just as surely as one who totally comprehends WHY they order as they do.
 
First of all, God cannot give humans perfect understanding of Himself, at least on earth, without fundamentally changing their nature such that they cease to be human at all. A circle by definition cannot be a circle if it has four sides, but becomes something else - a square. God obviously wants humans to be human, not robots, angels or anything else.

Nor would such perfect understanding necessarily lead to the salvation of souls if He DID grant it - many people understand all sorts of things perfectly well and yet still reject them out of stubbornness, pride, selfishness, or for a million other reasons.
You’re limiting God again to save his good name. It is possible, as all things are possible with God, to give us reason at least far greater than what it is. And you speak of stubbourness, pride, and selfishness as if they are disconnected from reason or it’s lack. The reason I’m talking about - that God could have given to us - could have been powerful enough to dismantle these appetites in our thinking. Stubbourness, pride, and selfishness aren’t entities unto themselves; they’re caused by ignorance - the very thing God would be amending by giving us greater reasoning abilities.
Thanks be, we don’t NEED perfect understanding in order to be saved, nothing like.
To build on my analogy, no child needs equal wisdom to its parents in order to avoid punishment. A child who loves them, obeys what it is told to do by them, accepts that the parents know better than the child what is best for it, and trusts that they give their orders for its benefit, will avoid punishment just as surely as one who totally comprehends WHY they order as they do.
And this is the problem with the analogy: a child is easily able to see, not only that the parents love them, but that the good things that come to him in life are from his parents. If a child does not understand why he should obey his parents (i.e., if he does not know the reasons why he should, as atheists don’t their heavenly father), should he be punished for his inability to reason to that extent? Not that this is the whole of learning, but it is part of: A child learns that his parents are to obeyed, to trust them, and that they know what is good for him, because he interacts with them in the physical world - he recieves verbal accolades or treats or punishments or whatever based on the actions he carries out. These punishments and rewards are never seen in the Christian perspective until after death, none of which can before-hand reinforce certain behaviours except by threat or promise from alleged messengers of God. So you can see how visable interactive parents are a lot different from an invisable, ellusive God (I say elusive only to denote that people who don’t learn about God, never learn to worship God either, because they know nothing of Him). Not knowing about God, either in His ways or at all, is ignorance, all of which would have been improved upon with greater reasoning.
 
God should’ve dismantled our stubbornness, pride and selfishness? In other words He should’ve not granted us free-will and not made us human?

I’ll draw another analogy. Many times I have loved people who in return have not loved me, who have rejected me, who have hurt me. Would removing their free-will, such that they were all constrained to love me, make my life easier (and perhaps theirs, given how I’ve hurt them by my reactions)? Sure.

Would I do it (remove their free-will) even if I could? Of course not. Because the rewards - the having people who DO love me entirely out of their free-will and the benefits of allowing others the free-will to love by choice rather than compulsion - far outweigh even the paltry, inferior satisfactions of the alternative. I cannot think of much worse than having people tell me they love me yet knowing that, given true freedom, at least some would choose against me. I’m sure those on the other side would similarly agree that even with its problems, free-will is preferable to a state of compulsion.

In regard your comments about parents - I’ll tell you right now that everything my parents told me to do was spot on at the time, pretty much. I know that now, of course, with hindsight, having reached the ripe old age of 36.

I certainly didn’t know most of it, and couldn’t see most of it, at the time when I was a child or a teenager. Did I ALWAYS get punished for disobeying them? Well, not directly, for one thing they didn’t always know when I disobeyed them, for another at times I was spared, either by dumb luck or miracle, from suffering the consequences of my stupidity. For stupidity always has bad consequences, as it should, otherwise we’d never be motivated to learn and grow in wisdom.

Was I always wrong to disobey? I’d say yes. I am unaware of a single instance where I was better off for disobeying, and lots of occasions (of course) where I was worse off. So of course I ought to have trusted them, and of course they were right to punish me for disobeying, for I knew sufficient to make my disobedience wrong. Again, I saw little or none of this at the time, but what I did see was more than enough.

Fact is that I only NOW, after all this time, can I see all of the above very clearly. Is the fact that they couldn’t always get it through my thick skull when I was four, or ten, or sixteen, in any way their fault? Or is it mine for stubbornly preferring to go my own way and setting myself up as an authority rather than trusting their superior wisdom?

God is elusive? That’s why the majority of people in EVERY country claim to believe in Him? It’s why 1/3 of all people on this earth are Christian - far more than any other religion? And believe furthermore that His word is contained in Scripture, absent the few books over which we quibble? The fact that so many people know His name and believe in Him and His word indicates that He is far from elusive.
 
God should’ve dismantled our stubbornness, pride and selfishness? In other words He should’ve not granted us free-will and not made us human? … free-will to love by choice rather than compulsion
We could have been human, we could have had free will, and we could have had the opportunity to act in an infinite number of good ways. Our freedom would have been limited to the ways in which we could love God, but so what? Let’s pretend there were a multitude of other ways to act: love for God, hate for God, zorb for God, quib for God, stot for God, and kirg for God (these are hypothetical other ways we could have acted). Now you would be arguing right now, if these other means of acting (outside of love and hate) brought upon damnation, that to take them away would limit our free will. No, God just would have left our human nature free of the things that could condemn us, and that would be better than a system in which countless multitudes of people would suffer eternally. We don’t complain that our free will is in violation because we can’t have zorb, quib, stot, and kirg for God (and thank God we don’t! Because that would mean a lot more ways to enter the firey pit). So what is the problem with only being able to act in love (but in many freely chosen ways)?
For stupidity always has bad consequences, as it should, otherwise we’d never be motivated to learn and grow in wisdom… I saw little or none of this at the time
Okay, well maybe you didn’t see it (I doubt this, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt): whether you saw it or not - whether you were thinking on it or not - you were certainly learning from it (any psychologist will attest to this). We cannot be motivated (as you’ve said) to learn correct behaviour without it being rewarded or punished. Furthermore, you’ve never seen someone rewarded or punished eternally. This, in psychological terms, means that you haven’t actually learned anything, nor should you have been expected to. You can’t learn what you don’t see or experience. God, in that sense, makes a poor analogy for a parent (unless he is the type of God who bestows kingships and throws lightnight bolts in this day - in which case, I’ll have to revamp my argument)
God is elusive? That’s why the majority of people in EVERY country claim to believe in Him? It’s why 1/3 of all people on this earth are Christian - far more than any other religion? And believe furthermore that His word is contained in Scripture, absent the few books over which we quibble? The fact that so many people know His name and believe in Him and His word indicates that He is far from elusive.
I think there are a lot of caveats to those figures that you’re leaving out, but that aside, It doesn’t matter to me what the world thinks or how much of it. The Egyptian sun-god Ra would have been worshiped, potentially, by more believers than Christianity has ever known. You don’t regard Ra, and I don’t regard Yahweh, so let’s not appeal to masses of people, because we can select any group in time and space to do it with.
 
We could have been human, we could have had free will, and we could have had the opportunity to act in an infinite number of good ways. Our freedom would have been limited to the ways in which we could love God, but so what? Let’s pretend there were a multitude of other ways to act: love for God, hate for God, zorb for God, quib for God, stot for God, and kirg for God (these are hypothetical other ways we could have acted). Now you would be arguing right now, if these other means of acting (outside of love and hate) brought upon damnation, that to take them away would limit our free will. No, God just would have left our human nature free of the things that could condemn us, and that would be better than a system in which countless multitudes of people would suffer eternally. We don’t complain that our free will is in violation because we can’t have zorb, quib, stot, and kirg for God (and thank God we don’t! Because that would mean a lot more ways to enter the firey pit). So what is the problem with only being able to act in love (but in many freely chosen ways)?
But you have it wrong. We DO have an infinite number of ways we can feel towards God - love, hate, fear, indifference, confusion, apathy (not to be confused with indifference), gratitude (not to be confused with love), resentment, attraction, repulsion, worshipfulness, awe, friendliness, distance, utter incomprehension - in fact we can feel the whole gamut of emotion towards God.

And those feelings can motivate us to act in an infinite number of ways toward God as well.

We can be quiet and still in wonder and prostrate ourselves in worship, we can pray silently or out loud, gather in Churches to pray with our fellows, we can shout for joy, sing, dance, play music, preach, teach, heal, speak in ‘tongues’, walk the streets waving banners with messages about Him.

We can scratch our heads in puzzlement and ask all sorts of questions on CAF or of priests, rabbis or imams, write articles or poetry about our atheism/agnositicsm, or make TV shows or movies or music about them.

Or on another hand we can utter blasphemies against Him or expressions of hatred towards Him, vandalise Churches or mosques, spit on priests or preachers, petition for, write and enact laws enshrining freedom of (which equally means freedom of) religion and the like.

There’s no end to the actions we can do ‘for’ or ‘against’ God - or in a spirit of agnosticism.
Okay, well maybe you didn’t see it (I doubt this, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt): whether you saw it or not
You think it’s doubtful that kids who are disciplined by their parents usually think at the time the parents are wrong? And usually think that they are right, that they know more than the parents and are being unjustly punished? It’s incredibly common - I’d be most surprised if you’d never experienced it yourself.
You were certainly learning from it (any psychologist will attest to this).
At the time I was NOT necessarily learning that my parents were always right - that insight only came to me well and truly after the fact. And yet you expect us, with our limited understanding, not only to at some stage understand Almighty God, but to have instantaneous insight before or at the time that He punishes us?
We cannot be motivated (as you’ve said) to learn correct behaviour without it being rewarded or punished. Furthermore, you’ve never seen someone rewarded or punished eternally. This, in psychological terms, means that you haven’t actually learned anything, nor should you have been expected to. You can’t learn what you don’t see or experience. God, in that sense, makes a poor analogy for a parent (unless he is the type of God who bestows kingships and throws lightnight bolts in this day - in which case, I’ll have to revamp my argument)
Well, some of God’s rewards are and have been earthly, true. Not all, but some. Not that I solely or mostly base my claims on them.

I haven’t physically seen someone rewarded or punished eternally, true. But then I’ve never physically seen someone subjected to waterboarding or the electric chair either. Yet I certainly believe that people ARE subjected to it. Why? Because I’ve read about it and heard about it from sources who I trust. Might they all be lying? Or mistaken? Sure, but it’s most unlikely.

Same with eternal punishment - for one thing there are numerous accounts of people who have been granted visions of hell and purgatory as well as heaven. Including atheists and areligious types who’ve had Near Death Experiences - which are by no means all positive ‘step-into-the-light’ kind of goings-on. They describe what they saw, they have no motive to lie, they are unlikely to all be deluded or mistaken - so I can trust them as much as I trust people who write about torture.
I think there are a lot of caveats to those figures that you’re leaving out, but that aside, It doesn’t matter to me what the world thinks or how much of it. The Egyptian sun-god Ra would have been worshiped, potentially, by more believers than Christianity has ever known. You don’t regard Ra, and I don’t regard Yahweh, so let’s not appeal to masses of people, because we can select any group in time and space to do it with.
The ancient world had nowhere near the population levels to make it possible, especially given that belief in the ancient Egyptian gods was pretty much localised to Egypt rather than being a phenomenon that spread far and wide across all continents as Christianity has done.

Even so, what we’re arguing about is ELUSIVENESS - ie the difficulty of finding out information. You’ve said God is elusive, in other words that it’s difficult to find out information about Him. I’ve argued He is not, because many HAVE found out about Him.

I certainly wouldn’t call Ra ‘elusive’ either - even though I don’t believe in Ra personally it’s easy enough to find out what was believed about him. I happen not to believe it - but to say it is because Ra is elusive is nonsense, so it is to say that God is ‘elusive’.
 
Lily M,

For brevity, just explain to me why an infinite number of kind actions would not work as God’s plan? At least then, people would be free to choose within a range of options, and still be free from perishing. You neglect to see that we are limited in our actions anyway. So long as we are incapable of feeling towards God every conceivable existent and non-existent feeling that can be felt, then we are still limited in our actions. If we were going to be limited anyway, it might as well be to do good rather than harm (and thus, avoiding damnation).
 
Lily M,

For brevity, just explain to me why an infinite number of kind actions would not work as God’s plan? At least then, people would be free to choose within a range of options, and still be free from perishing. You neglect to see that we are limited in our actions anyway. So long as we are incapable of feeling towards God every conceivable existent and non-existent feeling that can be felt, then we are still limited in our actions. If we were going to be limited anyway, it might as well be to do good rather than harm (and thus, avoiding damnation).
Unless we ALL attempt to sign the Covenant for behavior and do a “good enough” job to live it (The United States of America, God Shed His Grace On Thee), the ambitious and the unrighteous will always see the opportunity to oppress the “weak” who practice an infinite number of kind actions, and a tyrant will assume power sooner or later. The rest is just wishful thinking (beautiful, unrealistic dreams).
 
I’ll tell you how this God makes me feel.

All the love-less sex, drugs, alcohol, excessive materialism, gambling, food, entertainment, shallow amusements don’t compare to the spiritual and emotional depth of Catholicism. Journeying down the road of life, many people choose these distractions along the way because they feel good in the short term. Sacrifice is difficult. Sacrifice made me feel like I was losing when I’d rather be winning (feeling good). Serving friends and family makes them happy and they, in turn, make you happy and appreciative of that rare time to self. Finding a fellow Catholic who follows the rules reasonably well is like pure gold because you know what the goal is, what you need to give, and what you are likely to feel along the way. Independent individualism means selfish love games and power plays because there’s no universal agreement for behavior (Covenant). Pop culture 's message constantly sells us out to our basic instinctual lust (desire for the easy) for the instant gratification laundry list above. That’s one big reason we can’t find our way.

I wish the Church would do a better job of explaining this to people. If they did, more would find their way. So many people are looking in the exact oposite direction. They’re looking more towards the individual self, entertaining oneself with comfort and convenience, when true love’s depth can be found by following God’s Covenant.
 
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